\u00cemi plac mult r\u0103spunsurile tale pentru cititori la Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei, \u015fi \u00eemi place c\u0103 nu-i iei la fel de tare ca pe nesim\u0163i\u0163ii de pe Facebook.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n De ce i-a\u015f lua? Unii sunt ni\u015fte oameni care au o problem\u0103, al\u0163ii ni\u015fte m\u00e2rlani pro\u015fti care se hr\u0103nesc mintal din veninul pe care \u00eel injecteaz\u0103 \u00een al\u0163ii. Am un creier, \u015ftiu s\u0103 fac diferen\u0163a.<\/p>\n Pe scurt, am 27 de ani, nu am prea fost \u00een rela\u0163ii, m-a interesat mai mult s\u0103 am un job ok \u015fi o carier\u0103, s\u0103 fiu stabil\u0103 financiar, s\u0103 am lini\u015fte. \u015ei acum c\u00e2teva luni, a ap\u0103rut \u00een via\u0163a mea un tip. Problema e c\u0103 de cum a ap\u0103rut, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se dea foarte tare la mine, s\u0103 insiste, s\u0103 m\u0103 sune la ore aiurea \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 apropouri de prost gust. Chestia asta nu mi-a pl\u0103cut, a\u015fa c\u0103 i-am spus destul de dur c\u0103 nu m\u0103 atrage \u015fi c\u0103 e foarte iritant ceea ce face.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Omul s-a potolit. \u015ei \u00eentre timp, am ajuns s\u0103-l cunosc mai bine, e un tip ok, inteligent, cu suflet bun, are \u00een foster animale salvate de pe strad\u0103, ajut\u0103 oamenii la nevoie, \u015fi nici nu arat\u0103 r\u0103u. Dar problema mea nu fusese cum ar\u0103ta, ci cum se comporta, dac\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Mi-am dat seama c\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u00eemi plac\u0103 de el, dar m\u0103 simt foarte vinovat\u0103 c\u0103 l-am respins \u015fi totodat\u0103 mi-e fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu se r\u0103zbune pe mine \u015fi s\u0103 nu refuze el de data asta. <\/strong><\/p>\n Ce m\u0103 sf\u0103tuie\u015fti?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n N-ai de ce s\u0103 te sim\u0163i vinovat\u0103. Mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi dau singuri gloan\u0163e \u00een picior cu un comportament de \u00eemperechere absolut ridicol \u015fi insult\u0103tor pentru inteligen\u0163\u0103, apoi tot femeile sunt de vin\u0103 c\u0103 nu le v\u0103d sufletul. Tu ai reac\u0163ionat corect pe baza datelor care \u0163i-au fost prezentate \u00een momentul X.<\/p>\n Bine, ca s\u0103 nu sar\u0103 Gigel din comentarii c\u0103 de ce numai b\u0103rba\u0163ii e porci, f\u0103, o s\u0103 precizez c\u0103 multe femei fac ceva similar. Etaleaz\u0103 numai s\u00e2ni \u015fi fese, apoi tot b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt de vin\u0103 c\u0103 nu le v\u0103d sufletul.<\/p>\n Valabil pentru ambele sexe: dac\u0103 vrei pe cineva care s\u0103 te plac\u0103 \u00eentr-adev\u0103r pentru cine e\u015fti, fii cine e\u015fti. Dac\u0103 fluturi o poz\u0103 \u015fi o atitudine, va fi extrem de greu s-o men\u0163ii \u00eentre patru ochi, la 3 noaptea.<\/p>\n Revenind la tine, X. Da, ai f\u0103cut foarte bine s\u0103 respingi luarea la sigur. Dac\u0103 e\u015fti o femeie cu standarde, nu admi\u0163i s\u0103 fii tratat\u0103 ca o g\u00e2sculi\u0163\u0103. Nu e vina ta c\u0103 \u0103la e br\u00e2nz\u0103 bun\u0103 \u00een burduf de c\u00e2ine, dac\u0103 el \u0163i-a ar\u0103tat doar burduful de c\u00e2ine.<\/p>\n Pe de alt\u0103 parte, am un avertisment pentru tine, pe care \u00eel fac tuturor friendzona\u0163ilor de ambele sexe. \u015ei anume:<\/p>\n Doar pentru c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 e un excelent prieten \/ o excelent\u0103 prieten\u0103, nu e neap\u0103rat obligatoriu ca asta s\u0103 se traduc\u0103 \u015fi \u00een\u00a0 calitatea lor ca parteneri.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Adic\u0103, e posibil ca tipul \u0103sta s\u0103 fie tovar\u0103\u015ful perfect la beri, s\u0103 al\u0103pteze pui de c\u00e2ine cu biberonul, s\u0103 viziteze orfelinate \u00een fiecare duminic\u0103, s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 mai bine dec\u00e2t m\u0103-ta, dar s\u0103 nu fie dispus s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 toate astea \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie. Cu tine sau cu alta. E perfect posibil ca uman s\u0103 fie ok, dar amoros s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 nimic de oferit.<\/p>\n P\u0103rerea mea e c\u0103 \u00een cazul \u0103sta, cel mai simplu e s\u0103 stai omene\u015fte de vorb\u0103 cu el, fa\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103-i spui: Nu mi-a pl\u0103cut modul \u00een care ai \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 ag\u0103\u0163i, dar \u00eentre timp te-am cunoscut ca om \u015fi \u00eemi place ce v\u0103d. Vrei s\u0103 mai \u00eencerc\u0103m o dat\u0103?<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 te place, o s\u0103 vrea. Dac\u0103 a \u00eencercat doar s\u0103 dea o buc\u0103 – foarte posibil – \u015fi dac\u0103 n-ai stat, a trecut la urm\u0103toarea sugestie Facebook, m\u0103car o s\u0103 \u015ftii. \u015ei dac\u0103 e genul de prost care se r\u0103zbun\u0103, m\u0103car \u015ftii \u015fi asta. \u0102la e cel mai toxic \u015fi d\u0103un\u0103tor tip de boufriend \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i scute\u015fti o traum\u0103.<\/p>\n \u00cen definitiv, nu mi se pare nimic \u00een neregul\u0103 cu traseul t\u0103u emo\u0163ional. R\u0103m\u00e2ne doar s\u0103 descoperi unde se situeaz\u0103 el de fapt.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n *** ***<\/p>\n Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru.\u00a0 Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17712,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/letter.jpg?fit=760%2C400&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20641"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20643,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20641\/revisions\/20643"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17712"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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