{"id":21312,"date":"2021-02-23T11:48:23","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T08:48:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21312"},"modified":"2021-02-23T11:48:39","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T08:48:39","slug":"fetita-de-13-ani-a-nascut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/fetita-de-13-ani-a-nascut\/","title":{"rendered":"Feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Da, \u00eenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut. \u00cenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani \u0219i-a compromis op\u021biunile, educa\u021bia, \u0219ansele la o via\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103. \u00cenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani s-a \u00eenh\u0103mat la o misiune pe via\u021b\u0103, potrivit\u0103 pentru o femeie matur\u0103, stabil\u0103 financiar \u0219i emo\u021bional. \u00cenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani \u0219i-a asumat o responsabilitate de care nu e preg\u0103tit\u0103 \u0219i care, \u00een definitiv, va afecta \u0219i via\u021ba ei, \u0219i a copilului.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tirile care \u00eencep cu titlul &#8220;O feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut&#8221; \u00eemi fac inima s\u0103 s\u00e2ngereze.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, pun lumina reflectorului pe feti\u021b\u0103. Zici c\u0103 a n\u0103scut cu \u015ftiuletele de porumb sau ceva.<\/p>\n<p>Nu pe nemernicul, de cele mai multe ori adult, care a profitat de nevoile ne\u00eemplinite ale unui copil cu p\u0103rin\u021bi de cele mai multe ori neglijen\u021bi, s\u0103 solicite sex.<\/p>\n<p>Nici o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani fericit\u0103 \u0219i iubit\u0103, educat\u0103 s\u0103 se respecte pe sine \u0219i pe cei din jur, corespunz\u0103tor hr\u0103nit\u0103, \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103, sus\u021binut\u0103 emo\u021bional \u0219i moral nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex.<\/p>\n<p>Sexul e de obicei moneda de schimb.<\/p>\n<p>Prin care o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani neglijat\u0103, ignorat\u0103, torturat\u0103 de varii forme de lipsuri ob\u021bine lucrurile de care are nevoie \u0219i care, \u00eentr-o lume s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 cu capul, i-ar fi oferite de la sine.<\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut \u00ee\u021bi spune despre feti\u021b\u0103 numai faptul c\u0103 e o victim\u0103 a \u00eemprejur\u0103rilor.<\/p>\n<p>Dar \u00ee\u021bi spune totul despre calitatea uman\u0103 \u0219i moral\u0103 a familiei care a f\u0103cut-o probabil tot din impuls, f\u0103r\u0103 asumarea real\u0103 a cre\u0219terii \u0219i educ\u0103rii unui copil.<\/p>\n<p>Despre calitatea uman\u0103 \u0219i moral\u0103 a celor ce o \u00eenconjoar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Despre calitatea uman\u0103 \u0219i moral\u0103 a societ\u0103\u021bii \u00een care tr\u0103ie\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p>Despre calitatea uman\u0103 \u0219i moral\u0103 a b\u0103rba\u021bilor care sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 pretind\u0103 sex de la copii \u00eenseta\u021bi de o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de iubire, aten\u021bie \u0219i poate o lingur\u0103 de ciorb\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;cum o s\u0103 le explic eu copiilor mei c\u0103 doi b\u0103rba\u0163i se s\u0103rut\u0103 pe strad\u0103?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0162ine\u0163i minte cli\u015feul \u0103sta toxic al tradi\u0163ionali\u015ftilor pwlii. \u0102ia care se duc acas\u0103 dup\u0103 aceea \u015fi nu le explic\u0103 copiilor lor de ce \u00een c\u00e2teva luni ajung la maternit\u0103\u0163i s\u0103 nasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u015fi \u0163in copiii \u00eentr-o ignoran\u0163\u0103 toxic\u0103 \u015fi profund d\u0103un\u0103toare, \u00eentr-o submisivitate ovin\u0103 care \u00eei face pe ace\u015ftia victime perfecte ale pr\u0103d\u0103torilor sexuali. \u015ei \u00eentr-o teroare care \u00eei \u00eempiedic\u0103 pe respectivii copii s\u0103 m\u0103rturiseasc\u0103 prin ce au trecut, p\u00e2n\u0103 e prea t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, tot ei, \u0103vaaaai, educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 e vocea Satanei.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0103uta\u0163i pe Google. &#8220;O feti\u0163\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut&#8221;. Ve\u0163i g\u0103si mai multe, \u00een fiecare jude\u0163. Violate de vecini. Violate de rude. Violate de ta\u0163i. De unchi. De veri. Unele au c\u0103utat ele apropierea c\u00e2te unui gigel, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103 poate acesta le putea oferi tandre\u0163ea pe care nu o primeau \u00een familie.<\/p>\n<p>Suntem o \u0163ar\u0103 de feti\u0163e de 13 ani care au n\u0103scut.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei partea cea mai trist\u0103 e c\u0103 nu vrem s\u0103 facem nimic s\u0103 schimb\u0103m asta. S\u0103 introducem o dat\u0103 educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 \u00een \u015fcoli, s\u0103 educ\u0103m minorele: care sunt semnele pr\u0103d\u0103torilor sexuali, ce s\u0103 evite, ce s\u0103 raporteze imediat altor adul\u0163i \u015fi poli\u0163iei \u015fi, mai cu seam\u0103, faptul c\u0103 nimeni, absolut nimeni, nu are dreptul s\u0103 pretind\u0103 acces la corpul lor.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 schimb\u0103m ceva \u00een mentalit\u0103\u0163ile astea, feti\u0163e de 13 ani o s\u0103 tot nasc\u0103. Alte feti\u0163e, la fel de expuse abuzurilor de toate tipurile, ca \u015fi ele.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Da, \u00eenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani a n\u0103scut. \u00cenc\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103 de 13 ani \u0219i-a compromis op\u021biunile, educa\u021bia, \u0219ansele la o via\u021b\u0103 fericit\u0103.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21313,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/bullying.jpg?fit=640%2C413&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21312","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21312"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21312\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21317,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21312\/revisions\/21317"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21313"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21312"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21312"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21312"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}