{"id":20425,"date":"2020-09-22T10:07:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T07:07:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20425"},"modified":"2020-09-22T10:07:32","modified_gmt":"2020-09-22T07:07:32","slug":"m-ai-pierdut-definitiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/m-ai-pierdut-definitiv\/","title":{"rendered":"M-ai pierdut definitiv!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>-Lorena, nu mi-a pl\u0103cut acest articol \u0219i m-ai pierdut definitiv.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 uit la numele individei. Comentarii memorabile nu d\u0103duse, interac\u021biune de calitate not really, blogul nu \u00eel sus\u021binuse vreodat\u0103 cu ceva, so&#8230; pierdere zero. I-am \u0219i spus asta.<\/p>\n<p>S-a \u00eenfoiat. Cum \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 spui una ca asta?<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 e adev\u0103rul antipatic. Po\u021bi s\u0103 te dai pierdere definitiv\u0103 doar dac\u0103 reprezin\u021bi un asset pentru \u0103la c\u0103ruia \u00eei faci circul. \u00cen rest, e\u0219ti doar una care a trecut \u0219i ea pe acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Mam\u0103!<\/p>\n<p>20 de ore dup\u0103 pierderea definitiv\u0103, individa \u00eenc\u0103 \u021bipa c\u0103 de ce a primit invita\u021bie de la botul paginii mele s\u0103 dea like \/ e automat \u0219i e pe baza faptului c\u0103 ai citit &amp; dat like la texte mai vechi. Btw, nu \u021bi le datoram nici pe alea sau ceva. \u0218i nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 joc cum fluieri tu dec\u00e2t \u00eentr-un singur context: un contract de sponsorizare baban. \u00cen rest, a\u0219a pe freemium internautic, c\u00e2nt\u0103m Jet: Nu \u00eemi spui ce s\u0103 cred, nu \u00eemi spui ce s\u0103 fac.<\/p>\n<p>By the way. piesa \u00een sine nu se adreseaz\u0103 doar misoginilor, ci pro\u015ftilor \u015fi gaslighterilor \u00een general, indiferent de sex, culoare \u015fi orientare politic\u0103.<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/u76cl8GnVss?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ok, so. 20 de ore mai t\u00e2rziu, asta \u00eenc\u0103 \u0163ipa la mine, c\u00e2nd m-am s\u0103turat eu \u015fi i-am zis a\u015fa: B\u0103i, muiere. Uite de asta nu v\u0103 respect\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii \u015fi se \u015fterg la kurhaus cu voi. Reac\u0163iona\u0163i ca ni\u015fte \u015facali \u00een c\u0103lduri la chestii mici (te-am pierdut definitiv pentru un text? m\u0103 p*\u015f pe tine, nu erai mare valoare in the first place), face\u0163i amenin\u0163\u0103ri dispropor\u0163ionate, apoi nu trece\u0163i la fapte.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei am podul plin de individe de-astea pierdute definitiv, dar care r\u0103m\u00e2n s\u0103 \u0163ipe p\u00e2n\u0103 le dai tu block. \u015ei din perspectiva asta, \u00eencep s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg cum unii b\u0103rba\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi pierd r\u0103bdarea.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 eu spun cuiva c\u0103 m-a pierdut definitiv, e exact ultimul lucru pe care \u00eel aude de la mine \u015fi urmeaz\u0103 tiiit. Ton. Sau you can&#8217;t reply to this conversation, dac\u0103 discu\u0163ia era pe social media. Sau tr\u00e2ntit de u\u015f\u0103. Dac\u0103 eu am afirmat c\u0103 m-am c\u0103rat \u00een plm de acolo, chiar m-am c\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p>Nu exist\u0103 ceva mai jalnic \u015fi mai lipsit de demnitate uman\u0103 basic dec\u00e2t:<\/p>\n<p>-S\u0103 \u015ftii, Costele, c\u0103 te p\u0103r\u0103sesc.<\/p>\n<p>-Drum bun.<\/p>\n<p>-Asta ai tu de spus, dup\u0103 tot ce am f\u0103cut pentru tine?<\/p>\n<p>-OK. \u015ei cale b\u0103tut\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>-\u00centotdeauna ai fost un porc misogin \u015fi lipsit de sentimente.<\/p>\n<p>-Aha, ok. (r\u00e2g\u00e2it).<\/p>\n<p>-Cum \u00eendr\u0103zne\u015fti s\u0103 r\u00e2g\u00e2i c\u00e2nd vorbesc cu tine, Costele?<\/p>\n<p>-C\u0103 m\u0103 \u0163ine, f\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>E un dialog extrem de toxic, unde el \u00ee\u015fi permite orice, \u015fi vina e \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103 a ei. &#8220;S\u0103 \u015ftii, Costele, c\u0103 te p\u0103r\u0103sesc&#8221; se roste\u015fte cu bagajul gata f\u0103cut \u015fi cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 pe clan\u0163\u0103. And you f***ing mean it, dac\u0103 ai m\u0103car o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de respect pentru propria persoan\u0103.\u00a0 Sau, dac\u0103 cel\u0103lalt nu a f\u0103cut nimic at\u00e2t de grav, se repro\u0219eaz\u0103 strict ce a f\u0103cut \u0219i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 o dat\u0103 ce Costel te-a ginit c\u0103 n-ai, o s\u0103-\u015fi bat\u0103 p*la \u00eendoit\u0103 de tine. \u015ei pe merit. Pentru c\u0103 genul \u0103sta de amenin\u0163\u0103ri te lipsesc definitiv &#8211; \u015fi de data asta i mean DEFINITIV \u00een sensul real al cuv\u00e2ntului &#8211; de empatia \u015fi simpatia oricui. Reac\u0163ia de d\u0103-te-n sloboz e instant\u0103 \u015fi visceral\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Solu\u0163ia: nu mai face\u0163i afirma\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 acoperire \u015fi, mai ales, nu mai b\u0103ga\u0163i mai mult\u0103 melodram\u0103 dec\u00e2t e cazul. Cumva cred c\u0103 oricine a citit m\u0103car trei texte \u00eenn\u0103dite ale mele \u015ftie c\u0103 mi-e o sil\u0103 de nedescris de melodram\u0103 \u015fi de patetism \u00een gol, \u015fi o s\u0103-mi bat p*la de ele de fiecare dat\u0103, iar dac\u0103 n-o s\u0103 am p*l\u0103 \u00een acel moment, o s\u0103 cer cu \u00eemprumut din vecini, o bat de patetismul t\u0103u \u015fi o dau \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>*<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai amenin\u0163a\u0163i. Cine amenin\u0163\u0103 \u00een gol \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 baz\u0103 pe pagina mea probabil c\u0103 amenin\u0163\u0103 \u00een gol \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 baz\u0103 \u015fi \u00een via\u0163a personal\u0103, profesional\u0103, etc. \u015ei gre\u015feala e a interlocutorilor c\u0103 tolereaz\u0103. C\u0103 nu \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 ezitare sc\u00e2rba fa\u021b\u0103 de acest comportament. C\u0103 te las\u0103 cu iluzia c\u0103 sunt impresiona\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 ei nu ar fi f\u0103cut asta, nu ai fi evoluat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care ai devenit o glum\u0103 de om.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe <a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>-Lorena, nu mi-a pl\u0103cut acest articol \u0219i m-ai pierdut definitiv. M\u0103 uit la numele individei. Comentarii memorabile nu d\u0103duse, interac\u021biune de calitate not really,&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20429,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/diva.jpg?fit=640%2C427&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20425","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20425"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20425\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20431,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20425\/revisions\/20431"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}