{"id":20210,"date":"2020-08-10T05:59:55","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T02:59:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20210"},"modified":"2020-08-10T09:35:49","modified_gmt":"2020-08-10T06:35:49","slug":"posta-redactiei-teama-de-iubire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-teama-de-iubire\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: Teama de iubire"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, ofeream iubire cititorului nostru, sub form\u0103 de mailuri, dar \u00eentre timp, \u00eem pandemie, mailurile au devenit de o frecven\u0163\u0103 aproape zilnic\u0103. Nu e o problem\u0103, sora voastr\u0103 Lorena e mereu pe faz\u0103, cu inboxul cald \u015fi primitor pe birou@lorenalupu.com.<\/p>\n

Mailul de azi zice a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Salut, Lore, <\/strong><\/p>\n

O s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 sunt nebun\u0103 \u015fi o s\u0103 ai dreptate. Iubesc cum n-am iubit \u00een via\u0163a mea \u015fi m\u0103 c*c pe mine de fric\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 acum, am avut parte numai de pr\u0103p\u0103di\u0163i. De tri\u015fti care disp\u0103reau a doua zi dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 culcam cu ei, de tri\u015fti care disp\u0103reau a doua zi dac\u0103 m\u0103 culcam cu ei, de tri\u015fti care te jigneau s\u0103 se simt\u0103 ei b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi de tri\u015fti care nu se pricep la nimic. Nici \u00een rela\u0163ie, nici \u00een pat.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

De c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, l-am cunoscut pe Y, \u015fi cu el, treaba a mers perfect din prima. E extrem de atent. \u015etie ce urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103 zic. E mereu prezent c\u00e2nd stabilim ceva. M\u0103 ascult\u0103. M\u0103 apreciaz\u0103. M\u0103 caut\u0103, dar nu e pis\u0103log, \u00ce\u0219i respect\u0103 toate promisiunile. E pentru prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd simt c\u0103 sunt iubit\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Efectul, drag\u0103 Lorena, e c\u0103 nu mai pot de fric\u0103. E at\u00e2t de frumos, \u00eenc\u00e2t mi-e groaz\u0103 s\u0103 nu spun sau s\u0103 nu fac ceva gre\u0219it, s\u0103 \u00eel pierd. Mi-e fric\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi. Mi-e fric\u0103 c\u0103 azi e ziua c\u00e2nd se prinde c\u0103 sunt femei mult mai bune pe lume, \u0219i m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te. Mi-e fric\u0103 pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 l-a\u0219 pierde, a\u0219 suferi \u00eengrozitor.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ce s\u0103 fac?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

O mul\u021bime de oameni tr\u0103iesc vie\u021bi guvernate de fric\u0103 \u0219i iau decizii bazate pe fric\u0103, dintr-o nesiguran\u021b\u0103 profund\u0103 izvor\u00e2t\u0103 fie din traume,fie din ura de sine. Partea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 tu recuno\u0219ti.<\/p>\n

\u0218i gigeii care \u00eenjur\u0103 femei pe net o fac tot din frica indus\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 n-ar face fa\u021b\u0103 unui dialog normal. Numai c\u0103 ei nu recunosc. Avantaj tu.<\/p>\n

E extrem de greu s\u0103-i spui unui om s\u0103 nu-i mai fie fric\u0103, pentru c\u0103 frica e pentru mul\u021bi un fel de a fi.<\/p>\n

Ce cred c\u0103 ar ajuta pu\u021bin e s\u0103-i propui s\u0103 face\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 fie un curs de dans \u00een doi, fie un sport. de contact sau, de ce nu, tenis la dublu. Toate astea implic\u0103 nu doar timp petrecut \u00eempreun\u0103, ci coordonare cu cel\u0103lalt, func\u021bionare \u00een simbioz\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ajut\u0103, totodat\u0103, s\u0103 fii un partener la fel de afectuos, de atent, de solid \u00een promisiuni \u0219i iubibil precum \u00ee\u021bi e \u0219i el \u021bie.<\/p>\n

\u0218i mai e un hook. F\u0103-l s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine cu tine. Dac\u0103 faci un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi, va a\u0219tepta cu ner\u0103bdare s\u0103 mai petreac\u0103 timp cu tine.<\/p>\n

Ah. \u0218i exprim\u0103 toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 emo\u021bie, pasiune \u0219i nevoie \u00een modul \u00een care faci sex. Pentru gigei pro\u0219ti, sexul e activitate recreativ\u0103, ca semin\u021bele. Pentru oameni cu emo\u021bii puternice, sexul e un mod elevat de a comunica.<\/p>\n

F***-l ca \u0219i cum nu ai putea tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 el \u0219i o s\u0103-l ai la picioare pentru totdeauna.<\/p>\n

E greu s\u0103 construie\u0219ti \u00eencredere, pentru c\u0103 fricile nu dispar niciodat\u0103 peste noapte. Dar frica poate fi convertit\u0103 \u00eentr-o for\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi fi sus\u021bin\u0103tori de n\u0103dejde.<\/p>\n

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