{"id":20541,"date":"2020-10-09T10:35:06","date_gmt":"2020-10-09T07:35:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20541"},"modified":"2020-10-09T10:35:06","modified_gmt":"2020-10-09T07:35:06","slug":"de-ce-ma-enerveaza-sfintele-ortodoxe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-ma-enerveaza-sfintele-ortodoxe\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 sfintele ortodoxe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se apropie s\u0103rb\u0103toarea Sfintei Parachiva, \u0219i exact ca de Pa\u0219te, e mare meci \u00eentre for\u021bele de ordine \u0219i biseric\u0103. For\u021bele de ordine vor s\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 babele departe de moa\u0219te, \u00een ideea de a le p\u0103stra \u00een via\u021b\u0103, pentru c\u0103 sunt exact categoria de v\u00e2rst\u0103 ultra expus\u0103 la a face Covid cu complica\u021bii din cauza diverselor boli cronice \u0219i imunit\u0103\u021bii sc\u0103zute, babele nu \u0219i nu, c\u0103 e festivalul nostru preferat \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pup\u0103m moa\u0219te, via\u021ba e pustiu.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 vede\u021bi interviuri cu babele. “Am bolit foarte tare \u015fi sf\u00e2nta m-a vindecat”. “Sunt vai mama mea, dar sf\u00e2nta m-a ajutat s\u0103 trec peste \u00eencerc\u0103ri” \u015fi varia\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

\u015ei aici, dragii mo\u015fului, constat\u0103m cum e educat\u0103 femeia de c\u0103tre Biserica Ortodox\u0103 \u00een special, \u015fi de majoritatea religiilor \u00een general. Dar cum eu aici \u00een \u0163ara asta m\u0103 confrunt mai mult cu oi educate de BOR, m\u0103 voi referi mai mult la ele. Dac\u0103 locuiam \u00een Ankara, probabil c\u0103 la ora asta aveam ceva cu Mahomed \u015fi cele 72 de virgine ale lui.<\/p>\n

Tema comun\u0103 la toate aceste babe este c\u0103 a) sunt am\u0103r\u00e2te b) sunt neputincioase c) nu sunt \u00een stare de nimic d) sunt mega ultra extra sacrificate pentru:\u00a0 b\u0103rbat, cas\u0103, familie extins\u0103, p\u0103rin\u0163i, copii, nepo\u0163i, oricine trece pe acolo e) func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 pe poten\u0163ial minim f) taman de aceea, au nevoie de o for\u0163\u0103 exterioar\u0103 s\u0103 le fac\u0103 s\u0103 supravie\u0163uiasc\u0103 \u00eentr-un fel\u00a0 sau altul,\u00a0 s\u0103 treac\u0103 travaliul de nedescris al fiec\u0103rei zile \u00een parte.<\/p>\n

\u015ei realitatea e c\u0103 via\u0163a nu e musai s\u0103 fie a\u015fa. Po\u0163i s\u0103 cau\u0163i un job pl\u0103tit bine, \u00een \u0163ar\u0103, \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate sau online, \u015fi \u00een secunda c\u00e2nd ai bani \u015fi \u00eencredere \u00een for\u0163ele proprii, via\u0163a devine chiar pl\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n

By the way, mie mi s-a lungit carantina p\u00e2n\u0103 pe 12, pentru c\u0103 un alt cunoscut m-a anun\u0163at c\u0103 are Covid. \u00cen continuare n-am simptome. Dar via\u0163a mea e chiar pl\u0103cut\u0103 pentru c\u0103 din dona\u0163iile voastre generoase (mul\u0163umesc) mi-am comandat diverse alcooluri, fac un curs de barmani online \u015fi scutur borcane toat\u0103 ziua. Apoi consum rezultatele. E un mod deopotriv\u0103 pl\u0103cut \u015fi instructiv de a trece prin carantin\u0103 \u015fi I have the time of my life. Apreciez c\u0103 s-a prelungit cu dou\u0103 zile, c\u0103 \u00eemi place s\u0103 scutur. Borcane.<\/p>\n

Dar o credincioas\u0103 ortodox\u0103 nu poate face asta. Nu se poate bucura de frumuse\u021bea momentului. Pentru c\u0103 e condi\u0163ionat\u0103 c\u0103 nu are voie s\u0103 se distreze \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se aoleasc\u0103 c\u00e2t e ziua de lung\u0103, altfel nu se calific\u0103 la un bilet \u00een rai. Nici nu e de mirare c\u0103 majoritatea acestor femei, de la at\u00e2ta sacrificare \u015fi v\u0103leleu, au deja aspect de babe la 30 de ani.<\/p>\n

\u015ei nu e ageism. Sunt fan\u0103 femei mature. Le ador. Le ador c\u00e2nd v\u00e2rsta le-a adus calm, \u00eencredere \u00een for\u0163ele proprii \u015fi voin\u0163\u0103 de a lupta s\u0103 arate bine. \u00cen schimb mi-e o sil\u0103 de nedescris de mentalitatea neputin\u0163ei \u015fi a v\u0103leleului.<\/p>\n

Nu de bietele femei, c\u0103 ele, s\u0103racele, a\u015fa au fost educate \u015fi at\u00e2ta \u015ftiu. Ci de mentalitatea infect\u0103 a Bisericii Ortodoxe, \u015fi a altor religii profund toxice, care au f\u0103cut din femeie sclavul mocangibil \u015fi servitorul neremunerat al universului.<\/p>\n

Prin glorificarea “sacrificiului” (s\u0103 m\u0103 p*\u015f cu jet \u00een sacrificarea voastr\u0103, n-o s\u0103 sacrific nici m\u0103car un fir de p\u0103r vreodat\u0103, s\u0103 nu am motive s\u0103 fiu martira aia acr\u0103, iritant\u0103 \u015fi v\u0103ic\u0103ritoare) \u015fi prin demonizarea “c**vei” (adic\u0103, femeia care \u00ee\u015fi cunoa\u015fte valoarea \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi cere onorariul just) biserica gaslight-uit genera\u021bii \u00eentregi de femei, secole \u00een \u0219ir.<\/p>\n

Mul\u0163i angajatori cu mentalitate retardat\u0103 (\u00eenapoiat\u0103 era termenul corect politic, dar na, retard \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2ziere \u00een original, a\u015fa c\u0103 vom merge cu asta) sunt de-a dreptul ofusca\u0163i c\u00e2nd tu, femeie, ceri cu tupeu contravaloarea muncii tale \u015fi te iau cu “vai, ca la c***e”. Munca e o form\u0103 de capital, \u015fi o pl\u0103te\u015fti adecvat, sau jet \u00een plm de gunoi ipocrit \u015fi manipulator. De aceea o s\u0103 respect de infinit mai multe ori studioul de videochat datorit\u0103 c\u0103rora am c\u00e2\u015ftigat mai multe mii de euro dec\u00e2t \u015fapte mii de bendeci \u015fi nedelci jego\u015fi care ar suge-o la orice or\u0103 pentru un b\u0103nu\u0163 \u00een plus, dar o ard ipocrit \u015fi manipulator cu mine pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 eu am un uter, ar fi cazul s\u0103 pun botul la vr\u0103jeala nespus de toxic\u0103 \u015fi d\u0103un\u0103toare a sacrific\u0103rii.<\/p>\n

\u015ei, devenind la subiectul nostru, iritarea pe care o resimt fa\u0163\u0103 de sfintele ortodoxe (c\u0103 m\u0103 confrunt cu astea direct, gigele, dac\u0103 tr\u0103iam \u00een Italia, probabil c\u0103 le heit\u0103ream pe cele catolice, c\u0103 m\u0103 frecai la cap cu ce ar fi f\u0103cut ele toat\u0103 ziua): \u0103sta e primul meu motiv: TOATE, DAR ABSOLUT TOATE, S-AU SACRIFICAT. Adic\u0103 au renun\u0163at la vise \u015fi ambi\u0163ii personale, la op\u0163iunea de a tr\u0103i o via\u0163\u0103 lini\u015ftit\u0103 \u015fi vesel\u0103, pentru a slug\u0103ri.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu speli creierul femeii \u00eentru negare de sine \u015fi sacrificiu \u00een gol, cum o s\u0103-i spele \u015fosetele aceluia\u015fi gigel toat\u0103 via\u0163a, \u00een timp ce el pfoothe banii familiei la c\u00e2rciuma din sat?<\/p>\n

De\u015fi taic\u0103-miu era profund nep\u0103s\u0103tor fa\u0163\u0103 de ea, \u015fi o trata cu o lips\u0103 de respect sinistr\u0103, maic\u0103-mea \u00eel slug\u0103rea umil. “El e crucea mea!”, \u00eei pl\u0103cea ei s\u0103 se laude la vecine. \u015ei tot crucea a p\u0103r\u0103sit-o c\u00e2nd avea 36 de ani \u015fi doi copii, pentru una care \u00een loc s\u0103 se sacrifice, s*gea p*la bine \u015fi-l trimitea la cump\u0103r\u0103turi. Din banii lui.<\/p>\n

De copil, cu mult \u00eenainte s\u0103 aflu de no\u0163iunea de divor\u0163, m-am \u00eentrebat: de ce st\u0103 femeia asta cu unul care o trateaz\u0103 a\u015fa?<\/p>\n

C\u0103 dac\u0103 o trata mai frumos, probabil c\u0103 nu era suficient de martir\u0103 \u015fi de sacrificat\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei asta e problema mea cea de-a doua cu sfintele ortodoxe \u015fi cu modelul pe care \u00eel transmit ele muieretului suficient de imbecil \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 pun\u0103 botul la vr\u0103jeal\u0103. \u015ei partea cea mai na\u015fpa e c\u0103 aproape c\u0103 se simt jignite c\u0103 nu e\u015fti la fel de imbecil\u0103 ca ele.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

TOATE, ABSOLUT TOATE, AU NEVOIE DE CINEVA CARE S\u0102 SE \u015eTEARG\u0102 ACTIV LA K CU ELE, S\u0102 SE POAT\u0102 SIM\u0162I MARTIRE \u015eI SACRIFICATE.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Iar dac\u0103 nu ai par\u015fivenia \u015fi sadismul s\u0103 te \u015ftergi la k cu ele din ini\u0163iativ\u0103 proprie, \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u0163i insulte inteligen\u0163a \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i apese butoanele \u00een a\u015fa mod, \u00eenc\u00e2t te \u015ftergi oricum. Iar dup\u0103… yeey. Martirism \u015fi sacrificare. Achievement unlocked.<\/p>\n

B\u0103rba\u0163i, sigur a\u0163i cunoscut acest tip de femei. Nu sunt exact at\u00e2t de enervante \u015fi pentru voi, cum sunt pentru mine?<\/p>\n

C\u0103 de aia le \u015fi p\u0103r\u0103si\u0163i pentru unele care v\u0103 trimit dup\u0103 p\u0103trunjel \u015fi m\u0103rar la pia\u0163\u0103. \u015ei pentru alea \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i diferen\u0163a dintre p\u0103trunjel \u015fi m\u0103rar. Iar astea martire \u015fi sacrificate le \u00eenvinuiesc pe *c**e” c\u0103 v-au *stricat* \u00een loc s\u0103 se \u00eenvinuiasc\u0103 pe ele, c\u0103 de at\u00e2ta v\u0103ic\u0103real\u0103 perpetu\u0103 pleci la cr\u00e2\u015fm\u0103 s\u0103 scapi.<\/p>\n

Apoi:<\/p>\n

TOATE, DAR ABSOLUT TOATE, AU ACEST OBICEI IRITANT DE A \u00ceMP\u0102R\u0162I TOT CE AU \u015eI ACEST LUCRU E CUMVA POZITIV.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nu vrei s\u0103 fii din familia cuiva care t\u00e2nje\u015fte s\u0103 par\u0103 apostolul generozit\u0103\u0163ii din cartier. Garantez c\u0103 nu vrei. E at\u00e2t de preocupat\u0103 de nevoile s\u0103racilor \u015fi am\u0103r\u00e2\u0163ilor \u00eenc\u00e2t, de obicei, uit\u0103 cu totul c\u0103 \u015fi membrii propriei familii au nevoi, \u015fi c\u0103 \u015fi acelea ar trebui s\u0103 conteze.<\/p>\n

Copiii de sfinte maici tereze de dristor \u015ftiu exact ce spun.<\/p>\n

\u015ei exact aceste\u00a0 maici tereze de dristor\u00a0 au s\u0103-\u0163i fac\u0103 repro\u015furi c\u0103 nu renun\u0163i la tine \u015fi la ce ai pentru to\u0163i str\u0103inii irelevan\u0163i, ca ele.<\/p>\n

Da, o doz\u0103 rezonabil\u0103 de caritate, c\u00e2nd ai mai mult dec\u00e2t po\u0163i cheltui \u015fi te asiguri c\u0103 toat\u0103 familia e hr\u0103nit\u0103 \u015fi \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103, e un lucru ok.<\/p>\n

Dar c\u00e2nd tu personal te vaie\u0163i cum n-ai de niciunele, dar de f\u0103cut acte de caritate tot ai de unde – \u00eel citez pe Becali: “s p tu \u015fi Dan Voiculescu”.<\/p>\n

\u015ei poate cel mai enervant lucru la aceste sfinte e cultivarea ideii de neputin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi respectiv dependen\u0163\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 muierea aia care se aole\u015fte toat\u0103 ziua ar pune osul la ceva treab\u0103 constructiv\u0103, ar descoperi brusc c\u0103 are mult\u00a0 mai mult\u0103 putere dec\u00e2t credea c\u0103 are. \u015ei c\u0103 nu are nevoie de o cruce, de o patim\u0103, de o \u00eencercare \u015fi de alte baliverne idioate.<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 vedem cum a sf\u00e2r\u015fit prea cuvioasa Paraschiva. \u015ei+a \u00eemp\u0103r\u0163it averea de la p\u0103rin\u0163ii boga\u0163i (cumva, toate marile sfinte au capital ini\u0163ial, s\u0103r\u0103ntoacele nu se calific\u0103, exact cum eroii masculini din romanele de dragoste sunt to\u0163i milionari), a slug\u0103rit un templu, nepl\u0103tit\u0103 \u015fi neglijat\u0103 – c\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 nimic, \u0103ia au trecut-o instant la protocol de fomi\u015fti, \u015fi a murit ar\u0103t\u00e2nd ca o b\u0103b\u0103ciune, la 27 de ani. E \u015fi ea parte din club 27, cu Jim Morrison \u015fi Janis Joplin, dar \u0103ia m\u0103car au tr\u0103it. Ea doar s-a sacrificat.<\/p>\n

De ce individa asta e model pentru toate babele moldovence?<\/p>\n

Nu \u015ftiu, dar \u015ftiu sigur c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 cad \u00een acest mindset niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n

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