{"id":20382,"date":"2020-09-12T10:49:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-12T07:49:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20382"},"modified":"2020-09-12T11:01:04","modified_gmt":"2020-09-12T08:01:04","slug":"pisicelul-singuratic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/pisicelul-singuratic\/","title":{"rendered":"Pisicelul singuratic"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00e2nd plec cu treab\u0103 de acas\u0103, trec pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 un bloc mare, cu apartamente de mai multe camere, bloc de famili\u0219ti \u0219i de oameni care au nevoie de spa\u021biu locativ.<\/p>\n

De prima oar\u0103, am remarcat \u00een geam, la parter, o pisic\u0103.<\/p>\n

O pisic\u0103 vizibil curat\u0103, bine \u00eentre\u021binut\u0103, bine hr\u0103nit\u0103, care are la dispozi\u021bie confortul unui apartament mare. Dar avea o privire trist\u0103, din care te lovea singur\u0103tatea.<\/p>\n

Am trecut pe acolo dup\u0103-amiaza. Pisica era \u00een exact aceea\u0219i pozi\u021bie, scrut\u00e2nd exteriorul cu dor \u0219i triste\u021be.<\/p>\n

Am trecut pe acolo seara. Era lumin\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103, pisica nu mai era la geam. Nu sunt genul de creep care se uit\u0103 \u00een casele oamenilor s\u0103 vad\u0103 cum au \u00een\u0103untru, m-am asigurat doar c\u0103 are parte de iubire omeneasc\u0103 \u0219i am plecat.<\/p>\n

Dimine\u021bile \u0219i dup\u0103-amiezele, pisica respectiv\u0103 e \u00een continuare pe pozi\u021bie, la geam, iar f\u0103\u021buca ei \u00ee\u021bi sf\u00e2\u0219ie inima.<\/p>\n

Tot privind acest anim\u0103lu\u021b, mi-am dat seama de o mic\u0103 problem\u0103: Ne lu\u0103m animale de companie, dar noi nu mereu avem timp s\u0103 le oferim companie lor.<\/p>\n

Am fost \u0219i eu \u00een situa\u021bia c\u00e2nd munceam \u00een dou\u0103 joburi. Plecam de acas\u0103 diminea\u021ba, ajungeam seara. \u0218i c\u00e2nd ajungeam, \u00eel hr\u0103neam pe Pulic\u0103, m\u00e2ncam \u0219i m\u0103 culcam. \u00cen perioada aceea, pisicul a f\u0103cut nisip la rinichi. De c\u00e2nd am avut grij\u0103 s\u0103 prioritizez \u0219i s\u0103 investesc timp doar \u00een proiecte care se justific\u0103 financiar \u0219i cu program rezonabil, boala aia de rinichi nu s-a mai manifestat niciodat\u0103, de\u0219i pisicul are acum 16 ani.<\/p>\n

E adev\u0103rat c\u0103 multe din bolile noastre sunt pe baz\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103, dar \u00een cazul anim\u0103lu\u021belor, acest fapt se aplic\u0103 cu at\u00e2t mai mult. S\u0103 ne punem \u00een pielea lor. Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti copil mic, abandonat misterios pe str\u0103zile unui ora\u0219 mare, \u021bi-e foame \u0219i \u021bipi dup\u0103 ajutor. Vine un gigant binevoitor, te ia de pe jos, te spal\u0103, te hr\u0103ne\u0219te, te alint\u0103, te cre\u0219te. Nu cuno\u0219ti pe nimeni pe lume, nu ai pe nimeni cu excep\u021bia acelui gigant. \u0218i \u0103la \u00eencepe s\u0103 te lase singur \u0219i claustrat jum\u0103tate de zi. Conexiunea lor emo\u021bional\u0103 cu noi e exclusiv\u0103, pentru c\u0103 noi suntem singura lor familie \u0219i singurul lor prieten.<\/p>\n

Ce e de f\u0103cut?<\/p>\n

Cum combatem orele acelea de singur\u0103tate dureroas\u0103, sentimentul de abandon, triste\u021bea din ochi\u0219orii animalelor noastre de companie r\u0103mase f\u0103r\u0103 de companie?<\/p>\n

Cea mai la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103 solu\u021bie mi se pare: mai adopt\u0103 unul.<\/p>\n

Sau dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 devii acum st\u0103p\u00e2n de c\u00e2ine \/ pisic\u0103, ia doi pui. \u00cen special dac\u0103 te \u0219tii super ocupat, pleci \u00een zorii zilei de acas\u0103 \u0219i vii dup\u0103 l\u0103satul \u00eentunericului.<\/p>\n

Oricum aduni p\u0103r \u00een fiecare zi. Ce \u021bi-e s\u0103 aduni un pic mai mult. Folose\u0219ti tot m\u0103tur\u0103, f\u0103ra\u0219, role adezive, etc., \u0219i pe exact acelea\u0219i suprafe\u021be.<\/p>\n

Ce \u021bi-e s\u0103 cure\u021bi o litier\u0103 sau dou\u0103? Ce \u021bi-e s\u0103 speli o farfurioar\u0103 sau dou\u0103?<\/p>\n

Pentru tine, sunt doar c\u00e2teva minute \u00een plus de munc\u0103. Pentru anim\u0103lu\u021b, e \u0219ansa de a avea un tovar\u0103\u0219 permanent \u0219i de a nu mai experimenta abandonul dureros.<\/p>\n

A\u0219 avea \u00eens\u0103 un amendament. \u0218i anume,\u00a0 c\u0103 nu toate animalele au aceea\u0219i personalitate. Pulic\u0103 m\u0103 miaun\u0103 din lift. E disperat dup\u0103 afec\u021biune \u0219i are o nevoie constant\u0103 de a ar\u0103ta afec\u021biune. E genul de pisoi care te linge pe cap dup\u0103 ce ie\u0219i de la du\u0219, s\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103 te strice apa. Ai aici<\/a> <\/strong>un articol \u00een care descriu cum m\u0103 \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 plec de acas\u0103. Lui i-ar prinde bine un companion, dup\u0103 ce se termin\u0103 autoizolarea pandemic\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar pisicile unor prieteni sunt perfect satisf\u0103cute cu singur\u0103tatea lor. C\u00e2nd pleac\u0103 omul, se lungesc pe canapea, dorm ne\u00eentoarse, se mai duc la bolul cu m\u00e2ncare \u0219i la cel cu ap\u0103, mai ascut gheru\u021be, \u0219i se culc\u0103 la loc. Nu au absolut nici o nevoie suplimentar\u0103 de interac\u021biune.<\/p>\n

Cum ne d\u0103m seama ce simt anim\u0103lu\u021bele \u00een absen\u021ba noastr\u0103?<\/p>\n

Lu\u0103m unul dintre telefoanele vechi, dar \u00eenc\u0103 func\u021bionale (to\u021bi avem vreo trei, cred, \u0219i le folosim \u00een caz c\u0103 ne crap\u0103 actualul), \u00eel \u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103m la 100%, pornim camera \u0219i plec\u0103m la ale noastre. C\u00e2nd ne \u00eentoarcem, examin\u0103m comportamentul bl\u0103nosului. Dac\u0103 se flendure\u0219te stresat de colo colo, sau dac\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103, se lunge\u0219te cu oole \u00een soare \u0219i o arde chill ca un jamaican proasp\u0103t fumat.<\/p>\n

\u0218i ac\u021bion\u0103m \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

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