Am v\u0103zut c\u00e2t de sincer \u0219i tolerant r\u0103spunzi tuturor scrisorilor din Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, de aceea a\u0219 vrea s\u0103-\u021bi scriu \u0219i eu.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Sunt o femeie foarte, foarte singur\u0103. Anul \u0103sta, mai mult dec\u00e2t oric\u00e2nd, pentru c\u0103 muncesc \u00een telemunc\u0103 \u0219i mi s-a luat \u0219i pl\u0103cerea de a bea o cafea cu colegele. Familia mea locuie\u0219te \u00eentr-un ora\u0219 aflat \u00een prezent \u00een carantin\u0103, unde lumea se bate pe ultimul pat de la ATI, \u0219i nu m\u0103 pot deplasa de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, s\u0103 nu \u00eei pun \u0219i mai mult \u00een pericol. Nu am o rela\u021bie, pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii nu m\u0103 g\u0103sesc atr\u0103g\u0103toare. Prieteni nu \u0219tiu s\u0103-mi fac, pentru c\u0103 sunt o fire \u00eenchis\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Mi-e fric\u0103 de s\u0103rb\u0103torile care urmeaz\u0103, Lore. Ur\u0103sc singur\u0103tatea din tot sufletul, mi se pare groaznic s\u0103 nu am pe cine s\u0103 str\u00e2ng \u00een bra\u021be. \u0218i totu\u0219i, nu am ce face. Anul 2020 \u00een totalitate a fost extrem de greu, dar singur\u0103tatea de acum, mai ales cea de Cr\u0103ciun, s\u0103rb\u0103toarea oamenilor care se iubesc \u0219i care \u00ee\u0219i aduc unii altora bucurie, mi se pare imposibil de suportat.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Cum s\u0103 fac fa\u021b\u0103 acestor tr\u0103iri?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Eu a\u0219 \u00eencepe prin a-mi pune o \u00eentrebare: ce e at\u00e2t de groaznic la ideea de singur\u0103tate. De ce te temi de propria ta companie? E\u0219ti tu cu tine. Libertatea \u0219i intimitatea absolut\u0103. Poate c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 te \u00eemprietene\u0219ti mai mult tu cu tine, s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 te tratezi cu ging\u0103\u0219ie \u0219i bun\u0103tate, s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi sincer lucruri DESPRE TINE, nu despre cum s\u0103 placi altora, \u0219i o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i surprins\u0103 ce companie pl\u0103cut\u0103 e\u0219ti. \u0218i dac\u0103 e\u0219ti companie pl\u0103cut\u0103 pentru tine, o s\u0103 fii companie pl\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i pentru poten\u021biali prieteni \u0219i iubi\u021bi.<\/p>\n \u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, exist\u0103 telefoane \u0219i aplica\u021bii de conversat \u00een scris, video, audio, gratis, pe bani, cu oricine de pe planet\u0103. Eu m\u0103 simt perpetuu ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 fi \u00eentr-o \u00eenc\u0103pere plin\u0103 de lume, chiar dac\u0103 sunt singur\u0103 \u00een garsonier\u0103, pentru c\u0103 perpetuu piuie, zb\u00e2rn\u00e2ie sau face ping c\u00e2te ceva, suger\u00e2nd c\u0103 cineva \u00eemi pretinde fioros aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n Sun\u0103-\u021bi familia de pe laptop, g\u0103te\u0219te cu mama ta, joac\u0103 jocuri online cu fra\u021bii, urm\u0103re\u0219te meciul \u00een shared view cu taic\u0103-tu. O s\u0103 juri c\u0103 e\u0219ti cu ei.<\/p>\n Dar dac\u0103 \u021bii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 ai suflete \u00een jur, adun\u0103 pisoi de pe strad\u0103. \u00cei v\u0103d zilnic, rup\u021bi de frig, le dau s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce, \u0219i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103-i ad\u0103postesc, dar nu am unde. O cas\u0103 cu pisici e o cas\u0103 plin\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i veselie. Ia un laser pointer, c\u00e2teva cutii mari cu plicule\u021be umede de la Lidl \u0219i nisipul lor imens de 10 kg. F\u0103-le litier\u0103 dintr-un lighean vechi. O s\u0103 ui\u021bi termenul singur\u0103tate instant. Pisica \u00ee\u0219i ia o marj\u0103 de timp s\u0103 fie sigur\u0103 c\u0103 te place, dar odat\u0103 ce a decis c\u0103 te iube\u0219te, \u00ee\u021bi va oferi cea mai profund\u0103 \u0219i totodat\u0103 capricioas\u0103 rela\u021bie a vie\u021bii tale.<\/p>\n \u0218i da, \u0219i eu fac Cr\u0103ciunul singur\u0103, dar uite diferen\u021ba:<\/p>\n Eu m\u0103 plac. Chiar m\u0103 plac. Chiar \u00eemi sur\u00e2de ideea unui Cr\u0103ciun singuratic, pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi place al naibii de mult de mine \u0219i m\u0103 distrez cu mine. 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