{"id":20345,"date":"2020-09-03T09:30:34","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T06:30:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20345"},"modified":"2024-09-03T11:23:25","modified_gmt":"2024-09-03T08:23:25","slug":"posta-redactiei-e-oare-prea-tarziu-la-30-de-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-e-oare-prea-tarziu-la-30-de-ani\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: E oare prea t\u00e2rziu la 30 de ani?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n<p>Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n<p>Scrisorica de azi zice a\u0219a:<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>Drag\u0103 Lorena. <\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Am 30 de ani \u015fi sunt mam\u0103. Am o feti\u0163\u0103 foarte bun\u0103, foarte cuminte, aproape c\u0103 mi-a\u015f dori s\u0103 fie mai copil. Am un job lini\u015ftit \u015fi plictisitor la stat, rutinat \u015fi tipicar, acelea\u015fi taskuri banale \u00een fiecare zi, acelea\u015fi colege plictisite, cu acelea\u015fi subiecte de b\u00e2rf\u0103. Nu m-am integrat niciodat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat \u00eentre ele, pentru c\u0103 am fost mereu excentric\u0103 \u015fi diferit\u0103, dar nici nu-mi doresc.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>A\u015f vrea s\u0103 \u00eencep un business nou, poate s\u0103 organizez cursuri online, oricum, ceva care s\u0103 implice energie pozitiv\u0103 \u015fi lucru cu oameni diferi\u0163i \u015fi interesan\u0163i.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>E oare prea t\u00e2rziu la 30 de ani?<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Mul\u0163umesc,<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>X.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>R\u0103spuns scurt: Hell no, wtf!?<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103spuns lung \u015fi mai nuan\u0163at:<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 ai observat, dar 30 de noul 18. Cu ajutorul sportului \u015fi al cosmeticii, \u00een majoritatea cazurilor, un om de 30 de ani arat\u0103 la fel de bine ca unul de 18, cu suplimentul \u00eencrederii \u00een for\u0163ele proprii. Sigur, nu mereu. Tu se pare c\u0103 n-o ai nici la 30.<br \/>\nCu excep\u0163ia unor domenii foarte specifice, cum ar fi baletul \u015fi patinajul artistic, a c\u0103ror precizie \u00een execu\u0163ie cere date corporale specifice unei anumite v\u00e2rste &#8211; dar \u015fi ele au un frate mai democratic \u015fi mai permisiv, dansul contemporan, pe care po\u0163i s\u0103-l faci \u015fi la 70 de ani &#8211; orice v\u00e2rst\u0103 e potrivit\u0103 pentru orice vrea pl t.<\/p>\n<p>Cred sincer c\u0103 numai cerul e limita, Cerul \u015fi plafonul bugetului disponibil.<\/p>\n<p>Dar tu ai responsabilitatea unui copil, nemaivorbind de faptul c\u0103, mai nou, extrem de mult\u0103 lume face coaching \u0219i pred\u0103 cursuri. De aceea, a\u015f zice s\u0103 nu dai cu \u015futul unui venit stabil, \u00eenainte s\u0103 ai certitudinea unei baze solide de clien\u0163i \u00een noul business. Hey, nici m\u0103car o baz\u0103 care PARE solid\u0103 nu ESTE mereu solid\u0103, \u015fi \u0163i-o spune un om care face freelancing de zece ani.<\/p>\n<p>So. \u00cencepe \u00een timpul liber, \u015fi \u00eencepe la scar\u0103 mic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 predai ceva \u015fi ai cuno\u015ftin\u0163e? F\u0103 un curs online pe Udemy sau alt\u0103 platform\u0103 similar\u0103 de studii \u0219i promoveaz\u0103-l. Sau ofer\u0103 cursuri personale pe Zoom, sau dac\u0103 ai spa\u021biu, fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, \u00een timpul t\u0103u liber. Vezi c\u00e2te persoane reu\u015fe\u015fti s\u0103 aduni \u015fi c\u00e2te vin \u015fi data viitoare &#8211; pentru c\u0103, da, reten\u021bia e o problem\u0103 \u00een acest tip de business. Dac\u0103 vin ni\u015fte bani la scar\u0103 mic\u0103, \u00eei pui deoparte \u015fi, \u00eencet-\u00eencet, work your way up.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eenchipui c\u0103 orice activitate care presupune lucru cu oamenii \u00ee\u021bi va aduce numai energie pozitiv\u0103, e\u0219ti naiv\u0103. Preg\u0103te\u0219te-te pentru gigelul c\u0103ruia nu-i convine nimic, pentru gigelul care \u0219tie oricum totul mai bine dec\u00e2t tine, pentru gigelul care \u00ee\u0219i vrea banii \u00eenapoi \u0219i pentru gigica isteric\u0103, care nu simte c\u0103 progreseaz\u0103 \u0219i te \u021bine la telefon dou\u0103 ore s\u0103 \u021bi se vaiete.<br \/>\nNu exist\u0103 cursul magic care s\u0103 atrag\u0103 numai oameni mi\u0219to. T\u00e2mpi\u021bii pe care \u00eei ai acum la munc\u0103 vor fi similari cu t\u00e2mpi\u021bii care \u00ee\u021bi vor veni la cursuri.<\/p>\n<p>Aproape de blocul meu era o sal\u0103 mic\u0103 de aerobic. Cu o antrenoare minunat\u0103, entuziast\u0103 \u0219i creativ\u0103, care venea zilnic cu idei noi, cu un spa\u021biu pl\u0103cut \u0219i aerisit, cu vestiare curate. Au \u00eenchis pentru c\u0103 60% din proaste abandonau pe la a treia sau a patra \u0219edin\u021b\u0103. De aceea spun c\u0103 lucrul cu oameni poate fi dificil \u0219i imprevizibil, \u0219i nu e sursa de infinit\u0103 bucurie la care te a\u0219tep\u021bi tu c\u00e2nd visezi la cai verzi pe pere\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Lorena.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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