Mi-am exprimat de n ori frustrarea pe gigei care decid s\u0103 abuzeze de timpul t\u0103u privai \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 te combine pe ideea de “\u00ee\u0163i citesc blogul, \u00eemi plac pozele tale pe insta \u015fi \u00eemi placi”, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe m\u0103car o secund\u0103 ce interes a\u015f avea eu s\u0103 acord timp cuiva care nu mi-a ar\u0103tat cu nimic de ce ar trebui s\u0103 fie relevant.<\/p>\n
Azi o s\u0103-mi exprim frustrarea pe getu\u0163ele care \u00eemi vin cu o idee vag\u0103 de “a\u015f vrea s\u0103 colabor\u0103m! \u015fi cu “hai s\u0103 vorbim la o cafea”.<\/p>\n
Mnope.<\/p>\n
Faptul c\u0103 TU vrei s\u0103 bei o cafea cu mine, dup\u0103 ce mi-ai citit 46789 de texte \u015fi ai r\u00e2s sau te-ai sim\u0163it empowered de tot at\u00e2tea ori nu include \u015fi interesul meu de a bea o cafea cu tine, mai ales c\u0103, \u00een majoritatea cazurilor, prin\u0163esicile astea nu mi-au oferit nimic niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n
Iar “a colabora” sun\u0103 foarte vag.<\/p>\n
Prin urmare, e momentul s\u0103 set\u0103m foarte clar ni\u015fte limite.<\/p>\n
Etapa “cafea” e dup\u0103 ce mi-ai prezentat \u00een scris ce vrei, dac\u0103 ai sau nu un buget, ce te a\u015ftep\u0163i s\u0103 fac eu, \u015fi dup\u0103 ce am confirmat c\u0103 m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 \u00een condi\u0163iile prezentate de tine. Sau dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, reformulezi condi\u0163iile \u00een a\u015fa fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 intereseze. Abia dup\u0103 ce mi-e clar c\u0103 nu \u00eemi pierzi timpul ampwlea cu te miri ce inep\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 sens.<\/p>\n
Exclud din start s\u0103 acord timp de cafea pe baz\u0103 de cer\u015fetorie de aten\u0163ie \u00een gol. Timpul meu de cafele e rar, valoros \u015fi rog a fi tratat ca atare.<\/p>\n
Mul\u0163umesc de \u00een\u0163elegere.<\/p>\n
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