{"id":20661,"date":"2020-10-28T10:34:47","date_gmt":"2020-10-28T07:34:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20661"},"modified":"2020-10-28T10:34:47","modified_gmt":"2020-10-28T07:34:47","slug":"problemele-neasteptate-ale-femeilor-frumoase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/problemele-neasteptate-ale-femeilor-frumoase\/","title":{"rendered":"Problemele nea\u015fteptate ale femeilor frumoase"},"content":{"rendered":"

Am c\u00e2teva cuno\u015ftin\u0163e mai apropiate sau mai \u00eendep\u0103rtate care arat\u0103 de-\u0163i \u00een\u0163epene\u015fte maxilarul. Frumoase de te ia cu le\u015fin. Frumoase de-\u0163i ui\u0163i fraza. Frumoase la fa\u0163\u0103, la corp, genul dup\u0103 care se opre\u015fte circula\u0163ia.<\/p>\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cele c\u00e2teva frumoase, suntem noi, restul, la categoria “mai degrab\u0103 interesante” sau “da, simpatice” sau “nu e ur\u00e2t\u0103, chelner, \u00eenc\u0103 dou\u0103 shoturi”. \u015ei \u00eentotdeauna m-am \u00eentrebat oare cum o fi s\u0103 te ui\u0163i \u00een oglind\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 Miss Univers \u00eenapoi. Am stat pu\u0163in de vorb\u0103 cu ele, mai degrab\u0103 informal, c\u0103 dac\u0103 le ziceam c\u0103 o fac pentru un text pe blog se f\u00e2st\u00e2ceau, \u015fi am aflat urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n

A) Sunt femei frumoase care nu se consider\u0103 cine \u015ftie ce.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cred c\u0103 nu lucreaz\u0103 secole de patriarhie \u00een\u00a0 detrimentul femeii a\u015fa cum lucreaz\u0103, zi de zi, propria lor tendin\u0163\u0103 de a g\u0103si un motiv de nemul\u0163umire, \u00een special unul legat de propria persoan\u0103.<\/p>\n

Un b\u0103rbat c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t dr\u0103gu\u0163 se uit\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103 \u015fi zice: Da, coae, sunt cel mai mi\u015fto de la mine din bloc. Obiectiv, dac\u0103 a\u015f fi femeie, a\u015f veni cu mine.<\/p>\n

End of introspection.<\/p>\n

O femeie frumoas\u0103 de te trec sudori se uit\u0103 \u00een oglind\u0103 \u015fi zice: Vai, dar sunt sinistr\u0103. Parc\u0103 am re\u0163inut ap\u0103 \u015fi mi se vede un \u00eenceput de burt\u0103, \u015fi am pungi sub ochi, \u015fi am p\u0103rul prea cre\u0163, psst, ia s\u0103-l ard cu placa \/ prea lins, ia s\u0103-l torturez cu bigudiuri.<\/p>\n

Bottomline: O femeie fabulos de frumoas\u0103 poate fi la fel de scorojit\u0103 pe interior de \u00eendoieli \u015fi semne de \u00eentrebare legate de sine ca tocilara clasei.<\/p>\n

B) O femeie frumoas\u0103 \u00eendur\u0103 un nivel de h\u0103r\u0163uire pe care restul lumii nici m\u0103car nu-l viseaz\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 orice ur\u00e2tanie de mascul din Ciuflinge\u015ftii de Deal intr\u0103 pe social media, vede o femeie frumoas\u0103, mult peste liga lui, \u015fi \u00eencepe CF, frumoasa? Pisyyy. Hei, f\u0103, \u00eencrezuto. S\u0103-\u0163i dau la m…<\/p>\n

\u015ei da, ca op\u0163iunile B, C \u015fi D \u00eendur\u0103m \u015fi noi parte din acela\u015fi calvar, dar nu la nivelul \u0103la. OMG. Via\u0163a unei femei frumoase e ca o continu\u0103 trecere pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 un \u015fantier din Ghencea.<\/p>\n

C) \u015ei nu, nu e m\u0103gulitor.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Extrem de pu\u0163ini \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u015fi comunice interesul \u00eentr-un stil care s\u0103 seduc\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2nte \u015fi s\u0103 invite la reciprocitate. Majoritatea parc\u0103-s babuini pica\u0163i din pom. M\u0103 mir cum de nu produce Rom\u00e2nia banane, dac\u0103 e s\u0103 judec\u0103m dup\u0103 nivelul lor.<\/p>\n

Problema e c\u0103 genul \u0103sta de aten\u0163ie agresiv\u0103 \u015fi degradant\u0103 vine din adolescen\u0163\u0103, c\u00e2nd fetele nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 se\u00a0 apere – \u015fi unele ajung la o sil\u0103 intens\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i.<\/p>\n

D) Lupta pentru a te impune e de zece ori mai grea.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu c\u00e2t o femeie e mai frumoas\u0103, cu at\u00e2t tinde s\u0103 fie tratat\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 ca un obiect agreabil de decor, \u015fi mai pu\u0163in ca o persoan\u0103 competent\u0103 \u015fi capabil\u0103 de mai mult.<\/p>\n

Toate femeile frumoase pe care le cunosc \u015fi care au realizat ceva \u00een via\u0163\u0103 s-au luat la tr\u00e2nt\u0103 cu prejudec\u0103\u0163i mult mai aspre, cu tentative de umilire mult mai mari \u015fi cu sabotaj mult mai aprig, pricinuit de aspectul fizic.<\/p>\n

E) De la un punct, retezi orice compliment la modul urm\u0103tor: “E\u015fti frumoas\u0103.” “Nu, sunt mai mult de at\u00e2t”.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015ei asta pentru c\u0103 apare sindromul Marilyn. C\u00e2nd e\u015fti frumoas\u0103 \u015fi lumea nu vrea s\u0103 vad\u0103 sau s\u0103 ia \u00een calcul nimic mai mult. \u00cen spatele fiec\u0103rui chip frumos e un\u00a0 suflet de om.<\/p>\n

F) Te pomene\u015fti \u0163inta unor intrigi de-a dreptul abisale, de\u015fi nu ai f pe mama nim\u0103nui.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

E bizar modul \u00een care simpla frumuse\u0163e a unei femei na\u015fte o alian\u0163\u0103 diabolic\u0103 \u00eentre b\u0103rba\u0163i care \u015ftiu c\u0103 nu vor avea niciodat\u0103 acces \u015fi femei proaste \u015fi rele.\u00a0 Cum se pornesc diverse uneltiri ca \u00een curtea liceului, cum se organizeaz\u0103 to\u0163i rata\u0163ii \u015fi c\u00e2t efort pun s\u0103 demoleze femeia frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 fi investit at\u00e2ta efort \u00een munc\u0103 cinstit\u0103 \u015fi productiv\u0103, acum aveau bani de opera\u0163ii estetice.<\/p>\n

Bonus: Cine, m\u0103? Aia e frumoas\u0103? \u015ei c\u00e2inele comunitar al blocului e mai frumos dec\u00e2t ea.<\/p>\n

G) B\u0103rba\u0163ii care \u00ee\u0163i plac se panicheaz\u0103 de num\u0103rul vizibil mare de op\u0163iuni.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015ei devin evazivi. Sau extrem de gelo\u015fi \u015fi posesivi. Sau competitivi de-a dreptul. Sau le e fric\u0103 de faptul c\u0103, la c\u00e2t e\u015fti de frumoas\u0103, la un moment dat apare un F\u0103t Frumos pe Range Rover argintiu \u015fi disp\u0103re\u0163i \u00een apus.<\/p>\n

H) \u015ei nu te trateaz\u0103 mai bine dec\u00e2t pe restul.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un mit al fetelor nemul\u0163umite de ele este c\u0103, dac\u0103 ar ar\u0103ta cu adev\u0103rat bine, ar avea parte de mai pu\u0163in ghosting, de mai pu\u0163in\u0103 b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nie \u015fi de mai pu\u0163ine \u015ficane.<\/p>\n

\u00cen realitate, e taman invers. Frumuse\u0163ea femeii e un stimulent. Stimulent fiind, dac\u0103 \u0103la e prost, \u00eei exacerbeaz\u0103 condi\u0163ia p\u00e2n\u0103 la insuportabil. Un prost d\u0103 o copit\u0103 scurt\u0103 unei femei a\u015fa \u015fi a\u015fa, pentru c\u0103 e miza mic\u0103. Dar c\u00e2nd nimere\u015fte pe una cu adev\u0103rat frumoas\u0103, prostia se multiplic\u0103 brusc cu o mie \u015fi se cere insistent afar\u0103. Toat\u0103 deodat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i cu adev\u0103rat bine, \u015ftii cine e singurul b\u0103rbat care \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 un tratament mai special?<\/p>\n

Designerul gay care te angajeaz\u0103 s\u0103-i por\u0163i noua colec\u0163ie pe catwalk. Pentru c\u0103 \u0103la nu e interesat s\u0103 fac\u0103 pe b\u0103rb\u0103tu\u015ful \u00eenfoiat cu tine \u015fi ai \u015fi tu loc s\u0103 fii tu, pur \u015fi simplu,<\/p>\n

Una peste alta, b\u0103ie\u0163i \u015fi fete, nu invidia\u0163i frumuse\u0163ea apropiat\u0103 de ideal. E un drum lung \u015fi at\u00e2t de singuratic, c\u0103 mul\u0163i am ceda pe la jum\u0103tate. Bucur\u0103-te de zestrea ta genetic\u0103 sau, dac\u0103 ai cu ce, de micile ajust\u0103ri ale esteticianului, \u015fi consoleaz\u0103-te c\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna va exista mai mult\u0103 b\u0103utur\u0103, iar aceasta va contribui direct la farmecul t\u0103u personal.<\/p>\n

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