{"id":20911,"date":"2020-12-10T16:04:39","date_gmt":"2020-12-10T13:04:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20911"},"modified":"2020-12-10T16:08:15","modified_gmt":"2020-12-10T13:08:15","slug":"m-au-batut-dar-am-meritat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/m-au-batut-dar-am-meritat\/","title":{"rendered":"M-au b\u0103tut, dar am meritat"},"content":{"rendered":"

De Mo\u0219 Nicolae, am f\u0103cut un repost, al unui text mai vechi legat de un obicei care mi s-a p\u0103rut extrem de bizar \u0219i de dubios. \u00cen frumoas\u0103 zi de s\u0103rb\u0103toare, \u00eei facem copila\u0219ului cadouri, fie c\u0103-s dulciuri, fie c\u0103-s fructe dac\u0103 familia o arde pe fitness \u0219i pe health, \u0219i, printre cadouri, \u00eei b\u0103g\u0103m uite a\u0219a \u0219i un b\u0103\u021b, s\u0103-i amintim c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu e cuminte, \u00eel rupem cu b\u0103taia.<\/p>\n

Recitesc fraza de mai sus. Da, \u00eemi sun\u0103 extrem de bolnav cu capul. E ca \u0219i cum de ziua unuia \u00eei cump\u0103r\u0103m ceva dr\u0103gu\u021b \u0219i b\u0103g\u0103m \u0219i un glon\u021b, s\u0103-i amintim c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu joac\u0103 a\u0219a cum fluier\u0103m, \u00eei spulber\u0103m creierii. E ca \u0219i cum, de aniversarea nun\u021bii, \u00eei oferim nevestei pantofii \u0103ia frumo\u0219i de firm\u0103 \u0219i, uitat\u0103 \u00een pachet, o cerere de divor\u021b \u00een alb, just in case.<\/p>\n

\u00cenc\u0103 de mic\u0103, povesteam eu, chestia asta cu b\u0103\u021bul \u00eemi ruina complet s\u0103rb\u0103toarea, \u0219i preferam s\u0103 nu vin\u0103 Mo\u0219 Nicolae deloc, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 vin\u0103 a\u0219a, cu \u0219antajul \u0219i amenin\u021barea.<\/p>\n

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Slav\u0103 Domnului, o parte dintre cititori au \u00een\u021beles perfect ideea \u0219i au g\u0103sit-o la fel de sick cum am g\u0103sit-o eu. Dar au existat \u0219i oamenii pe care b\u0103taia primit\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103rie i-a mutilat emo\u021bional \u00een asemenea hal, \u00eenc\u00e2t perorau indigna\u021bi despre perspectiva de a \u201eli se lua\u201d (de c\u0103tre cine, n-au zis) nuiaua de Mo\u015f Nicolae. C\u00e2nd citesc genul \u0103sta de crampon\u0103ri de abuz, m\u0103 iau de cap \u015fi \u00eemi zic: Cum plm s\u0103 nu se aleag\u0103 AUR, c\u00e2nd votantul e AT\u00c2T de idiot, de dependent de abuz sau un mix al celor dou\u0103?<\/p>\n

Dar, poate, cea mai sf\u00e2\u015fietor de dureroas\u0103 opinie pe care o citesc iar \u015fi iar, este: M\u0103 b\u0103teau, dar meritam.<\/p>\n

Erai un copil mic, care nu \u015ftia diferen\u0163a \u00eentre bine \u015fi r\u0103u, nu \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103dea seama cu ce gre\u015fe\u015fte \u0219i nu g\u00e2ndea pe termen lung. Erai inocent, lipsit de ap\u0103rare, \u015fi u\u015for de fr\u00e2nt. Iar ai t\u0103i se foloseau de dependen\u0163a ta fa\u0163\u0103 de \u00eengrijirea, dragostea \u015fi resursele lor s\u0103-\u015fi descarce pe tine toate frustr\u0103rile adunate din n alte locuri. Nu, nu o meritai.<\/p>\n

\u0218i dac\u0103 reexaminezi, te b\u0103teau pe cele mai stupide motive.<\/p>\n

M\u00e2ncai b\u0103taie pentru c\u0103 uitai s\u0103 dai bun\u0103 ziua babei nu \u015ftiu care, iar aia te p\u00e2ra prompt la m\u0103-ta. Da, chiar. C\u00e2t de frustrat\u0103, proast\u0103 \u015fi rea putea fi baba nu \u015ftiu care, s\u0103 prind\u0103 oftic\u0103 pe faptul c\u0103 un copil mic nu i-a dat bun\u0103 ziua? Imagina\u0163i-v\u0103 cum v\u0103 duce\u0163i la vecina voastr\u0103 Vasilica \u015fi \u00eei zice\u0163i cu indignare \u00een voce: \u201eB\u0103i, Vasilico, m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu fiic\u0103-ta pe sc\u0103ri \u015fi, imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i una ca asta, nu m-a salutat!! P\u0103i se poate a\u015fa ceva, b\u0103i, femeie, b\u0103i? M\u0103 simt OFENSAT\u0102. OFENSAT\u0102, m-ai \u00een\u0163eles?? Pe vremea mea, d\u0103deam bun\u0103 ziua \u015fi dac\u0103 nu trecea nimeni. Vasilicoo!!!\u201d<\/p>\n

M\u00e2ncai b\u0103taie pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i intra apa \u00een cizme prea vechi, c\u00e2nd ei, ca adul\u0163i responsabili, ar fi trebuit s\u0103 remarce c\u0103 sunt peste m\u0103sur\u0103 de uzate. M\u00e2ncai b\u0103taie dac\u0103 sp\u0103rgeai un bibelou chinezesc ur\u00e2t cu spume. M\u00e2ncai b\u0103taie cu cele mai penibile pretexte \u015fi cele mai absurde motive.<\/p>\n

Nu, Gogule, nu meritai b\u0103taie. Meritai iubire, r\u0103bdare, explica\u0163ii pertinente \u015fi o educa\u0163ie ra\u0163ional\u0103. \u015ei a\u015fa, ai fi ie\u015fit o persoan\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 cu capul, apt\u0103 de ra\u0163ionamente inteligente, te-ai fi ab\u0163inut de la r\u0103u pentru c\u0103 ai fi \u015ftiut c\u0103-i afecteaz\u0103 pe oameni \u015fi ai fi f\u0103cut bine pentru c\u0103 po\u0163i \u015fi pentru c\u0103 \u0163i-e drag.<\/p>\n

\u015ei nu ai fi dus mai departe o s\u0103rb\u0103toare de bolnavi psihic, \u00een care d\u0103m nuiele copiilor, strecurate printre dulciuri, ca o subtil\u0103 amenin\u0163are: te supui sau rup pielea pe tine.<\/p>\n

\u201eVai, dar e simbol!\u201d<\/p>\n

Nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 astfel de simboluri. Dac\u0103 \u00eemi veni\u0163i cu ele, pleca\u0163i cu ele \u00eenfipte \u00een locul umbros unde nu vede\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 epila\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Vindeca\u0163i-v\u0103 de ideea c\u0103 a\u0163i merita violen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nu mai perpetua\u0163i abuzul. Pentru propriul vostru echilibru sufletesc, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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