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<\/p>\nIeri, am scris despre livrarea care s-a transformat \u00een h\u0103r\u021buire.<\/p>\n
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O fat\u0103 care f\u0103cea telemunc\u0103 de acas\u0103, tur\u0103 de noapte, a comandat m\u00e2ncare prin Glovo. \u0218i dup\u0103 ce a v\u0103zut-o trei secunde prin u\u0219\u0103, gigelul a decis c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219i el ni\u0219te sexic\u0103, drept care, a \u00eenceput s\u0103-i trimit\u0103 mesaje creepy \u0219i s\u0103 bat\u0103 insistent la u\u0219\u0103, de zici c\u0103 venise potera s\u0103 fac\u0103 razie.<\/p>\n
Fata nu a f\u0103cut reclama\u021bie la poli\u021bie.<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 experien\u021ba traumatic\u0103, nu avea chef de al\u021bi b\u0103d\u0103rani, de data asta \u00een uniform\u0103 oficial\u0103, care s-o ia la \u00eentreb\u0103ri cretine despre cum era \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103, cum era machiat\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 moduri s-o blameze tot pe ea pentru c\u0103 boul era psihopat \u0219i nu \u00een\u021belegea ideea de job \u0219i regulile elementare de conduit\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de un client.\u00a0\u0218i pot \u00een\u021belege asta.<\/p>\n
Dar faptul c\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 aprob.<\/p>\n
Singurul mod \u00een care schimbi societatea \u0219i mentalit\u0103\u021bile este s\u0103 duci lupta.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la condi\u021bia femeii, istoric. La faptul c\u0103 era tratat\u0103 ca o proprietate. La faptul c\u0103, dac\u0103 nimerea un psihopat \u00een c\u0103lduri, ca boul men\u021bionat mai sus, \u0219i \u0103la o viola, ea era de vin\u0103, “c\u0103 l-a ispitit”. \u015ei o \u00eenvinuiau \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii, \u015fi alte femei care credeau c\u0103, dac\u0103 fac pact cu un sistem care le limiteaz\u0103 at\u00e2t de drastic op\u0163iunile \u015fi puterea economic\u0103 (singura putere real\u0103), \u00ee\u015fi vor negocia, ele pentru ele, un tratament individual mai bun.<\/p>\n S-a schimbat asta st\u00e2nd acas\u0103 \u015fi pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd \u00een pern\u0103?<\/p>\n NU.<\/p>\n S-a schimbat pentru c\u0103 au existat femei, \u015fi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele, b\u0103rba\u0163i nepro\u015fti \u015fi capabili de empatie, care s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u00e2t de nedrept e s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti o via\u0163\u0103 care nu e a ta, \u015fi asupra c\u0103reia nu po\u0163i lua decizii. \u015ei pentru c\u0103 au existat oameni dispu\u015fi s\u0103 se lupte, s-au c\u00e2\u015ftigat dreptul de vot, dreptul la o carier\u0103, dreptul la a-\u0163i alege partenerul, \u015fi toate celelalte drepturi care unui b\u0103rbat nu i-au fost niciodat\u0103 contestate.<\/p>\n Nu vei schimba niciodat\u0103 mentalit\u0103\u0163ile retrograde \u015fi atitudinea misogin\u0103 din poli\u0163ie sau din alte institu\u0163ii de stat dac\u0103 stai ghiocel \u015fi \u0163i-e fric\u0103 de ce or s\u0103 spun\u0103 \u015fi ce or s\u0103 fac\u0103. Nu vei schimba niciodat\u0103 mentalitatea de animal misecuvenist \u015fi egoist a unui gigel educat de ta-su c\u0103 femeia e un bun ob\u015ftesc, \u015fi c\u00e2nd vrem una, o lu\u0103m pur \u015fi simplu, dac\u0103 NU E\u015eTI DISPUS\u0102 S\u0102 LUP\u0162I LUPTA.<\/p>\n S\u0103 zicem c\u0103, la final, nu vei avea c\u00e2\u015ftig de cauz\u0103.<\/p>\n Dar m\u0103car ai \u00eencercat.<\/p>\n M\u0103car ai plimbat gunoiul ambulant dotat accidental cu buletin pe la poli\u0163ie, s\u0103 dea cu subsemnatul, sau prin tribunal, s\u0103 se uite \u00een ochii unui judec\u0103tor.<\/p>\n Zdrean\u0163a aia infect\u0103 de Youtuber, Colo, m\u0103car a tr\u0103it pe pielea lui ni\u015fte zile de groaz\u0103 cu arestul preventiv, dup\u0103 ce a aberat c\u0103 o minor\u0103 merita viol pentru c\u0103 ar\u0103ta bine.<\/p>\n Chiar dac\u0103 nu \u0163i se face dreptate, m\u0103car ai luptat pentru ea \u015fi i-ai f\u0103cut pe raha\u0163i s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 brutalitatea \u015fi nesim\u0163irea au consecin\u0163e.<\/p>\n \u015ei nu trebuie s\u0103 te impresioneze atitudinea gigeilor de la poli\u0163ie. Remember: a\u015fa era \u00eentregul sistem, peste tot, \u00eenainte ca ni\u015fte femei curajoase s\u0103 decid\u0103 c\u0103 nu pot l\u0103sa aceast\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 oribil\u0103 mo\u015ftenire fiicelor \u015fi nepoatelor lor.<\/p>\n Dar dac\u0103 \u0163i se face dreptate?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Dac\u0103 infec\u0163ia care bubuia la u\u015fa ta noaptea \u00ee\u015fi prime\u015fte pedeapsa? Dac\u0103, pe parcurs, \u00eei faci pe trei gigei de la poli\u0163ie s\u0103 priceap\u0103 c\u0103 femeile sunt oameni \u015fi drepturile lor la intimitate \u015fi integritate fizic\u0103 \u015fi moral\u0103 trebuie respectate?<\/p>\n Repet: nu po\u0163i avea societatea pe care o visezi, dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti dispus s\u0103 lup\u0163i pentru ea.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Dau un alt exemplu.<\/p>\n \u015eti\u0163i c\u0103, la \u00eenceputurile industrializ\u0103rii, un muncitor b\u0103ga 14 ore pe zi, 6 zile pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, \u00een cele mai toxice fabrici \u015fi mine, \u015fi era pl\u0103tit mult sub limita subzisten\u0163ei? Iar dac\u0103 se \u00eemboln\u0103vea, era pur \u015fi simplu azv\u00e2rlit ca o c\u00e2rp\u0103 uzat\u0103?<\/p>\n Motivul pentru care tu azi ai opt ore pe zi, dou\u0103 zile de repaus, concediu medical \u015fi de odihn\u0103, \u015fi un cod al muncii care descrie exact cum trebuie s\u0103 fii tratat este DATORIT\u0102 CELOR CARE AU LUPTAT S\u0102 SCHIMBE SOCIETATEA.<\/p>\n Nu speria\u0163ii de bombe au fost cei care au primit condi\u0163ii mai bune, ci oamenii care au avut curajul s\u0103 duc\u0103 lupta.<\/p>\n Singura lupt\u0103 care merit\u0103 dus\u0103, de altfel.<\/p>\n Drept care.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 ave\u0163i parte de abuz, h\u0103r\u0163uire,face\u0163i ceva.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Eu de exemplu i-a\u015f fi r\u0103spuns inclusiv la mesaje gigelului \u00een c\u0103lduri. \u00cent\u00e2i politicos. “O s\u0103 te rog frumos s\u0103 te por\u0163i ca un profesionist \u015fi s\u0103 renun\u0163i la aceast\u0103 atitudine, care nu-\u0163i face cinste. Am comandat \u015fi pl\u0103tit m\u00e2ncare, ai prestat acest serviciu, nu ai nici un alt motiv s\u0103 m\u0103 deranjezi”.<\/p>\n Pe de alt\u0103 parte, dac\u0103 insista cu “nu-\u0163i fac alt\u0103 gaur\u0103”, \u00eemi b\u0103gam pxla \u00een mor\u0163ii \u015fi r\u0103ni\u0163ii lui at\u00e2t de profund, \u00eenc\u00e2t fecundam maimu\u0163a originar\u0103 din care a provenit \u015fi \u00eei insuflam decen\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103, cre\u00e2nd un univers alternativ \u00een care \u0103sta nici m\u0103car n-ar fi visat s\u0103 deranjeze privat o client\u0103.<\/p>\n \u015ei dac\u0103 bubuia \u00een continuare la u\u015f\u0103, sunam instant la poli\u0163ie. S\u0103 fac\u0103 un rond pe la arest. La pariu c\u0103 dup\u0103 aceea s-ar g\u00e2ndi de zece ori \u00eenainte s\u0103 se dea astfel la o client\u0103?<\/p>\n Lipsa consecin\u0163elor \u00eei face pe jego\u015fii \u0103\u015ftia s\u0103 aib\u0103 at\u00e2ta tupeu. P\u0103i, hai s\u0103 ne concentr\u0103m \u00een a le crea consecin\u0163e celor care nu \u00een\u0163eleg de vorb\u0103 bun\u0103.<\/p>\n *<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n *** Ieri, am scris despre livrarea care s-a transformat \u00een h\u0103r\u021buire. 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