{"id":21251,"date":"2021-02-14T13:02:03","date_gmt":"2021-02-14T10:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21251"},"modified":"2021-02-14T13:02:03","modified_gmt":"2021-02-14T10:02:03","slug":"posta-redactiei-demonstratie-de-iubire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-demonstratie-de-iubire\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Demonstra\u021bie de iubire"},"content":{"rendered":"

De obicei, po\u0219ta redac\u021biei func\u021bioneaz\u0103 a\u0219a. Ai o problem\u0103. De iubire, de job, de via\u021b\u0103. Whatever. \u00cemi scrii pe birou@lorenalupu.com cu titlul Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, iar eu scriu un articol \u00een care c\u0103ut\u0103m o solu\u021bie constructiv\u0103. C\u0103 nu to\u021bi o urmeaz\u0103? Sure. Dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

Azi, \u00eens\u0103, v\u0103 voi ar\u0103ta un comentariu.<\/p>\n

Autorul lui r\u0103spundea unei \u00eentreb\u0103ri complet off-topic puse de un b\u0103g\u0103tor \u00een seam\u0103: “Dac\u0103 ai putea face schimb de inimi, cu cine face?”<\/p>\n

O siropo\u015feal\u0103 stupid\u0103, pe care am \u015fi taxat-o sec: Merci, sunt ok cu a mea. \u00cenc\u0103 n-am ajuns la v\u00e2rsta transplantului, lol.<\/p>\n

Dar a ap\u0103rut alt comentator\u00a0 \u015fi a scris urm\u0103toarele. Care mi se par material de po\u015fta redac\u0163iei:<\/p>\n

Eu a\u015f face cu fosta. S\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 nu e a\u015fa cum spunea ea. Dar a\u015fa sunt unele femei, niciodat\u0103 nu sunt mul\u0163umite, tot timpul te freac\u0103 la cap c\u0103 nu faci destule pentru ele \u015fi c\u0103 nu e\u015fti sincer atunci c\u00e2nd le spui c\u0103 le iube\u015fti, vor tot timpul s\u0103 le dovede\u015fti asta, dac\u0103 s-ar putea din minut \u00een minut. Frate, daca tu simti ca ala te minte atunci cand spune ca te iubeste,dac\u0103 tu sim\u0163i c\u0103 nu te iube\u015fte,de ce mai stai cu el, ce e asta: “vreau mai multe dovezi c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u015fti cu adev\u0103rat”, ce e cu pis\u0103logeala asta c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-i confirmi din minut \u00een minut c\u00e2t de mult o iube\u015fti?!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 X,<\/p>\n

Aceea este pur \u015fi simplu o form\u0103 de vampirism emo\u0163ional care define\u015fte femeile cu adev\u0103rat toxice.<\/p>\n

Se scriu oceane despre masculinitatea toxic\u0103, dar e nevoie s\u0103 definim \u015fi forme de feminitate toxic\u0103. \u015ei una dintre ele e perpetua preten\u0163ie de “dovede\u015fte c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u015fti!!” cu care anumite individe storc toat\u0103 via\u0163a, toat\u0103 energia \u015fi to\u0163i banii din candidat.<\/p>\n

Aten\u0163ie:\u00a0<\/strong>Sunt situa\u0163ii \u00een care realmente tipa nu se simte iubit\u0103? C\u00e2nd \u0103la nu d\u0103 semne de via\u0163\u0103 deloc \u015fi o sun\u0103 doar la 2 \u015fi jum\u0103tate noaptea \u00eentr-o joi, c\u00e2nd ar f \u015fi el ceva, apoi o trimite acas\u0103 cu taxiul?<\/p>\n

Da.<\/p>\n

Dar nu pare s\u0103 fie cazul aici. Aici, din c\u00e2te v\u0103d, e o rela\u0163ie normal\u0103, de zi cu zi, \u00een care prin\u0163esa \u00eel agaseaz\u0103 perpetuu pe pretendent cu \u00eencerc\u0103ri, s\u0103 demonstreze iubire.<\/p>\n

“F\u0103-mi aia, s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u015fti!” “Cump\u0103r\u0103-mi aia, s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u015fti!” etc. etc. etc.<\/p>\n

Exist\u0103 vreo incertitudine REAL\u0102 legat\u0103 de sentimentele lui?<\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 spun nout\u0103\u0163i unora dintre voi: NU.<\/p>\n

Tipa \u015ftie exact c\u00e2t de investit e \u0103la, de aceea \u00ee\u015fi \u015fi permite s\u0103-l trateze a\u015fa. Dac\u0103 n-ar \u015fti, dac\u0103 ar avea vreo emo\u0163ie c\u0103 \u00eel pierde, ar da sonorul un pic mai jos.<\/p>\n

Pe scurt, gigele, e\u015fti angrenat \u00eentr-un mecanism al exploat\u0103rii continue emo\u0163ionale \u015fi probabil materiale, iar lupta ta zilnic\u0103 nu e pentru a “dovedi ceva” – ai dovedit de mult, ci, concret, pentru a pl\u0103ti zilnic pentru timpul pe care binevoie\u015fte s\u0103 \u0163i-l acorde.<\/p>\n

Practic, e\u015fti tarifat la minut. Ca la videochat.<\/p>\n

E genul de dinamic\u0103 perfect func\u0163ional\u0103 cu Missy69 de pe MyFreeCams, sau chiar cu o escort\u0103 de pe publi24, dar NU cu persoana de la care \u00ee\u0163i dore\u015fti iubire exclusiv\u0103 \u015fi implicat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 pe termen lung nu po\u0163i duce genul \u0103la de exploatare \u015fi la un moment dat, o s\u0103 te pr\u0103bu\u015fe\u015fti. \u015ei nu va fi nimeni s\u0103 te prind\u0103.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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