{"id":20878,"date":"2020-12-04T14:39:20","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T11:39:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20878"},"modified":"2020-12-04T14:39:20","modified_gmt":"2020-12-04T11:39:20","slug":"cea-mai-importanta-intrebare-pe-care-s-o-pui-alesei-tale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cea-mai-importanta-intrebare-pe-care-s-o-pui-alesei-tale\/","title":{"rendered":"Cea mai important\u0103 \u00eentrebare pe care s-o pui alesei tale"},"content":{"rendered":"

Fl\u0103c\u0103i, postarea asta este pentru voi.<\/p>\n

Ai crede c\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103rile importante pe care trebuie s\u0103 le pui unei femei sunt: “M\u0103 iube\u0219ti?”, “Vrei copii?” sau “Ne mut\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103?”<\/p>\n

Din c\u00e2te se pare, nu. Chiar nu.<\/p>\n

\u00cenainte de toate, \u00eentrebarea vital\u0103 este: “\u00ce\u0163i place s\u0103 prime\u015fti bani cadou?”<\/p>\n

Aceast\u0103 conversa\u0163ie e revelatorie:<\/p>\n

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Nu, b\u0103ie\u0163i, nu toate femeile sunt la fel, \u015fi dup\u0103 cum se vede, o chestie pentru care una se sup\u0103r\u0103 flea\u015fc\u0103 \u015fi te \u0163ine \u00een silenzio stampa dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni e fix op\u0163iunea preferat\u0103 a alteia.<\/p>\n

Eu adooor s\u0103 mi se transfere mie decizia. Tu d\u0103-mi banii, gift cardul, mita, \u015fpaga, bac\u015fi\u015ful, verdea\u0163a, lovela, c\u0103 din acel punct \u00eencolo, m\u0103 descurc.<\/p>\n

Mult timp din via\u0163a mea, c\u00e2t eram mic\u0103 \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163elegeam c\u0103 diversitatea e un lucru frumos, oamenii care f\u0103ceau drame la un gift card sau un plic de bani mi se p\u0103reau entitled b*tches. Copii r\u0103zg\u00e2ia\u0163i care le-au avut pe toate de mici \u015fi de aceea nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 se bucure de un cadou generos.\u00a0Ia s\u0103 fi primit voi cadou \u015fosete, haine ur\u00e2te cu spume \u015fi alte cadouri anticlimactice de Cr\u0103ciun, s\u0103 vede\u0163i ce tare v-a\u0163i bucura de un gift card sau de o sum\u0103 de bani. Primul cadou de care m-am bucurat pe bune \u00een via\u0163a mea a fost c\u00e2nd cineva mi-a dat o bancnot\u0103 de 50. M\u0103car din \u0103ia mi-am putut cump\u0103ra ceva care s\u0103 m\u0103 bucure.<\/p>\n

“Al\u0163ii se vaiet\u0103 c\u0103 au primit cadou o sticl\u0103 de vin b\u0103ut\u0103 pe jum\u0103tate sau a 4578-a can\u0103 ironic\u0103 \u015fi asta are o dram\u0103 c\u0103 a primit un gift card? WTFFF??” ar fi exclamat caustic Lorena de la 20 de ani.<\/p>\n

Acum, pot \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 pentru unii oameni, factorul surpriz\u0103 e mai important dec\u00e2t pl\u0103cerea sau utilitatea concret\u0103 a obiectului, \u015fi nu-i mai judec at\u00e2t de sever. Snntem diferi\u0163i \u015fi e ok.<\/p>\n

But still. Panica primirii unui cadou de tot rahatul m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fte din cea mi fraged\u0103 pruncie. E ceea ce nu-mi mai doresc s\u0103 experimentez vreodat\u0103. Prefer s\u0103 nu primesc cadou deloc. \u00cen concluzie, dac\u0103 \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 faci un cadou, d\u0103 tu banii, c\u0103 fata \u015ftie exact ce s\u0103-\u015fi cumpere \u015fi de unde.<\/p>\n

Aleasa ta cea nou\u0103 poate fi ca mine, sau poate fi ca Andreea. Po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i iei dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de istericale zilnice de la una exact pentru ceea ce \u00eei va aduce o bucurie imens\u0103 celeilalte.<\/p>\n

Taman, de aceea, nu l\u0103sa loc de presupuneri. \u00centreab\u0103.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Fl\u0103c\u0103i, postarea asta este pentru voi. Ai crede c\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103rile importante pe care trebuie s\u0103 le pui unei femei sunt: “M\u0103 iube\u0219ti?”, “Vrei copii?”...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20881,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/gift.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20878"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20878\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20882,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20878\/revisions\/20882"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}