{"id":20986,"date":"2020-12-23T11:19:17","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T08:19:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=20986"},"modified":"2020-12-23T11:19:17","modified_gmt":"2020-12-23T08:19:17","slug":"de-ce-atata-violenta-impotriva-persoanelor-trans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-atata-violenta-impotriva-persoanelor-trans\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce at\u00e2ta violen\u021b\u0103 \u00eempotriva persoanelor trans?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Filmule\u021bul face ravagii pe TikTok \u0219i la figurat, \u0219i mai ales la propriu, de dou\u0103 zile. Poli\u021bia \u00een\u0219fac\u0103 o tip\u0103 trans mignon\u0103, o tr\u00e2ntesc pe jos, dau \u00een ea, \u00eei smulg peruca, o \u00eenc\u0103tu\u0219eaz\u0103 \u0219i o t\u00e2r\u0103sc. Motivul? Vorbea cam tare la telefon \u00een autobuz. Da, nepl\u0103cut, dar e un p\u0103cat de care se face vinovat\u0103 jum\u0103tate din popula\u021bia Bucure\u0219tiului.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 \u00een locul femeii trans, ar fi fost o matahal\u0103 de gigel burtos, chel \u0219i cu \u0219apte b\u0103rbii, pe de o parte n-ar fi chemat nimeni poli\u021bia, \u0219i pe de alta, poli\u021bia ar fi fost mult mai “vai, dar v\u0103 rug\u0103m frumos, dac\u0103 se poate \u015fi nu cerem prea mult, s\u0103 reduce\u0163i sonorul, mul\u0163umim pentru \u00een\u0163elegere”.<\/p>\n

Mi-am amintit de un caz care s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat la Sibiu acum un an, \u015fi despre care am \u015fi g\u0103sit acest articol am\u0103nun\u0163it<\/a><\/strong> \u00een Ora de Sibiu. Dou\u0103 femei trans ies \u00een club s\u0103 se distreze. Le acosteaz\u0103 un gigel. Ca s\u0103 nu existe discu\u0163ii proaste mai \u00eencolo, femeia trans \u00eel pune \u00een tem\u0103 pe gigel c\u0103 e trans. \u015ei din punctul \u0103la, gigel \u00eennebune\u015fte. Le urm\u0103re\u015fte \u00een alt club, le propune s\u0103-i fac\u0103 o mu** \u00een baie \u015fi, \u00een ultim\u0103 instan\u0163\u0103, \u00eencepe s\u0103 le bat\u0103 cu sete. \u015ei nimeni, absolut nimeni, nu le ap\u0103r\u0103. Mai mult, patronul barului e indignat c\u0103 femeia b\u0103tut\u0103 \u00een localul lui a sunat la poli\u0163ie s\u0103 cear\u0103 ap\u0103rare.<\/p>\n

Acum mai mul\u0163i ani, c\u00e2nd am scris despre Veveri\u0163ele Vesele din Cluj, \u0163in minte c\u0103 aceea\u015fi problem\u0103 ap\u0103rea \u015fi \u00een relat\u0103rile lor. Violen\u0163a venit\u0103 de la b\u0103rba\u0163i agresivi f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i.<\/p>\n

De fiecare dat\u0103, justificarea e similar\u0103. Gigelul “nu era de acord cu poponarii”.<\/p>\n

Acum, dac\u0103 nu bubui de prost, ar trebui s\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 alte persoane NU au nevoie de acordul t\u0103u ca s\u0103-\u015fi tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u0163a a\u015fa cum cred de cuviin\u0163\u0103. E adev\u0103rat, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, homosexualitatea s-a pedepsit cu \u00eenchisoare p\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 2000, c\u00e2nd a ajuns Bombonel prim-ministru \u015fi a f\u0103cut ceva \u00een privin\u0163a asta, dar faptul c\u0103 statul s-a b\u0103gat \u00een via\u0163a privat\u0103 a cet\u0103\u0163eanului pl\u0103titor de impozite \u015fi taxe s\u0103-i spun\u0103 cu cine s\u0103 se cupleze \u015fi cu cine nu e o grav\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103lcare a dreptului la intimitate.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2t timp via\u0163a ta personal\u0103 implic\u0103 persoane adulte care consimt, nu mai e problema nim\u0103nui. Doar a ta.<\/p>\n

\u015ei cazurile de violen\u0163\u0103 \u00eempotriva persoanelor trans nu sunt un specific rom\u00e2nesc. Se \u00eent\u00e2lnesc peste tot unde exist\u0103 tradi\u0163ia asta enervant\u0103 a b\u0103rbatului – cununa crea\u0163iei, care taie \u015fi sp\u00e2nzur\u0103 dup\u0103 bunul plac \u015fi a femeii gospodine la casa ei \u015fi at\u00e2t. Peste tot unde b\u0103rbatul e obligatoriu s\u0103 fie \u00eencordac din musculatur\u0103 \u015fi agresiv f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, c\u0103 a\u015fa sunt b\u0103rba\u0163ii, iar femeia, umil\u0103 \u015fi ru\u015finat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, doar pentru simpla existen\u0163\u0103, \u015fi perfect satisf\u0103cut\u0103 de ipostaza de slug\u0103 moca \u015fi animal f\u0103t\u0103tor.<\/p>\n

Cu c\u00e2t ideile \u015fi prejudec\u0103\u0163ile despre rolurile sexelor sunt mai \u00eenguste \u015fi mai fixiste, cu at\u00e2t entitlementul de a trata infect, ba chiar de a supune violen\u0163ei fizice \u015fi umilin\u0163ei publice oamenii neconformi acestor idei e mai mare.<\/p>\n

\u015ei e o situa\u0163ie care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenceteze.<\/p>\n

\u015ei telecomanda pentru asta e de fapt \u00een m\u00e2na persoanelor trans.<\/p>\n

Trebuie depuse pl\u00e2ngeri \u015fi ac\u0163iuni \u00een instan\u0163\u0103 ori de c\u00e2te ori cineva se ia de tine \u015fi te agreseaz\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, doar pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti diferit. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd gigeii \u0103\u015ftia cu chef de har\u0163\u0103 nu vor pl\u0103ti scump pentru nevoia lor de harneal\u0103, nu se vor potoli.<\/p>\n

Nu trebuie tolerat nici un fel de abuz. Nu e vina ta c\u0103 e\u015fti diferit – nu e o vin\u0103 s\u0103 fii diferit, in the first place – \u015fi nu ai de ce s\u0103 iei asupra ta vreo obliga\u0163ie de a isp\u0103\u015fi. Cine te place, bine. Cine nu, s\u0103 se duc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 o hor\u0103 ceva mai \u00eencolo.<\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 nu educi ghiolbanul \u015fi gher\u0163oiul c\u0103 nesim\u0163irea vine cu consecin\u0163e, ghiolbanul \u015fi gher\u0163oiul vor persista \u00een nesim\u0163ire.<\/p>\n

\u00cen cazul fetei trans din autobuz au intervenit ACCEPT \u015fi \u00eei ofer\u0103 reprezentare juridic\u0103. Au fost ieri la IML \u015fi va exista o investiga\u0163ie pentru abuz \u00een serviciu.<\/p>\n

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\u015ei pentru idiotul care va ap\u0103rea \u00een sec\u0163iunea de comentarii c\u0103 vaaai, tu fagotizezi Rom\u00e2nia: No, b*tch.\u00a0 Rom\u00e2nia, ca orice alt\u0103 \u0163ar\u0103, e un loc populat de o majoritate heteronormativ\u0103 \u015fi o minoritate queer. Nu \u00ee\u0163i cere nimeni s\u0103 iei \u00een bra\u0163e minoritatea aia queer \u015fi s-o pupi pe gur\u0103. Ce \u0163i se cere e s\u0103 p\u0103strezi distan\u0163a \u015fi s\u0103 te compor\u0163i civilizat. Dac\u0103 nu-\u0163i convine c\u0103 doamna are coco\u015fel, caut\u0103 pe una care are p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103. Nu mai s\u0103ri la insulte \u015fi la b\u0103taie dac\u0103 n-a f***t-o nimeni pe m\u0103-ta. Hai, c\u0103 nu e nevoie de desen s-o pricepi pe asta. Sau?<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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