{"id":20806,"date":"2020-11-24T20:38:44","date_gmt":"2020-11-24T17:38:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20806"},"modified":"2020-11-24T20:45:03","modified_gmt":"2020-11-24T17:45:03","slug":"posta-redactiei-nu-pot-renunta-la-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-nu-pot-renunta-la-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Nu pot renun\u021ba la el"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n

Hei, Lore…<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0103 confrunt cu o situa\u021bie de ceva timp \u0219i nu \u0219tiu cu cine s\u0103 vorbesc.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
Boon, deci ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi un pic situa\u021bia, am s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi explic. Acum vreo trei ani, m-am desp\u0103r\u021bit de un b\u0103iat. Am tr\u0103it o poveste frumoas\u0103 de dragoste, f\u0103ceam tur-retur Bucure\u0219ti-Medgidia \u0219i invers, doar ca s\u0103 \u00eel v\u0103d. \u0218i el pentru mine la fel.<\/strong><\/div>\n
L-am iubit maxim, cred c\u0103 a fost cea mai mare dragoste din via\u021ba mea. Nu cred. Sunt sigur\u0103. Cic\u0103 marea dragoste e primul care \u00ee\u021bi “schimb\u0103 uleiul”, never ever. Pe \u0103la l-am uitat repede. Ehh, uite c\u0103 pe \u0103sta nu pot. De\u0219i m-a r\u0103nit, m-a \u00een\u0219elat, a tr\u0103it cu mine \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 altele pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, \u00een acela\u0219i timp. Acum vreo lun\u0103, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 caute. El are rela\u021bie, eu am rela\u021bie. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Nu e vorba de \u00eemp\u0103care… nu. E vorba c\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103scole\u0219te \u0219i nu pot s\u0103 \u00eei dau block, i-am dat de 17000 de ori \u0219i tot l-am scos. \u0218i el pe mine la fel. Nu poate renun\u021ba la mine \u00een sensul de prieten\u0103, iar eu nu \u00eei pot fi asta. L-am iubit prea mult, mai mult dec\u00e2t \u00eel iubesc pe Dumnezeu. Mai mult dec\u00e2t orice. Nu \u00eemi afecteaz\u0103 rela\u021bia actual\u0103, sunt fericit\u0103 cu X, avem un trecut \u00eempreun\u0103. \u00cencerc\u0103ri, bucurii \u0219i lacrimi. Nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac, cum s\u0103 \u00eei spun c\u0103 nu \u00eei pot fi prieten\u0103, nici block nu \u00eei pot da. Are nevoie de cineva al\u0103turi, dat fiind faptul c\u0103 \u0219i-a pierdut tat\u0103l \u00een august, pe motiv Covid. \u0218i nu comunic\u0103 cu iubita lui. Nu i se poate desc\u0103rca ei \u0219i m\u0103 umple pe mine de sentimentele lui. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Ce s\u0103 fac?! Cum s\u0103 \u00eel fac s\u0103 stea la locul lui? Cum s\u0103 \u00eei mai explic c\u0103 eu nu \u00eei pot oferi asisten\u021b\u0103 \u00een problemele lui, c\u0103 \u0219i eu le am pe ale mele…please heelp.<\/strong><\/div>\n
X.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Drag\u0103 X,<\/div>\n
Hai s\u0103 fim clare am\u00e2ndou\u0103 \u00een privin\u021ba inten\u021biilor tale reale. Tu \u00eel vrei pe \u0103sta \u00eenapoi, o \u0219tii \u0219i tu, m-am prins \u0219i eu. Altfel \u00eei d\u0103deai block \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi vedeai de via\u021ba ta. Sau \u00eei acceptai pur \u0219i simplu prietenia.<\/div>\n
Pe tine, \u00eens\u0103, te mai m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u00een pizm\u0103 dup\u0103 el. Iar \u0103sta e un pervers ordinar \u0219i \u0219tie. De aceea \u00ee\u021bi \u0219i serve\u0219te bullshiturile cu nu comunic\u0103 cu iubita lui \u0219i nu i se poate desc\u0103rca ei. \u00ce\u021bi alimenteaz\u0103 subliminal speran\u021ba c\u0103 poate-poate, \u00eentr-o zi, a\u0219a cum fac to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii lua\u021bi, dar care vor s\u0103 f*** pe l\u00e2ng\u0103.<\/div>\n
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\u00cei pas\u0103 \u0103stuia \u00een mod real de tine? A\u0219 zice c\u0103 nu prea. De fapt, a\u0219 zice c\u0103 nu, deloc, judec\u00e2nd dup\u0103 modul \u00een care te-a tratat c\u00e2t te-a avut, \u0219i pe care \u00eel descrii \u0219i tu. “Dar m\u0103 caut\u0103\u0103\u0103”. Pentru c\u0103 cite\u015fte adora\u0163ia din ochii t\u0103i \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi extrage stim\u0103 de sine din asta. O spui \u015fi tu. Noua prietenie dintre voi doi are un singur topic. Problemele lui. \u015ei numai problemele lui. De-asta nici nu-\u0163i convine, de fapt.<\/div>\n
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Vaginul t\u0103u \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eel dore\u015fte cu ardoare – probabil era foarte bun la pat. Dar subcon\u015ftientul t\u0103u \u015ftie c\u0103 e\u015fti doar tamponul emo\u0163ional, \u015fi nu-\u0163i convine.<\/div>\n
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P\u0103rerea mea e s\u0103 \u00eel prive\u015fti pe individ ca pe un viciu. Tot exist\u0103 Alcoolicii Anonimi, dac\u0103 tot am eu veniturile diminuate de Covid, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc s\u0103 fac grupul Amorezatele de Cine Nu Trebuie Anonime, unde, contra unui fee lunar, fiecare \u00ee\u015fi vars\u0103 jalea \u015fi restul o sus\u0163in \u015fi o \u00eencurajeaz\u0103.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei, treptat, renun\u0163i la viciu, \u00ee\u0163i asumi c\u0103 nu e bun pentru tine, c\u0103 \u0163i-a adus doar neajunsuri, \u015fi o s\u0103 ai abilitatea de a\u00a0 da o dat\u0103 blockul \u0103la, pe bune, definitiv.<\/div>\n
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Dar p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenfiin\u0163ez eu grupul Amorezatele de Cine Nu Trebuie Anonime, trebuie s\u0103 faci munca asta de renun\u0163are la pxla lui divin\u0103 de una singur\u0103. Dac\u0103 vrei \u015fi tu o via\u0163\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 efecte secundare nedorite.<\/div>\n
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Te \u00eembr\u0103\u0163i\u015fez empatic.<\/div>\n
Lorena.<\/div>\n
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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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