{"id":21422,"date":"2021-03-12T19:11:25","date_gmt":"2021-03-12T16:11:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21422"},"modified":"2021-03-12T19:11:25","modified_gmt":"2021-03-12T16:11:25","slug":"posta-redactiei-nu-pot-iesi-din-casa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-nu-pot-iesi-din-casa\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Nu pot ie\u0219i din cas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n<div><strong>Bun\u0103 ziua,<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00cemi cer scuze dac\u0103 sunt inoportun\u0103 cu acest mesaj.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Numele meu este Laura.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>A\u0219 dori s\u0103 v\u0103 rog ceva. Pentru c\u0103 nu am pe nimeni \u0219i \u00eemi este extrem de dificil s\u0103 g\u0103sesc suport \u00een jurul meu, tocmai acum.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Am suferit anumite traume care au condus la nevoia de a m\u0103 autoizola, \u00een ultimii 10 ani. Cu alte cuvinte, nu am ie\u0219it deloc din cas\u0103 o decad\u0103.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00cempreun\u0103 cu bunica mea am creat o campanie de str\u00e2ngere de fonduri pe GoGetFunding<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/gogetfunding.com\/help-me-smile-again-7\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/gogetfunding.com\/help-me-smile-again-7\/<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Povestea am scris-o pe scurt acolo.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>A\u0219 r\u0103m\u00e2ne extrem de recunosc\u0103toare dac\u0103 a\u021bi fi dispus\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i\u021bi cu prietenii dumneavoastr\u0103 de pe facebook, povestea mea.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Poate astfel voi reu\u0219i s\u0103 duc la bun sf\u00e2r\u0219it aceast\u0103 campanie. Dac\u0103 mai mul\u021bi oameni ar dori s\u0103 ajute cu un Share.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><strong>\u00cemi este greu, imposibil chiar&#8230; s\u0103 pot ajunge singur\u0103 la cei care ar dori s\u0103-mi \u00eentind\u0103 o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor, f\u0103r\u0103 sprijin.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong><u>Tomata cu scufi\u021b\u0103<\/u>\u00a0a scris un articol, promov\u00e2ndu-mi campania, \u00eens\u0103 nu am parte de suficient\u0103\u00a0vizibilitate, deocamdat\u0103.\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/tomatacuscufita.com\/2021\/03\/08\/zambet-cadou\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/tomatacuscufita.com\/2021\/03\/08\/zambet-cadou\/<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>Mul\u021bumesc oricum dac\u0103 a\u021bi citit p\u00e2n\u0103 aici \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>\u0219i ierta\u021bi-m\u0103 dac\u0103 am deranjat.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 Laura,<\/p>\n<p>Eu o s\u0103 sharuiesc cu cititorii cererea ta de ajutor. Dar vreau s\u0103 pun pe tapet o alt\u0103 problem\u0103: Ce faci tu s\u0103 te aju\u021bi pe tine, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd?<\/p>\n<p>Poate c\u0103 vei g\u0103si suport printre ei, poate c\u0103 nu. Dar at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu iei tu fr\u00e2nele \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, nu cau\u021bi s\u0103 te deta\u0219ezi de imaginea de victim\u0103 pe care \u021bi-ai croit-o \u00een mintea ta \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi hr\u0103ne\u0219ti singur\u0103 traumele retr\u00e2nd iar \u0219i iar evenimentele, vei fi \u00een acela\u0219i punct.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i problema cea mai nasoal\u0103 \u0219tii care e? C\u0103 oric\u00e2t\u0103 bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i generozitate au al\u021bii, la un moment dat au \u0219i eu priorit\u0103\u021bile lor. De aceea, trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi construie\u0219ti autonomia \u0219i for\u021ba de a func\u021biona de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor.<\/p>\n<p>Cu c\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi asumi mai repede c\u0103 tu \u00ee\u021bi e\u0219ti datoare s\u0103 te faci s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, cu at\u00e2t te vei sim\u021bi mai bine \u00een pielea ta.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i acum \u00ee\u021bi spun ce mi-a displ\u0103cut.<\/p>\n<p>Mi-a displ\u0103cut faptul c\u0103 ai criticat alt blogger, care \u021bi-a pus la dispozi\u021bie spa\u021biul lui, \u0219i cum nici \u00een cazul meu nu ai pus problema unei remunera\u021bii (numai \u021bie \u00ee\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 str\u0103inii lucruri, tu lor nu), probabil nu ai pus-o nici \u00een cazul Tomatei \u0219i te-a ajutat moca.<\/p>\n<p>Uite cum e cu vizibilitatea pe articole.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt articole pe teme fierbin\u021bi, care merg singure.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt articole sponsorizate, pe care le faci s\u0103 mearg\u0103, prin promovare pl\u0103tit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i sunt articole nu foarte interesante (dup\u0103 un an de pandemie, toat\u0103 lumea e s\u0103tuuul\u0103 de \u00eenc\u0103 cineva care vrea mila internetului, \u0219i \u021bi-o spun onest, astea merg cel mai prost), care mai sunt \u0219i nepl\u0103tite.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i dac\u0103 o s\u0103 fac o sut\u0103 de vizite cu acest text, va fi mult. Pentru c\u0103 nu e nimic atractiv \u00een subiect.<\/p>\n<p>Nu-i mai face de cacao pe bloggerii care te ajut\u0103, c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u021bi se duce buhul de ingrat\u0103, nu te va ajuta nimeni.<\/p>\n<p>Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n<p>Lorena.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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