\u00cemi place c\u0103 ai blogul cel mai queer \u0219i open-minded din Rom\u00e2nia. De aceea \u00ee\u021bi scriu.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Am 33 de ani, dou\u0103 pisici, un job ok, bine pl\u0103tit, locuiesc \u00een Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i sunt b\u0103iat. Destul de dr\u0103gu\u021b, zice lumea. M\u0103 atrag foarte mult femeile trans, mi se par extrem de sexy. sunt client al prostituatelor trans, m\u0103 excit\u0103 corpurile lor, am fantezia femeii perfecte cu \u021b\u00e2\u021be mari \u0219i o p*** de cal. Sper c\u0103 nu te sim\u021bi inconfortabil c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi scriu asta, dar ai mai avut tu scrisori p**no de la cititori, cred c\u0103 pot s\u0103 fiu sincer.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Am avut diverse experien\u021be cu femei trans, unele m-au f***t sec \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 siropo\u0219enii, altele au acceptat s\u0103 ofere girlfriend experience, c\u00e2teva cer\u00e2nd o sum\u0103 mai mare. <\/strong><\/p>\n De cam un an, simt nevoia de cineva stabil \u00een via\u021ba mea \u0219i \u0219tiu sigur c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fie o femeie trans neoperat\u0103. Dar c\u00e2nd discu\u021bi cu ele pe apps de dating, sunt mult mai ofensate \u0219i mai sensibile dec\u00e2t sex workeri\u021bele, se sup\u0103r\u0103 la \u00eentreb\u0103ri prea directe, te expediaz\u0103 \u0219i te resping. Nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 ob\u021bin nici m\u0103car un date. Ce fac gre\u0219it \u0219i cum a\u0219 putea ob\u021bine ce \u00eemi doresc?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Mul\u021bumesc \u0219i sper s\u0103 ai un r\u0103spuns,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Cum s\u0103 compari fetele, fie ele bio, trans sau whatever, de pe aplica\u021bii de dating, adic\u0103 femei \u00een c\u0103utarea unei pove\u0219ti de dragoste, cu persoanele care ofer\u0103 un serviciu, \u00ee\u0219i iau banii \u0219i palarevedere?<\/p>\n E ca \u0219i cum m-a\u0219 duce s\u0103 vizitez Clujul, \u0219i a\u0219 compara locuitul la prieteni cu statul la hotel. La hotel pl\u0103te\u0219ti o sum\u0103 de bani, \u0219i se tarifeaz\u0103 separat minibar, room service, sp\u0103lat haine, etc., drept care \u00eemi permit preten\u021bii de client, obiec\u021bii legate de detalii \u0219i \u00eentreb\u0103ri nepotrivite.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 locuiesc la prieteni, ei nu au vreo obliga\u021bie rezonabil\u0103 s\u0103\/\u0219i modifice casa, s\u0103 m\u0103 serveasc\u0103 \u00een pat, s\u0103 aib\u0103 bufet suedez preg\u0103tit special pentru mine sau s\u0103 \u00eemi calce c\u0103m\u0103\u0219ile. Evident, vor face un mic efort s\u0103 m\u0103 simt bine primit\u0103. Dac\u0103 vor. Dar nu pot pretinde eu s\u0103 mi se dea aia, aia \u0219i aia de la persoane care au doar o rela\u021bie amical\u0103 cu mine.<\/p>\n Mbun.<\/p>\n Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 un date?<\/p>\n Un date e un prilej ca dou\u0103 persoane reciproc interesate una de cealalt\u0103 s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103 mai bine, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i descopere compatibilitatea uman\u0103 \u0219i erotic\u0103, \u0219i s\u0103 stabileasc\u0103 o conexiune.<\/p>\n Acum, dac\u0103 vii tu cu bagajul fanteziilor tale erotice \u0219i cu imaginea a cum trebuie s\u0103 fie o femeie (punctez, indiferent dac\u0103 e o femeie nativ\u0103 sau una devenit\u0103), \u0219i \u00eencepi s\u0103 stresezi cu asta o persoan\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, tendin\u021ba natural\u0103 e s\u0103 te bage \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii de creep \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun\u0103 c\u0103 te duci dracu pe sites de escorte, s\u0103 te rezolve.<\/p>\n E ca \u0219i cum ai pretinde room service \u0219i prosop \u00een form\u0103 de leb\u0103d\u0103 de la prietenii la care te duci \u00een vizit\u0103. Reac\u021bia de what the actual f e justificat\u0103.<\/p>\n Nici o rela\u021bie, hetero sau queer, nu poate func\u021biona pe cerin\u021be presetate \u0219i pe list\u0103 de a\u0219tept\u0103ri. \u0218i dau un exemplu de familie tradi\u021bional\u0103.<\/p>\n C\u00e2nd se \u00eensoar\u0103 Ion cu Maria, Ion e un mascul musculos, cu corpul lucrat la sal\u0103, plin de energie tinereasc\u0103, \u0219i gata s\u0103 mute mun\u021bii. Maria \u021bine diet\u0103 \u0219i face sport, e frumoas\u0103, sub\u021biric\u0103, o po\u021bi pune pe orice copert\u0103 de revist\u0103 dac\u0103 o \u00eembraci \u0219i o machiezi ok.<\/p>\n Anii trec. Am\u00e2ndoi se \u00eengra\u0219\u0103, vin eventual \u0219i copiii, efortul financiar e mare, trebuie s\u0103 ia nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2te joburi s\u0103-i \u00eentre\u021bin\u0103, nu mai au timp de corpurile lor, intervine \u0219i \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirea natural\u0103, \u0219i uzura fizic\u0103 a sarcinilor. \u00cen 30 de ani, am\u00e2ndoi arat\u0103 ca ni\u0219te cet\u0103\u021beni de v\u00e2rst\u0103 mijlocie obi\u0219nui\u021bi.<\/p>\n De ce, \u00een unele cazuri, rela\u021bia se men\u021bine chiar \u0219i a\u0219a?<\/p>\n Pentru c\u0103 accentul nu era doar pe looks \u0219i pe c\u00e2t de mare e p*** lui Ion sau c\u00e2t de rotund e c*** Mariei. Cei care s-au uitat doar la asta au divor\u021bat de mult. Accentul era pe c\u00e2t de apropia\u021bi sunt Ion \u0219i Maria, c\u00e2t de compatibili uman sunt, c\u00e2t de mult se sus\u021bin unul pe altul \u00een fa\u021ba provoc\u0103rilor de zi cu zi ale vie\u021bii \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult pre\u021buiesc prezen\u021ba celuilalt \u00een via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n Asta, dragul meu cititor, e o poveste real\u0103 de dragoste.<\/p>\n Drept care, sugerez c\u0103, dac\u0103 intri \u00een vorb\u0103 cu o tip\u0103 trans, s\u0103 nu o mai iei cu: Auzi, drag\u0103, sper s\u0103 ai p***. Poate s\u0103 decid\u0103 c\u0103 vrea opera\u021bia respectiv\u0103 dup\u0103 doi ani de rela\u021bie, \u0219i tu, ca partener iubitor, nu po\u021bi spune unui om aflat \u00een plin\u0103 evolu\u021bie personal\u0103: “Vreau de la tine organul sexual X, c\u0103 numai \u0103la m\u0103 satisface”. E egoist \u015fi dezam\u0103gitor. \u015ei inutil, \u00eentr-o lume plin\u0103 de sex shopuri care \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 obiecte numai bune s\u0103 \u00eenlocuiasc\u0103 orice organ \u0163i se pare c\u0103 lipse\u015fte.<\/p>\n E un loc pentru exprimarea fanteziilor erotice \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie, dar \u015ftii c\u00e2nd e \u0103la? Mai ales dac\u0103 tu spui c\u0103 vrei rela\u0163ie long term? <\/strong>Dup\u0103 ce s-a construit conexiunea uman\u0103, dorin\u0163a \u015fi \u00eencrederea reciproc\u0103. \u015ei mai ales c\u00e2nd e vorba de femei trans, care au experimentat h\u0103r\u0163uire, umilin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nenum\u0103rate jigniri toat\u0103 via\u0163a, ai un pic de munc\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 le c\u00e2\u015ftigi \u00eencrederea.<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i doresc baft\u0103 \u00een a g\u0103si fata dorit\u0103, \u015fi un mod mai uman \u015fi gentil de a pune problema.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A venit pandemia, \u00eei \u021bine pe oameni \u00een case, iar oamenii simt nevoia s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i comunice sentimentele, nevoile, problemele mult mai intens dec\u00e2t \u00eenainte....<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20252,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20251","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/gender.jpg?fit=640%2C432&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20251","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20251"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20251\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20254,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20251\/revisions\/20254"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20252"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20251"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20251"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20251"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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