{"id":21337,"date":"2021-02-26T11:40:28","date_gmt":"2021-02-26T08:40:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21337"},"modified":"2021-02-26T11:40:28","modified_gmt":"2021-02-26T08:40:28","slug":"posta-redactiei-sa-ma-mut-la-bucuresti-pentru-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-sa-ma-mut-la-bucuresti-pentru-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: S\u0103 m\u0103 mut la Bucure\u0219ti pentru el?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gigele, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, \u015fezi lin. Iubirea e pur\u0103, platonic\u0103, \u015fi const\u0103 \u00een tandre\u0163ea \u015fi empatia cu care o s\u0103 tratez un mail cu o problem\u0103 personal\u0103, pe care mi-o vei trimite pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Tu vei spune ce te apas\u0103, iar eu o s\u0103 vin cu o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o vei aplica, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei misiva de ast\u0103zi zice a\u015fa:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bun\u0103, Lorena,<\/strong><\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>E de prisos s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 te urmaresc de mult \u015fi te admir foarte tare, c\u0103 altfel nu \u00ee\u021bi mai scriam s\u0103 i\u0163i cer sfatul.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Pe scurt, sunt \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie cu un b\u0103iat de 5 luni, el locuie\u0219te \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, eu \u00een Pite\u0219ti, ne vedem \u00een weekend,\u00a0 uneori la dou\u0103 &#8211; trei weekend-uri distan\u021b\u0103. <\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>\u00cen ultima vreme, mi se pare ca s-a schimbat foarte mult, c\u0103 \u015fi-a pierdut interesul fa\u021b\u0103 de mine, de\u0219i spune c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219te \u015fi c\u0103 \u00eei place s\u0103 petreac\u0103 timpul cu mine, c\u0103 abia a\u015fteapt\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 vad\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>\u00cenainte, m\u0103 \u00eentreba mereu dac\u0103 pot s\u0103 vin la el \u015fi weekendul viitor, acum eu sunt cea care pune mereu \u00eentrebarea &#8220;c\u00e2nd ne vedem?&#8221;.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Lucreaz\u0103 foarte mult \u015fi are un job stresant, \u00eens\u0103 simt c\u0103 e ceva mai mult de at\u00e2t, atunci c\u00e2nd sunt la el nu facem dec\u00e2t s\u0103 st\u0103m \u00een cas\u0103, nu e genul care s\u0103 ias\u0103 sau s\u0103 \u00eemi propun\u0103 s\u0103 ie\u0219im, eu sunt cea care practic trage de el s\u0103 mai ie\u0219im \u015fi noi din cas\u0103.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Lucrez de acas\u0103 \u015fi \u00eemi petrec mare parte din timp \u00een cas\u0103, m\u0103car atunci c\u00e2nd sunt cu el a\u015f vrea s\u0103 ie\u015fim, s\u0103 nu mai st\u0103m pe canapea s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m pe Netflix.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>M\u0103 simt extrem de trist\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021beleg ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu el. Din punctul lui de vedere suntem bine. Eu am nevoie de altceva, vreau o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103 cu cineva care s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi doreasc\u0103 s\u0103 petreac\u0103 timpul cu mine, am 25 ani, nu \u00eemi mai arde de copil\u0103rii. M\u0103 g\u00e2ndisem s\u0103 m\u0103 mut la Bucure\u015fti, nu la el, evident, singur\u0103, a\u0219a a\u015f fi mai aproape de el \u015fi ne-am putea vedea mai des.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Din punctul t\u0103u de vedere a\u015f face o gre\u0219eal\u0103 dac\u0103 m-a\u0219 muta \u00een Bucure\u0219ti doar ca s\u0103 fiu mai aproape de el?<\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><strong>Mul\u0163umesc mult!\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<p><strong>X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n<p>Din punctul lui de vedere sunte\u0163i bine. El nu vrea de la tine mai mult dec\u00e2t sex recrea\u0163ional o dat\u0103 la dou\u0103 &#8211; trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni.<\/p>\n<p>Din punctul t\u0103u de vedere, nu sunte\u0163i bine, pentru c\u0103, practic, te folose\u015fte ca pe o lucr\u0103toare sexual\u0103, cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 tu vii free.<\/p>\n<p>Remarc\u0103m cum aceast\u0103 mutare la Bucure\u015fti nu a fost la ini\u0163iativa lui. El nu vrea de la tine mai mult dec\u00e2t acel sex recrea\u0163ional pe care, de altfel, \u00eel \u015fi ob\u0163ine f\u0103r\u0103 alte mofturi \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 ca asta s\u0103 implice orice alt efort din partea lui. Chiar \u015fi timpul dedicat vizitelor tale e cu protocolul pe minimum. F\u0103r\u0103 ie\u015fire \u00een ora\u015f, f\u0103r\u0103 nimic altceva dec\u00e2t sex \u015fi stat acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rerea mea e c\u0103 aceast\u0103 rela\u0163ie a ta, cum o nume\u015fti tu, sau booty call periodic, cum a\u015f numi-o eu, a ajuns \u00een punct mort, \u015fi ar trebui s\u0103-i faci v\u00e2nt cu totul domnului gigel, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00eel intereseaz\u0103 nimic mai mult sau mai profund. Altfel, \u00eentreba el dac\u0103 vii la Bucure\u015fti. \u015etiu b\u0103ie\u0163i care au c\u0103utat inclusiv un job pentru fat\u0103, ca ea s\u0103 poat\u0103 sta cu ei la Bucure\u015fti. Pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi doreau prezen\u0163a ei \u00een via\u0163a lor.<\/p>\n<p>De \u0103sta, din c\u00e2te se vede, trebuie s\u0103 tragi ca de cal mort. \u015ei nu vrei o rela\u0163ie \u00een care tragi numai tu. Dac\u0103 e a\u015fa de acum, \u00een ceea ce am numi perioada de curte, imagineaz\u0103-\u0163i nivelul de miserupism \u015fi del\u0103sare de mai \u00eencolo.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103rerea mea e s\u0103 te despar\u0163i. \u015ei s\u0103 te vindeci, \u015fi s\u0103 cau\u0163i un om care vrea lucrurile pe care le vrei \u015fi tu: iubire, o rela\u0163ie intens\u0103, prezen\u0163a ta \u00een via\u0163a lui. Toate aceste lucruri pe care Gigel \u0103sta n-a dat nici un semn c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 le ofere.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 te mu\u0163i la Bucure\u015fti, f\u0103-o. Ora\u015f mare, multe oportunit\u0103\u0163i, cariere \u00een ce domeniu vrei, u\u015fi deschise. Dar nu o face pentru unul care te cheam\u0103 doar la f*** o dat\u0103 la trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. F\u0103-o pentru tine \u015fi ambi\u0163iile tale personale.<\/p>\n<p>Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n<p>Lorena.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\">sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gigele, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, \u015fezi lin. Iubirea e pur\u0103, platonic\u0103, \u015fi const\u0103 \u00een tandre\u0163ea \u015fi empatia&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21338,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/iubire.jpg?fit=640%2C310&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21337"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21337\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21339,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21337\/revisions\/21339"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21338"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}