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<\/p>\n\u0162in s\u0103 precizez c\u0103 nu votez \u00een alegerile de duminic\u0103. Am buletin de Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe, \u015fi acas\u0103 nu m\u0103 duc s\u0103 votez cu traseistele politice de la UDMR nici dac\u0103 m\u0103 pici cu cear\u0103 fierbinte, nemaivorbind c\u0103 nu a\u015f risca s-o expun pe maic\u0103-mea la risc de Covid pentru nimic \u00een lume.<\/p>\n
Aceasta nu e o postare politic\u0103. E pur \u015fi simplu o reac\u0163ie la un status care m-a indignat.<\/p>\n
\u015ei anume: <\/p>\n
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Nu, autorul nu e un gigel care vede femeile doar prin prisma lentilei “a\u015f \/ n-a\u015f”. E o femeie. \u015ei abia asta mi se pare nespus de trist. Dac\u0103 femeile nu pot trata alte femei dec\u00e2t a\u015fa, la nivel de luciu exterior, ce s\u0103 le ceri b\u0103rba\u0163ilor? Tu \u00eei educi c\u0103 e normal s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i lips\u0103 de respect unei femei pe baz\u0103 de look. Devii parte din problem\u0103.<\/p>\n
Men\u0163ionez, pentru context, c\u0103 domni\u015foara care a dat statusul are multiple ajust\u0103ri faciale. Nu drastice, dar suficiente s\u0103 fie vizibile. \u015ei e 100% dreptul ei. Banii ei, face ce vrea cu ei. Tot ea \u015fi-a manifestat indignarea la un text al meu \u00een care am scris c\u0103 silicoanele mi se par o idee proast\u0103, afirm\u00e2nd c\u0103 eu nu pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg nesiguran\u0163a cumplit\u0103 a femeilor cu s\u00e2ni mici sau ceva de genul.<\/p>\n
Deci, s\u0103 ai o p\u0103rere proast\u0103 despre unele opera\u0163ii estetice e ur\u00e2t, nedelicat \u015fi microagresiune.<\/p>\n
S\u0103 ataci \u00een acest mod o femeie care nu are numita nesiguran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi e suficient de st\u0103p\u00e2n\u0103 pe ceea ce \u015ftie s\u0103 fac\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 zic\u0103: da, b\u0103, am laba g\u00e2\u015ftii, din\u0163i inegali, \u015famd, dar nu asta v\u00e2nd, deci care plm e problema voastr\u0103, e \u00eens\u0103 perfect normal.<\/p>\n
\u0162in s\u0103 men\u0163ionez: Clotilde nu candideaz\u0103 nici la Miss Univers, Nici la Miss Top Webcam, nici la Playmate of the Year, sau orice alt\u0103 func\u0163ie bazat\u0103 pe cum cade popula\u0163ia \u00een spate de frumuse\u0163ea-i rar\u0103. Clotilde e candidat\u0103 la o func\u0163ie unisex. O func\u0163ie de primar de sector. Un job unde nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2tu\u015fi de pu\u0163in cum ai dantura \u015fi cum e\u015fti vopsit\u0103, \u015fi mai mult cum \u015ftii s\u0103 gestionezi bugete \u015fi s\u0103 prioritizezi proiecte, s\u0103 rezolvi eficient probleme.<\/p>\n
Cum arat\u0103 e 100% irelevant.<\/p>\n
E a\u015fa un provincialism de cea mai joas\u0103 spe\u0163\u0103 \u015fi pi\u0163iponcism ordinar s\u0103 consider\u0103m c\u0103 “femeia \u00eengrijit\u0103” e doar aia care-\u015fi neag\u0103 cu obstina\u0163ie defectele. Aia care pretinde c\u0103 n-are riduri, \u015funci \u015fi bur\u0163i, \u015fi c\u0103 iese din du\u015f cu machiaj complet, ca \u00een filme.<\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 Clotilde a ales \u00een mod real o poz\u0103 needitat\u0103, BRAVO EI.<\/p>\n
Majoritatea aleg\u0103toarelor obi\u015fnuite nu se vor identifica cu Miss Venezuela, \u00eenalt\u0103, brunet\u0103 \u015fi cu forme perfecte, ci cu o femeie simpl\u0103, normal\u0103, vizibil solicitat\u0103 de job \u015fi via\u0163a de familie, pentru c\u0103 majoritatea aleg\u0103toarelor obi\u015fnuite sunt ele \u00eense\u015fi solicitate de job \u015fi de via\u0163a de familie. De ce Viorica D\u0103ncil\u0103 i-a supravie\u0163uit politic at\u00e2t de lung lui Dragnea \u015fi a ajuns p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een turul al doilea la preziden\u0163iale, de\u015fi nu-i edita nimeni nici fa\u0163a, nici perlele?<\/p>\n
Taman de aceea. Era ceea ce americanii numesc “relatable”. Adic\u0103 poporul normal se reg\u0103sea \u00een ea. Gospodina fan\u0103 a lui Suleyman \u00een h\u0103\u0163ul iubirii se reg\u0103sea p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi \u00een buretele cu care \u00ee\u015fi umfla cocul s\u0103 par\u0103 mai amplu, de vreme ce bani de extensii canci, c\u00e2nd ai de hr\u0103nit zilnic cinci guri \u015fi mai duci o crati\u0163\u0103 de m\u00e2ncare \u015fi m\u0103tu\u015f\u0103-tii v\u0103duv\u0103 pensionar\u0103 singur\u0103.<\/p>\n
A fi cu defectele la vedere \u00een era lui Photoshop nivelator \u015fi egalizator mi se pare o mi\u015fcare de geniu politic. Un statement de “asta-s eu, cu tot ce am bun \u015fi cu tot ce am r\u0103u, a\u015fa cum nu v\u0103 mint cu afi\u015ful, nu o s\u0103 v\u0103 mint nici la prim\u0103rie”.<\/p>\n
Orice nevoie de editare e o dovad\u0103 a convingerii tale c\u0103 nu e\u015fti destul de bun a\u015fa cum e\u015fti. Taman de aceea, absen\u0163a edit\u0103rii e opusul. “Fata asta \u015ftie ce are de f\u0103cut \u015fi e bun\u0103 pe pozi\u0163ie a dreq. De-asta nu caut s\u0103 v\u0103 fur ochii cu detalii exterioare. Straight to business!”\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n \u015ei o astfel de ini\u0163iativ\u0103 ar trebui aplaudat\u0103 glorios mai ales de femei. O dat\u0103 cu sublinierea ideii c\u0103 dac\u0103 o femeie nu re un job bazat pe frumuse\u0163e, nu ai mai multe motive s\u0103-i pretinzi asta dec\u00e2t ai avea s\u0103-i pretinzi inginerului \u015fef s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i fac\u0103 o omlet\u0103 cu br\u00e2nz\u0103 \u015fi praz.<\/p>\n Later edit la later edit: Se pare c\u0103 au ap\u0103rut \u015fi poze cu Clotilde photoshopat\u0103 regulamentar \u015fi ar\u0103t\u00e2nd de 21 de ani, \u015fi, cum se vede, indignata noastr\u0103 s-a lini\u015ftit. Cli\u015feul din mintea ei a fost bifat. E grea \u015fi provocatoare ideea c\u0103 unele femei nu \u0163in neap\u0103rat s\u0103\u00a0 devin\u0103 p\u0103pu\u015fele, ci prefer\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 oameni.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe iTunes<\/strong><\/a> sau pe Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0162in s\u0103 precizez c\u0103 nu votez \u00een alegerile de duminic\u0103. Am buletin de Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe, \u015fi acas\u0103 nu m\u0103 duc s\u0103 votez cu traseistele...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20438,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/clotilde.jpg?fit=800%2C533&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20440,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20437\/revisions\/20440"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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