\u00ce\u021bi scriu pentru c\u0103 tu ai spus c\u0103 ai solu\u021bia la toate problemele. Poate ai solu\u021bia \u0219i pentru via\u021ba mea, haha.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Pe scurt, femeile nu sunt interesate deloc de mine. Vor doar s\u0103 fim prieteni, iar eu am destui prieteni. Nu v\u0103d nimic atr\u0103g\u0103tor \u00een mine, \u00eemi resping orice \u00eencercare, unele politicos, altele m\u0103 ignor\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Chestia asta m\u0103 frustreaz\u0103 foarte tare \u0219i m\u0103 face s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce e gre\u0219it cu mine. Nu vreau dec\u00e2t o iubit\u0103, at\u00e2t. <\/strong><\/p>\n Po\u021bi s\u0103 m\u0103 aju\u021bi?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd: eu nu am scris nic\u0103ieri c\u0103 am solu\u021bia la toate problemele. \u00cen niciun caz. Am zis “c\u0103ut\u0103m o solu\u0163ie”. Dac\u0103 a avea \u015fi a c\u0103uta ar fi acela\u015fi lucru, nu a\u015f fi fost silit\u0103 s\u0103 schimb patru telefoane \u00een ultimii doi ani.<\/p>\n S\u0103 trecem acum la problema ta.<\/p>\n Strict de curiozitate: Te resping a\u0219a TOATE femeile? Toate-toate? Sau cumva aten\u021bia ta este orientat\u0103 doar spre cele cu adev\u0103rat superbe, cele cotate drept 9 \u0219i 10, care au 4643334 de planuri de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i nu-\u0219i doresc o rela\u021bie s\u0103 le limiteze?<\/p>\n Mbun.<\/p>\n Un prim pas pentru a g\u0103si iubire este s\u0103 n-o mai cer\u015fe\u015fti foarte evident \u015fi g\u0103l\u0103gios. 90% din oameni, \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i, \u015fi femei, g\u0103sesc chestia asta profund resping\u0103toare \u015fi n-o doresc la un partener de via\u0163\u0103. Individul care, de cum prime\u015fte accept la o cerere de prietenie pe Facebook, se \u00eenfiin\u0163eaz\u0103 prompt \u00een mesageria privat\u0103 cu “bun\u0103 diminea\u0163a, e\u015fti foarte frumoas\u0103, iubire!” e cel care nu prime\u015fte replic\u0103, sau dac\u0103 doamna are \u015fi oarece sechele, prime\u015fte block instant. Tipa care, de cum o scoate unul la un date, schimb\u0103 statusul pe Facebook \u00een married to F\u0103nel, e cea care e married din trei \u00een trei zile cu alt F\u0103nel, \u015fi niciunul nu st\u0103.<\/p>\n Asta pentru c\u0103 disperarea e ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u015fi nesexy. \u015ei pentru c\u0103 oamenii simt c\u0103 \u0163ie nu \u00ee\u0163i place \u00een mod particular de ei ca persoane, ci doar cau\u0163i \u015fi tu “pe unul \/ una”, unspecified. S\u0103 fie pozi\u0163ia de iubi ocupat\u0103, s\u0103 te sim\u0163i bine cu tine.<\/p>\n Dar uite un mic secret.<\/p>\n Te po\u0163i sim\u0163i bine cu tine \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 un iubi. Sau o iubi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 manife\u015fti mai mult respect fa\u0163\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i rezolvi problemele emo\u0163ionale \u015fi de ce nu, materiale (nu mi-ai spus care e situa\u0163ia ta. Stai \u00een continuare cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii? Mai grav, ai cumva 30 de ani \u015fi stai \u00een continuare cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii? C\u0103 asta ar fi o explica\u0163ie complet\u0103 pentru via\u0163a ta privat\u0103), vei descoperi, pas cu pas, echilibrul care vine din lini\u015ftea interioar\u0103 \u015fi relaxarea legat\u0103 de con\u015ftientizarea a cine e\u015fti ca om \u015fi\u00a0 ce reprezin\u0163i.<\/p>\n \u015ei atunci, nu mai fug\u0103re\u015fti disperat femei, pentru c\u0103 nu vei mai ag\u0103\u0163a confortul sufletesc \u015fi sentimentul \u00eemplinirii de existen\u0163a uneia \u00een via\u0163a ta.<\/p>\n \u00cen secunda \u00een care nu mai fug\u0103re\u015fti disperat femei, nu le vei induce sil\u0103 \u015fi reac\u0163ii defensive, \u015fi vor avea timp s\u0103 te \u015fi cunoasc\u0103. Dac\u0103 sunt foarte ocupate s\u0103 “se scoat\u0103” sau s\u0103 caute butonul de block, nu prea au cum s\u0103 te cunoasc\u0103, \u015ftii?<\/p>\n \u00cen secunda \u00een care nu mai fug\u0103re\u015fti disperat femei, po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i concentrezi timpul \u015fi aten\u0163ia s\u0103 cre\u015fti tu ca om, \u015fi s\u0103 devii mai bun. Ca persoan\u0103, ca membru al societ\u0103\u0163ii, ca profesionist, ca orice. \u015ei vor avea ele motive reale s\u0103 te remarce.<\/p>\n \u00cen secunda \u00een care nu mai fug\u0103re\u015fti disperat femei, po\u0163i \u015fi tu s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 te bucuri de alte lucruri m\u0103runte \u015fi frumoase care \u0163i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103, \u015fi pe care nu le observi, din ciud\u0103 c\u0103 Marioara nu \u0163i-a r\u0103spuns la mesaj.<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 vrei ca via\u0163a ta s\u0103 fie despre asta: Gigel de care nu sunt atrase femeile, e op\u0163iunea ta. Dar cum ar fi s\u0103 schimbi parametrii de evaluare? Gigel, care e un foarte bun *insert aici domeniu \u00een care e\u015fti foarte bun*. Gigel, care salveaz\u0103 pui de pisic\u0103 \u015fi le g\u0103se\u015fte familii. Gigel, care cite\u015fte copiilor de la orfelinat. Gigel care chiar face lucruri faine.<\/p>\n Prive\u015fte fug\u0103ritul de fuste ca pe o simpl\u0103 op\u0163iune, nu ca pe o obliga\u0163ie. Doar pentru c\u0103 e modelul de via\u0163\u0103 al unor b\u0103rba\u0163i, nu e obligatoriu s\u0103 fie \u015fi al t\u0103u.<\/p>\n \u015ei c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i vei g\u0103si o prieten\u0103? C\u00e2nd vei fi preg\u0103tit \u00een mod real s\u0103 ai una. Simplul fapt c\u0103 o vrei nu echivaleaz\u0103 cu abilitatea de a r\u0103spunde tuturor situa\u0163iilor \u015fi nevoilor unei rela\u0163ii.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n *** <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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