{"id":21215,"date":"2021-02-07T13:09:15","date_gmt":"2021-02-07T10:09:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21215"},"modified":"2021-02-07T13:09:15","modified_gmt":"2021-02-07T10:09:15","slug":"produse-menstruale-gratuite-in-scoli-da","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/produse-menstruale-gratuite-in-scoli-da\/","title":{"rendered":"Produse menstruale gratuite \u00een \u0219coli? DA!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un grup de fete au lansat campania asta<\/a> <\/strong>pe declic.ro, iar eu \u00eemi doresc s-o sus\u021bin.<\/p>\n

Menstrua\u021bia nu e o ru\u0219ine \u0219i nu e un blestem. (De\u0219i \u00een zilele acelea ale lunii, a\u0219 fi putut jura c\u0103 este.) N-am tr\u0103it-o niciodat\u0103 ca pe o ru\u0219ine, de\u0219i femeile din familia mea au c\u0103utat lung s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 c\u0103 e un subiect scandalos \u0219i nedemn de abordat.<\/p>\n

Fratele meu m-a \u00eentrebat normal \u0219i omene\u0219te ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een acele zile, dup\u0103 ce a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva, iar eu i-am povestit normal \u0219i omene\u0219te cum corpul femeii elimin\u0103 ovulul nefecundat, \u0219i cum procesul \u0103sta presupune s\u00e2ngerare vaginal\u0103, dureri \u00een zona abdomenului, o stare emo\u021bional\u0103 mai intens\u0103 din cauza varia\u021biilor hormonale \u0219i stres c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu apuci s\u0103 schimbi tamponul destul de repede, \u00ee\u021bi apare o pat\u0103 de s\u00e2nge pe pantaloni.<\/p>\n

Fratele meu, crescut de mam\u0103 singur\u0103, ca mine, n-a avut o figur\u0103 patern\u0103 toxic\u0103, s\u0103-i sugereze c\u0103 menstrua\u021bia e ceva ur\u00e2t, sc\u00e2rbos \u0219i condamnabil, drept care, m-a ascultat cu mare interes, \u0219i a zis: Da, trebuie s\u0103 fie na\u0219pa.<\/p>\n

A intervenit mama, isteric\u0103 as usual, s\u0103 \u021bipe la noi c\u0103 a\u0219a ceva nu se discut\u0103 cu b\u0103rba\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Eu niciodat\u0103 nu am luat un verdict din \u0103sta drept ceva aplicabil f\u0103r\u0103 negocieri \u0219i am \u00eentrebat: De ce?<\/p>\n

Tu mereu trebuie s\u0103 \u00eentrebi de ce!!!<\/p>\n

Da, mereu. C\u00e2nd \u00eemi dai un ordin, trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i eu ra\u021bionamentul din spatele lui, altfel, de ce l-a\u0219 aplica?<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a a zis m\u0103-ta!<\/p>\n

Am l\u0103sat discu\u021bia s\u0103 se termine aici, pentru c\u0103 nu aveam chef \u0219i de dou\u0103 palme, dar ce am \u00een\u021beles este c\u0103 ba da, trebuie s\u0103 discu\u021bi deschis cu b\u0103rba\u021bi ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een acele zile, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu le explici situa\u021bia, nu po\u021bi tot tu s\u0103 dai ochii peste cap ca zei\u021ba dramelor \u0219i s\u0103 te v\u0103ic\u0103re\u0219ti \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i \u00een dreapta c\u0103 Gigel nu te \u00een\u021belege.<\/p>\n

Mbun.<\/p>\n

Faptul c\u0103 un grup de fete deschid discu\u021bia asta \u00eentr-un mod at\u00e2t de public m\u0103 face pe mine, adolescenta de atunci, s\u0103 m\u0103 simt r\u0103zbunat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Patriarhatul, prin scrierile religioase, a c\u0103utat \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 umileasc\u0103 femeia \u0219i s\u0103-i insinueze acea ru\u0219ine nemotivat\u0103 pe care eu nu o voi \u00een\u021belege niciodat\u0103, \u0219i unul dintre argumente a fost “necur\u0103\u0163ia acelor zile”. De\u015fi, dac\u0103 facem o compara\u0163ie, ca miros, textur\u0103 \u015fi v\u00e2scozitate, \u00eentre s\u00e2ngele menstrual, \u015fi lichidul seminal, cred c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii ar trebui s\u0103 poarte numai burka pe tot restul vie\u0163ii lor, strict pe baz\u0103 de necur\u0103\u0163ie. Lol.<\/p>\n

Partea cea mai proast\u0103 este c\u0103 femeile de alt\u0103dat\u0103, poate \u015fi datorit\u0103 dependen\u0163ei economice, au luat \u00een bra\u0163e aceast\u0103 ru\u015fine \u015fi au dat-o mai departe fiicelor \u015fi nepoatelor lor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe m\u0103car o dat\u0103: DE CE?<\/p>\n

\u00cen fond, ciclul menstrual e cel care face posibil\u0103 na\u015fterea urma\u015filor \u015fi existen\u0163a familiei blabla. Famili\u015ftii tradi\u0163ionali, \u0103ia care ridic\u0103 rolul de mam\u0103 eroin\u0103 \u00een sl\u0103vi, ar trebui s\u0103 arate apreciere, respect \u015fi pre\u0163uire ciclului menstrual, \u00eentr-o lume logic\u0103. Po\u0163i avea cariera vie\u0163ii tale f\u0103r\u0103 ciclu, po\u0163i muta mun\u0163ii, po\u0163i excela \u00een ce profesie vrei tu – \u0163eluri feministe – dar nu po\u0163i f\u0103ta fiul care s\u0103 duc\u0103 numele tat\u0103lui mai departe\u00a0 – \u0163el patriarhal.<\/p>\n

A\u015fa cum statul preia deja o parte din \u00eengrijirea minorului, oferind un sistem \u015fcolar public gratuit \u015fi un snack zilnic (cornule\u0163ul cu l\u0103ptic), ar trebui s\u0103 ofere tinerelor din liceu produsele menstruale necesare pentru primele lor cicluri.<\/p>\n

De ce?<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u00een multe familii, tinerele \u00eenc\u0103 nu sunt educate adecvat, legat de igiena ciclului. \u00cen multe familii, exist\u0103 \u00een continuare mentalitatea ru\u015finii \u015fi a umilin\u0163ei. \u00cen multe familii, nu se discut\u0103 deschis. \u00cen multe familii, fata crede c\u0103 e ceva \u00een neregul\u0103 cu ea pentru c\u0103 “\u00eei curge s\u00e2nge acolo jos”. \u00cen multe familii, nici nu se cump\u0103r\u0103 produse menstruale, iar femeile se descurc\u0103… cum pot.<\/p>\n

Ca urmare a acestei situa\u0163ii, multe nici nu \u015ftiu ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 cu produsele uzate. Am avut o coleg\u0103 de apartament care \u00eenfunda periodic veceul comun pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi arunca absorbantele la bud\u0103. A\u015fa f\u0103ceau \u015fi acas\u0103. Chit c\u0103 unii fabrican\u0163i pun clar un veceu t\u0103iat pe ambalajul produsului.<\/p>\n

E genul de educa\u0163ie important\u0103, care \u0163ine de feminitate mult mai mult dec\u00e2t imbecilii care vin sub pozele de sub social media s\u0103 te frece la icre s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u015fti.<\/p>\n

\u015ei e genul de educa\u0163ie care, dac\u0103 e \u00eenceput\u0103 la timp, \u00ceN \u015eCOAL\u0102, va crea un comportament matur \u015fi just legat de igiena ciclului pe tot restul vie\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

Mda, m\u0103 scuza\u0163i c\u0103 nu am mare \u00eencredere \u00een p\u0103rin\u0163ii rom\u00e2ni, legat de acest subiect. Ai mei nu au f\u0103cut mare lucru s\u0103-mi dea motive s\u0103 am. \u015ei dac\u0103 fetele cer tampoane gratis, probabil c\u0103 nici ai lor.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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