{"id":21189,"date":"2021-02-01T17:05:03","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T14:05:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21189"},"modified":"2021-02-01T17:05:03","modified_gmt":"2021-02-01T14:05:03","slug":"de-ce-botezam-iarna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-botezam-iarna\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce botez\u0103m iarna?"},"content":{"rendered":"

A murit un copil. Mai exact, un bebelu\u0219.<\/p>\n

A murit \u00een spital, \u00een urma unui stop cardiorespirator. De ce? Pentru c\u0103 acelea\u0219i m\u0103micu\u021be \u0219i bunicu\u021be care \u00eenfofolesc \u00een exces odorul familiei, la orice pal\u0103 de v\u00e2nt, \u0219i \u021bin casa neaerisit\u0103 cu zilele, s\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103-l trag\u0103 curentul pe pui\u0219or, consimt orbe\u0219te \u0219i nu au nici o problem\u0103 cu ideea de botez, de obicei \u00een ap\u0103 rece de-\u021bi face uretra \u021bur\u021buri, \u00een lunile de iarn\u0103. \u0218i mai era \u0219i Suceava. Zona \u00een care iarna ESTE iarn\u0103, nu o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 de z\u0103pad\u0103 \u0219i trei de mocirl\u0103, apoi apar concet\u0103\u021bene de etnie conlocuitoare cu ghiocei, cum e \u00een Bucure\u0219ti.<\/p>\n

E bizar, cum, \u00een fa\u021ba balivernelor religiei, orice spirit matern de conservare dispare ca \u0219ters cu buretele. \u0218i, dup\u0103 cum o arat\u0103 consecin\u021bele, nu e doar bizar. E tragic.<\/p>\n

Eu cu religia \u00een sine nu am nici o problem\u0103, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t se manifest\u0103 doar \u00een componenta ei de empowerment. Da, e un Dumnezeu care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 treci peste greut\u0103\u021bi, care te vede c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti nedrept\u0103\u021bit, care \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 putere c\u00e2nd prime\u0219ti o lovitur\u0103. Foarte frumos.<\/p>\n

Dar am o mare mare problem\u0103 cu latura ei care spune unor oameni c\u0103 sunt mai buni dec\u00e2t al\u021bii \u0219i sunt \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bi\u021bi s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce vor cu al\u021bii. \u0218i cu latura ei care oprim\u0103 g\u00e2ndirea ra\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i critic\u0103 \u00een favoarea prejudec\u0103\u021bilor bazate pe ni\u0219te cli\u0219ee construite pe interesele unui grup de oameni.<\/p>\n

Mul\u021bi bebelu\u0219i nu mor dac\u0103 sunt boteza\u021bi iarna. Dar nimeni nu face statistica bron\u0219itelor, pneumoniilor, otitelor, meningitelor \u0219i a altor boli pe care, dac\u0103 le cape\u021bi la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 at\u00e2t de fraged\u0103, r\u0103m\u00e2i cu sechele pe tot restul vie\u021bii. A\u0219a am avut eu prima mea bron\u0219it\u0103. Botez \u00een februarie. Probabil c\u0103 a\u0219a au avut-o \u0219i al\u021bii.<\/p>\n

E unul dintre motivele pentru care scriu, iar \u0219i iar. Lua\u021bi religia cu o doz\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 de double check. Nu pune\u021bi botul la partea de tradi\u021bii ignorante, la partea care \u0103ndeamn\u0103 femeile s\u0103 tolereze abuz pentru o ru\u0219ine congenital\u0103 by default, adeseori complet nemotivat\u0103. Nu v\u0103 mai pune\u021bi, vou\u0103 \u0219i copiilor vo\u0219tri, s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u00een pericol \u00een numele unor obiceiuri ignorante care nu \u021bin cont c\u00e2tu\u0219i de pu\u021bin de socoteala din t\u00e2rg, respectiv realitatea terenului.<\/p>\n

Copiii pot sta foarte bine neboteza\u021bi p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een mai \u2013 iunie. Mai bine p\u0103g\u00e2n \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tos, dec\u00e2t cre\u0219tin \u0219i mort.<\/p>\n

Iar legat de popi, ce trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 ei e c\u0103 rolul lor e de SLUJITORII lui Dumnezeu, nu de \u0219efii oamenilor. Nu degeaba ceea ce fac ei se nume\u0219te SLUJIT. Botezul scurtat, c\u00e2teva rug\u0103ciuni esen\u021biale, verificarea temperaturii apei, scufundare mai mult simbolic\u0103. Bebelu\u0219ul e eroul principal al acelui ritual, nu voi.<\/p>\n

\u0218i da, \u00eemi pare r\u0103u pentru familia \u00eendoliat\u0103. Dar, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, prostia se pl\u0103te\u0219te.<\/p>\n

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A murit un copil. Mai exact, un bebelu\u0219. A murit \u00een spital, \u00een urma unui stop cardiorespirator. De ce? Pentru c\u0103 acelea\u0219i m\u0103micu\u021be \u0219i...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21190,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/baby.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21189"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21189\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21191,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21189\/revisions\/21191"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}