Orice om care nu consider\u0103 femeile o prelungire a unei g\u0103uri umede ar trebui s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 deciziile lor sunt importante, mai ales c\u00e2nd privesc propria via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i propriul corp, \u0219i c\u0103 NU \u00ceN PLM \u00eenseamn\u0103 fix NU \u00ceN PLM, \u0219i c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi cade rangul dac\u0103 accep\u021bi asta ca un om educat \u0219i cau\u021bi pe altcineva care s\u0103 te plac\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 insi\u0219ti bovin \u0219i agasant, sau, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat un jeg patetic, s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 h\u0103r\u021buie\u0219ti cu amenin\u021b\u0103ri, respectiv s\u0103 organizezi campanie de denigrare public\u0103.<\/p>\n
Am avut parte de ambele. \u0218i h\u0103r\u021buiri cu amenin\u021b\u0103ri, \u0219i campanii de denigrare public\u0103 de la masculi pe care i-am respins \u0219i care nu \u0219tiau s\u0103 respecte decizia unei femei. Tot ce au izbutit a fost s\u0103-mi reconfirme c\u00e2t\u0103 dreptate am avut s\u0103-i resping in the first place.<\/p>\n
C\u0103 pe un gigel \u00eel f grija de ce fac al\u021bii mi se pare trist. Pe vremea mea, noi \u0103\u0219tia tineri \u0219i cool f\u0103ceam chestii tinere\u0219ti \u0219i cool, \u0219i b\u00e2rfa era specialitatea babelor, pe banca din fa\u021ba blocului sau prispa din fa\u021ba gardului, \u00een func\u021bie de situa\u021bie.<\/p>\n
Dar dincolo de gestul \u00een sine, hai s\u0103 analiz\u0103m un pic mentalitatea “datului de \u015fans\u0103”.<\/p>\n
Iubirea nu e act de milostenie cre\u015ftineasc\u0103. Nu po\u0163i face dragoste cu cineva, nu-i po\u0163i promite loialitate ve\u015fnic\u0103 \u015fi nu po\u0163i s\u0103 faci c\u0103min comun din milostenie cre\u015ftineasc\u0103. \u015ei nici m\u0103car nu po\u0163i s\u0103 te co\u0163\u0103i \u00een regim de one night stand din milostenie cre\u015ftineasc\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 optezi pentru one night stand, m\u0103car s\u0103 fie cu dorin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi pasiune.<\/p>\n
Sau \u00ee\u0163i place persoana respectiv\u0103, sau \u00ee\u0163i inspir\u0103 acel gen de atrac\u0163ie \u015fi acel tip de loialitate, sau nu, \u015fi dac\u0103 nu, nu se poate face nimic \u00een privin\u0163a asta.<\/p>\n
C\u0103 niciodat\u0103 milostenia cre\u015ftineasc\u0103, sau comp\u0103timirea c\u0103 vai, drag\u0103, dar totu\u015fi uite c\u00e2te face pentru tine, sau s\u0103racul, ce tare sufer\u0103 nu vor \u0163ine locul\u00a0DORIN\u0162EI AUTENTICE DE A FI CU PERSOANA AIA.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Recuno\u015fti cuplul \u00een care unul dintre parteneri e acolo de mil\u0103. Condescenden\u0163a profund\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt, impresia c\u0103 \u00eei face o uria\u015f\u0103 favoare prin faptul c\u0103 e acolo. De ce ai vrea s\u0103 fii tratat(\u0103) astfel? E chiar mai umilitor, dac\u0103 ai o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de respect de sine, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 te refuze \u015fi s\u0103 se a\u015ftepte ca tu, un om matur \u015fi inteligent, s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi.<\/p>\n Nu, gigele, p***zdele nu-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 o \u015fans\u0103. Suck it up and move on.<\/p>\n \u015ei cum recomand eu mereu, de c\u00e2te ori scriu despre iubire: nu v\u0103 tura\u0163i la nivel maxim din prima, nu v\u0103 face\u0163i planuri cu pus pirostriile \u015fi alte cele, p\u00e2n\u0103 nu v\u0103 convinge\u0163i, vorba bancului, c\u0103 cel\u0103lalt \u015ftie. \u015ei c\u0103 d\u0103 “partikip”.<\/p>\n Nu face\u0163i dec\u00e2t s\u0103 v\u0103 cultiva\u0163i diverse boli mintale. \u015ei e strict vina voastr\u0103. C\u00e2t timp cel\u0103lalt nu e implicat cu adev\u0103rat, c\u00e2t timp nu manifest\u0103 dorin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi dor fa\u0163\u0103 de voi, bate\u0163i la u\u015fi \u00eenchise.<\/p>\n \u015ei da, po\u0163i cere o \u015fans\u0103 pentru un job, da, po\u0163i cere o \u015fans\u0103 pentru un credit, da, po\u0163i cere o \u015fans\u0103 pentru o sponsorizare, da, po\u0163i cere o \u015fans\u0103 pentru o candidatur\u0103 politic\u0103. Nu, nu po\u0163i cere o \u015fans\u0103 \u00een amor. Sau e\u015fti iubit, sau nu e\u015fti.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Trebuie s\u0103 scriu acest articol, pentru c\u0103 e vorba despre o mentalitate care m\u0103 scoate din min\u021bi. \u0218i din cauza c\u0103reia am suferit toat\u0103...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19992,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/love.jpg?fit=640%2C334&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20552","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20552"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20552\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20553,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20552\/revisions\/20553"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20552"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20552"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20552"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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