{"id":21319,"date":"2021-02-23T18:43:21","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T15:43:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21319"},"modified":"2021-02-23T18:43:21","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T15:43:21","slug":"despre-refuzuri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-refuzuri\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre refuzuri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pute\u021bi lua textul \u0103sta ca pe o Po\u0219t\u0103 a redac\u021biei. Tot nu am mai primit mailuri lately, so, hai s\u0103 discut\u0103m.<\/p>\n

Scrie un domni\u0219or cum el “arat\u0103 c\u0103 e interesat cu grij\u0103”, dar domni\u015foara “e gher\u0163oaic\u0103”. Pe scurt, femeile sunt de vin\u0103.<\/p>\n

C\u0103 de ce refuz\u0103, dom’le, at\u00e2t de brutal \u015fi de tran\u015fant, \u015fi de dur, \u015fi de sec.<\/p>\n

Premisa de la care pornesc domni\u015forii de acest tip este c\u0103 simpla manifestare a interesului ar trebui OBLIGATORIU s\u0103 fie \u00eent\u00e2mpinat\u0103 cu un r\u0103spuns pozitiv, eventual entuziast.<\/p>\n

\u015ei nu e caz singular. Sunt o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i care cred, f\u0103r\u0103 ironie c\u0103, pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 li s-a pus lor pata \u015fi at\u00e2t, LI SE CUVINE ATEN\u0162IE \u015eI TIMP.<\/p>\n

Mi-au trimis domni print screenuri de la stalkerul de care v\u0103 scriam duminic\u0103. Gigelul \u0103sta afirma cu toat\u0103 seriozitatea c\u0103 “nu conteaz\u0103” ce r\u0103spunsuri i-am dat. R\u0103spunsurile care nu contau erau exact notificarea c\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103, c\u0103 interac\u0163iunea e nedorit\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 nu mai vreau acest tip de intruziune.<\/p>\n

\u00cen \u0163ara noastr\u0103, multe femei sunt educate s\u0103 plac\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 nu supere. De obicei, c\u00e2nd are ceva nepl\u0103cut de spus, femeia rom\u00e2nc\u0103 \u00eencepe cu “te rog s\u0103 nu te superi pe mine”, iar b\u0103rbatul rom\u00e2n cu “nu \u00eemi pas\u0103 dac\u0103 te superi pe mine”.<\/p>\n

Aceast\u0103 fraz\u0103 cli\u015feu define\u015fte la marele fix dinamica sexelor \u00een \u0163ara noastr\u0103. Femeia se scuz\u0103 \u015fi pentru faptul c\u0103 exist\u0103, iar b\u0103rbatului i se rupe de orice impact al faptelor lui.<\/p>\n

Cu o asemenea educa\u0163ie, femeia rom\u00e2nc\u0103 AR PREFERA \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 poat\u0103 refuza un candidat nedorit \u00eentr-un mod dr\u0103gu\u0163, politicos \u015fi elegant.<\/p>\n

Numai c\u0103 intervine educa\u0163ia acaparatoare \u015fi invadatoare a gher\u0163oiului de Rom\u00e2nika.<\/p>\n

Care o s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste refuzul politicos \u015fi elegant ca acceleratul prin D\u00e2rste. \u0218i o s\u0103 insiste, \u0219i o s\u0103 insiste, \u0219i o s\u0103 insisteee, \u0219i o s\u0103 devin\u0103 agasant, o s\u0103 caute s\u0103 te scoat\u0103 din min\u021bi, \u0219i dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi bagi pwla ad\u00e2nc \u00een mor\u021bii lui, o s\u0103 te frece la cap c\u0103 de fapt a\u0219a erai tu all along \u0219i tot a\u0219a.<\/p>\n

De ce devine femeia “gher\u0163oaic\u0103”?<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 o serie de masculi nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 respecte decizii. \u015ei de la un punct \u00eencolo, nu mai ai nici timp, nici chef, nici r\u0103bdare.<\/p>\n

\u00cenchei cu un print screen cules de pe peretele unei tipe care are o pagin\u0103 dedicat\u0103 vinurilor.<\/p>\n

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Cam at\u00e2t\u00a0 despre eficien\u0163a r\u0103spunsului elegant, politicos \u015fi dr\u0103gu\u0163. F\u0103r\u0103 un block ras peste bot, \u0103la pistona \u015fi insista de zici c\u0103 nu avusese p\u0103rin\u0163i acas\u0103 s\u0103-i dea \u015fi lui o educa\u0163ie.<\/p>\n

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Apoi, tot gigeii: dE Ke FemEIle nU sUNt fEMiNiNe?<\/p>\n

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Recapitul\u0103m: doar pentru c\u0103 vrei tu, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 vrea \u015fi ea. Iar dac\u0103 nu vrea, e dreptul ei.<\/p>\n

A zis fata c\u0103 aia e pagin\u0103 de vinuri \u015fi c\u0103 nu are bucurii la tine? “Bun, s-a notat, o zi bun\u0103 \u015fi succes cu pagina”.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 for\u0163ezi de fiecare dat\u0103 femeia din fa\u0163a ta s\u0103 recurg\u0103 la block \/\u00a0 mor\u0163ii \u015fi r\u0103ni\u0163ii m\u0103-tii s\u0103 procesezi \u015fi tu o informa\u0163ie, pierzi dreptul s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi c\u0103 refuzul nu a fost elegant \u015fi finu\u0163.<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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