Fata descrie cum, din 35 de studen\u021bi care au \u00eenceput anul I universitar, au r\u0103mas 24 la \u00eenceputul anului al II-lea. \u0218i asta pentru c\u0103 respectiva CV i-a abuzat verbal pe toat\u0103 durata cursurilor, i-a subminat, a interzis participarea celor pe care \u00eei eticheta drept “sub nivelul grupei”. \u015ei de aici, povestirea ei descinde spre horror. Cum a f\u0103cut un scandal de 15 minute unei colege care a \u00eendr\u0103znit s\u0103 ca\u015fte de oboseal\u0103 dup\u0103 o zi de cursuri. Cum d\u0103dea afar\u0103 studen\u0163i de la curs pentru c\u0103 nu-i pl\u0103cea postura lor. Cum i-a aruncat unei colege bolnave un dosar cu fi\u015fe medicale \u015fi de spitalizare \u00een fa\u0163\u0103, spun\u00e2ndu-i c\u0103 “putea s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u015fi cu certificat de deces”.<\/p>\n
Cum, la examene, acuza f\u0103r\u0103 dovezi de plagiat \u015fi copiat pe cine i se punea pata \u015fi nu exista negociere.<\/p>\n
\u015ei multe, multe alte ipostaze oribile. Intra\u0163i \u015fi vede\u0163i.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Studen\u0163ii s-au dus la prodecan, \u00eent\u00e2i s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 verbal. Li s-a r\u0103spuns: “Da, \u015ftim, au mai venit \u015fi al\u0163ii.”<\/p>\n
Apoi, dou\u0103zeci de studen\u0163i nedrept\u0103\u0163i\u0163i \u015fi insulta\u0163i au depus concomitent reclama\u0163ii la adresa cucoanei.<\/p>\n
Au fost ignora\u0163i cu senin\u0103tate.<\/p>\n
De aceea preiau \u015fi eu situa\u0163ia pe blog. \u00cen ideea de a face cazul un pic mai cunoscut.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
\u0218i sincer v\u0103 spun, textul Geaninei \u00eemi redeschide traume de alt\u0103dat\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u015ei eu am cunoscut c\u00e2\u0163iva profesori extrem de abuzivi prin facultate. \u015ei dac\u0103 \u00eemi repro\u015fez un lucru, \u015fti\u0163i care este? C\u0103 nu m-am dus cu ei p\u00e2n\u0103 la Ministerul Educa\u0163iei \u015fi Culturii. S\u0103 salvez genera\u021bii ulterioare de copii nevinova\u021bi.<\/p>\n
De obicei, e aceea\u015fi tipologie. Ratat sau ratat\u0103, e\u015fuat(\u0103) pe b\u0103ncile unei \u015fcoli, care \u00ee\u015fi r\u0103zbun\u0103 absen\u0163a unei p*li noduroase \u015fi viguroase prin teroare \u015fi abuz la adresa studen\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n
\u015ei cum genul \u0103sta de jego\u015fi au o form\u0103 de intui\u021bie emo\u0163ional\u0103 malefic\u0103, \u00eei adulmec\u0103 de la o po\u015ft\u0103 pe \u0103ia vulnerabili, veni\u0163i din familii disfunc\u021bionale, abuzive, cu \u00eencrederea de sine la p\u0103m\u00e2nt, cum era sora voastr\u0103 la 19 – 20 de ani\u015fori, \u015fi maaaam\u0103\u0103\u0103, cu c\u00e2t sadism \u015fi par\u015fivenie te umilesc \u015fi te insult\u0103.<\/p>\n
Regret din ad\u00e2ncul inimii c\u0103 nu am avut puterea s\u0103 depun reclama\u0163ii \u015fi s\u0103 lupt pentru dreptul meu la o educa\u0163ie \u00een condi\u0163ii demne \u015fi de respect reciproc.<\/p>\n
Acum, a\u015f avea-o.<\/p>\n
\u015ei tot acum, vreau s-o sprijin pe Geanina s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce eu nu am avut curajul s\u0103 fac la v\u00e2rsta ei. \u015ei anume, s\u0103 lupte.<\/p>\n
Exist\u0103 un singur motiv care justific\u0103 ocuparea unui post la o catedr\u0103: interesul sincer de a oferi informa\u0163ie \u015fi op\u0163iuni celor care vor s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e de la tine. Grija pentru binele \u015fi perfec\u0163ionarea lor.<\/p>\n
Implic\u0103 asta \u015fi o doz\u0103 fireasc\u0103 de disciplin\u0103 \u015fi severitate?<\/p>\n
DA.<\/p>\n
Dar disciplina trebuie s\u0103 se reflecte strict \u00een reguli clare, iar severitatea, \u00een corectarea eventualelor gre\u015feli. Iar corectarea cea mai eficient\u0103 e cu calm \u015fi demonstra\u0163ii concrete, nu cu urlete, melodram\u0103, insulte, ochi da\u0163i peste cap \u015fi alte manifest\u0103ri de nef***\u0103 care poart\u0103 cu studen\u0163ii cearta toxic\u0103 pe care nu mai e dispus boufrendul s-o tolereze.<\/p>\n
Am avut aceste experien\u0163e oribile predominant cu femei. Femei pe care le puteai reuni sub titlul “actri\u0163e ratate”. \u015ei pe care naivul de mine le lua \u00een serios, \u015fi ducea acas\u0103 chinul \u015fi groaza insuflate de istericalele lor f\u0103r\u0103 miz\u0103. Nu erau dec\u00e2t prelungirea fireasc\u0103 a chinului \u015fi groazei din s\u00e2nul familiei.<\/p>\n
*<\/p>\n
Exist\u0103 dou\u0103 categorii de profesori care nu au ce c\u0103uta la catedr\u0103. Pe masculin, harm\u0103sarul \u00een c\u0103lduri care trage de studente, abuz\u00e2nd de autoritatea pe care i-o confer\u0103 statutul. De \u0103sta, har Domnului, n-am avut parte. Nu la \u0219coal\u0103.\u00a0 \u0218i pe feminin, pizma isteric\u0103 pus\u0103 pe demolat psihic studen\u0163i.<\/p>\n
Ambele categorii trebuie reclamate p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een p\u00e2nzele albe. La inspectorat. La poli\u0163ie. La minister. \u00cen media.<\/p>\n
Treaba unui student \u00eentr-o \u015fcoal\u0103 este una singur\u0103. S\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e. Nu s\u0103 fie alinare pentru criza de 40 de ani a cuiva, sau sac de box, sau \u0163ap isp\u0103\u015fitor pentru toate alegerile gre\u015fite ale a\u015fa-numitului dasc\u0103l.<\/p>\n
Sper sincer ca studen\u0163ii de la suedez\u0103 s\u0103 se organizeze \u015fi ca rectoratul\u00a0 FLLS s\u0103 ia m\u0103suri. La nevoie, m\u0103 ofer s\u0103 \u0219i public cele 20 de reclama\u021bii, s\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 doar h\u00e2rtii care \u0219\u0103d cumin\u021bel \u00eentr-un dosar \u0219i str\u00e2ng praf. Nu po\u0163i obliga statul rom\u00e2n s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 un salariu universitar pentru abuz.<\/p>\n
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