{"id":20503,"date":"2020-10-05T09:42:56","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T06:42:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20503"},"modified":"2020-10-05T09:42:56","modified_gmt":"2020-10-05T06:42:56","slug":"posta-redactiei-sa-renunt-la-cariera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-sa-renunt-la-cariera\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: S\u0103 renun\u0163 la carier\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. De c\u00e2nd cu pandemia \u015fi statul \u00een case, cititorul nostru a devenit reflexiv \u015fi confesiv. Iar acest lucru nu se face \u00een mesageria privat\u0103, s\u0103-mi f**e\u0163i c\u00e2te o or\u0103 aiurea cu v\u0103ic\u0103relile voastre, \u015fi apoi tot voi s\u0103-mi scoate\u0163i ochii cu c\u00e2te un am\u0103r\u00e2t de share, ci \u00eentr-un mail sincer \u015fi detaliat pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Iar eu v\u0103 voi da c\u00e2teva idei de solu\u0163ionare. Dac\u0103 ale mele nu v\u0103 plac, cititorime va avea puzderie de idei glorioase \u00een rubrica de comentarii, deci ceva-ceva o s\u0103 se lege oricum.<\/p>\n<p>Misiva de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bun\u0103, Lorena,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Virgul\u0103 pe care am pus-o eu \u00eentre salut \u015fi nume. Sfatul 1: Pune \u00een plm virgul\u0103 \u00eentre salut \u015fi nume, cum e corect \u00een limba rom\u00e2n\u0103, astfel reiese c\u0103 evaluezi ce bun\u0103 e Lorena, iar asta nu e tema prezentei rubrici.<\/p>\n<p>\u015etii exemplul \u0103la cu S\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103m, bunica! \/ S\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103m bunica!<\/p>\n<p>Nu v\u0103 mai m\u00e2nca\u0163i bunicile c\u0103 e p\u0103cat.<\/p>\n<p>L.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Apelez din nou la tine pentru c\u0103, a\u015fa cum am zis \u015fi eu \u015fi mul\u0163i al\u0163ii, valorezi c\u00e2t 10 prieteni buni sau psihologi. Nu a\u015f vrea s\u0103 abuzez, dac\u0103 vrei, po\u0163i s\u0103 nu \u00eemi r\u0103spunzi, fiind a doua oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i scriu.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t generoasele tale dona\u0163ii periodice sus\u0163in existen\u0163a acestui blog \u015fi \u00een special a acestei rubrici, po\u0163i s\u0103-mi scrii romanul vie\u0163ii tale, noi suntem aici.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Problema e urm\u0103toarea: chiar dac\u0103 am ajuns bine profesional (\u015fi ok financiar), am ie\u015fit at\u00e2t de mult din zona de confort \u00een ultimii ani (am bifat de toate \u015fi am v\u0103zut lumea), \u00eenc\u00e2t pur \u015fi simplu vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 lini\u015ftesc \u00eentr-un job boring \u015fi repetitiv. Sun\u0103 \u015focant, \u015ftiu. \u00cen timp ce to\u0163i sunt sf\u0103tui\u0163i pe toate re\u0163elele profesionale s\u0103-\u015fi dep\u0103\u015feasc\u0103 limitele, eu simt fix opusul pentru c\u0103 am trecut de etapa asta&#8230;\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Ce s\u0103 fac? S\u0103 m\u0103 aleg \u00een sf\u00e2r\u015fit pe mine, lini\u015ftea mea, confortul meu psihic \u015fi fizic? Op\u0163iuni a\u015f avea, de\u015fi e riscant. Totu\u015fi, f\u0103c\u00e2nd ceva cu pl\u0103cere sau m\u0103car cu un nivel suportabil de stres, chiar dac\u0103 nu e deloc spectaculos, m\u0103car nu ajung s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eemboln\u0103vesc. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, nu tr\u0103im din laude \u015fi like uri pe re\u0163ele.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, o schimbare de genul \u0103sta mi-ar afecta imaginea, pentru c\u0103 logic ar fi s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fac \u015fi mai mult \u015fi s\u0103 avansez \u00een ierarhia profesional\u0103. S\u0103 risc s\u0103 m\u0103 fac de r\u00e2s \u015fi s\u0103 cread\u0103 to\u0163i c\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut fa\u0163\u0103? <\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>S\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 e un fail sau c\u0103 \u00eemi scad standardele? <\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Eu \u015ftiu c\u0103, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t financiar a\u015f fi tot pe acolo (\u015fi nu e chiar imposibil), energia \u015fi starea general\u0103 mi s-ar \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i. Poate a\u015f avea \u015fi timp \u015fi chef \u015fi de alte lucruri, proiecte.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>De altfel, simt c\u0103 there is no turning back, o data ie\u015fit\u0103 de unde sunt acum, nu mi se vor mai oferi alte \u015fanse s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc. E greu&#8230;\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Tu ce ai face?<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Mul\u0163umesc mult!\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Best regards,<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>***<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Drag\u0103 X,<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ce a\u015f face eu pe subiect e prea pu\u0163in important, pentru c\u0103 tu e\u015fti tu, nu eu. \u015ei e important ce ai face tu, nu ce a\u015f face eu. Lucreaz\u0103 la a lua decizii autonom \u015fi a nu le mai ag\u0103\u0163a de ce crede lumea, de ce pare \u015fi de ce o s\u0103 zic\u0103 oamenii.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Dar legat de luat decizii, \u00ee\u0163i voi spune ce am f\u0103cut eu \u015fi \u00een chestia asta, cred c\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103-mi urmezi exemplul.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Eu, una, ur\u0103sc s\u0103 fac chestii moca. Le ur\u0103sc din r\u0103runchi. Dar cum mama era Maica Tereza\u00a0 cartierului, care f\u0103cea chestii free pentru toat\u0103 lumea \u015fi munc\u0103 suplimentar\u0103 free la job, m-a tot stresat \u00een primii mei ani c\u0103 e ru\u015fine s\u0103 ceri bani \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 te a\u015ftep\u0163i s\u0103 \u0163i se ofere. Ceea ce, evident, nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpla niciodat\u0103 c\u00e2nd tu f\u0103ceai totul free pentru toat\u0103 lumea.<\/div>\n<div>\u00cen via\u0163a real\u0103, lumea, dimpotriv\u0103, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te exploateze pe c\u00e2t de ieftin se poate, iar dac\u0103 merge gratis, forzaaa. \u015ei abia pe la 30 de ani m-am prins c\u0103 lucrurile cu adev\u0103rat importante pentru mine conteaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t impresia unor str\u0103ini oarecare. \u00cemi plac banii, cine o \u00een\u0163elege \u015fi o respect\u0103, bine, cine nu, are invita\u0163ie deschis\u0103 s\u0103 mi-o sug\u0103 lung, lent, cu virtuozitatea \u015fi totodat\u0103 ging\u0103\u015fia lui Gheorghe Zamfir la flaut.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Adic\u0103 a\u015fa:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d6ajKT9xzvU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*<\/div>\n<div>\u015ei asta trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi \u015fi tu.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Singura fericire adev\u0103rat\u0103 e c\u00e2nd ne deta\u015f\u0103m de p\u0103rerea oamenilor \u015fi facem ce sim\u0163im noi c\u0103 e bine pentru noi, indiferent de judec\u0103\u0163ile \u0103lora care nu ne pl\u0103tesc chiria.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Burnout-ul e ceva extrem de real. Suprasolicitarea e una dintre marile probleme ale omului de carier\u0103 din zilele noastre. Nevoia de o pauz\u0103 e perfect ok, de aceea s-a \u015fi inventat conceptul de an sabatic. Iar dac\u0103 ideea ta de an sabatic e s\u0103-\u0163i iei un job lini\u015ftit cu r\u0103spundere minim\u0103, nu v\u0103d unde e problema. \u00cen fond, ai facturile acoperite, \u015fi \u00een rest, te po\u0163i odihni, \u00ee\u0163i po\u0163i regenera energia, po\u0163i prinde puteri \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, dac\u0103 \u0163i-e \u0163ie &#8211; \u0162IE, NU ALTORA &#8211; mil\u0103 de ce ai construit, caut\u0103 solu\u0163ii pe termen scurt.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>De exemplu, un concediu. Nu degeaba \u0163i-a dat statul rom\u00e2n 21 de zile lucr\u0103toare. Unul real, cu plecare la munte, s\u0103 inspiri oxigen \u015fi s\u0103 faci mi\u015fcare \u00een fiecare zi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Te po\u0163i duce s\u0103-\u0163i faci un set de analize, respectiv la un terapeut s\u0103 vezi dac\u0103 nu cumva te lup\u0163i cu un \u00eenceput de depresie.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>De exemplu ultimul meu: &#8220;Nu mai supoort via\u0163a asta, vreau lini\u015fte!&#8221; s-a dovedit a fi caren\u0163\u0103 de fier. De cum m-a trecut doctorul pe tratament intensiv cu suplimente de fier, mi-am revenit.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Dar dac\u0103 analizele sunt ok, terapia nu ajut\u0103, concediul nu te reface, solu\u0163ia e s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i reconsideri via\u0163a \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 te bucure.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Iar legat de \u015fanse ulterioare:\u00a0 dac\u0103 nu vin, \u0163i le faci. Uite acest blog \u015fi aceast\u0103 comunitate. Riidicate cu m\u00e2nu\u0163a mea de la zero. Nu-\u0163i subestima puterea de a construi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/div>\n<div>Lorena.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. De c\u00e2nd cu pandemia \u015fi statul \u00een case, cititorul nostru a devenit reflexiv \u015fi confesiv. 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