{"id":21481,"date":"2021-03-20T11:11:14","date_gmt":"2021-03-20T08:11:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21481"},"modified":"2021-03-20T11:11:14","modified_gmt":"2021-03-20T08:11:14","slug":"hai-sa-vorbim-despre-discriminare-etnica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/hai-sa-vorbim-despre-discriminare-etnica\/","title":{"rendered":"Hai s\u0103 vorbim despre discriminare etnic\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tr\u0103iesc \u00eentr-o bul\u0103 roz. Oameni decen\u021bi, corect educa\u021bi, respectuo\u0219i fa\u021b\u0103 de oricine, indiferent de ras\u0103, etnie, statut social, identitate \u0219i orientare sexual\u0103. Taman de aceea, c\u00e2nd citesc statusuri \u00een care o mare actri\u021b\u0103 a Rom\u00e2niei aude, la un eveniment formal, cum cineva se refer\u0103 la etnia ei ca &#8220;jidani&#8221;, mi se scoal\u0103 p\u0103rul \u00een cap.<\/p>\n<div class=\"fb-post\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/maia.morgenstern.5\/posts\/10159335170611291\" data-width=\"500\" data-show-text=\"true\">\n<blockquote class=\"fb-xfbml-parse-ignore\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/maia.morgenstern.5\/posts\/10159335170611291\"><p>Sunt felul de om care reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 post traumatic. Ce-o mai fi \u00eensemn\u00e2nd \u0219i asta.<br \/>\nCe vreau s\u0103 spun este c\u0103 paralizez \u00een&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Posted by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/maia.morgenstern.5\">Maia Morgenstern<\/a> on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/maia.morgenstern.5\/posts\/10159335170611291\">Thursday, 18 March 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p>Ca minoritate etnic\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, e\u015fti obi\u015fnuit s\u0103 fii tratat absolut oribil, \u00een numele unui patriotism\u00a0 care nu se vede dec\u00e2t \u00een declara\u0163ii pline de cuvinte sfor\u0103itoare, \u00een special c\u00e2nd ai un interes direct.<\/p>\n<p>Mult\u0103 lume d\u0103 ochii peste cap a indignare c\u00e2nd repet\u0103 cli\u015feul cu &#8220;Ne-am dus s\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103m p\u00e2ine \u00een Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe \/ Miercurea Ciuc \/ T\u00e2rgu Mure\u015f \u015fi ni s-a r\u0103spuns cu nem tudom&#8221;. Dar pu\u0163ini se g\u00e2ndesc c\u00e2t\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uire au avut de \u00eendurat minorit\u0103\u0163ile etnice din Rom\u00e2nia, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la nem tudom.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Politica de rom\u00e2nizare for\u0163at\u0103 a lui Ceau\u015fescu\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asta e situa\u0163ia local\u0103. Sunt jude\u0163e \u00een care un grup etnic este majoritar \u015fi nu prea ai ce face.<\/p>\n<p>Ceau\u015fescu, ca un vrednic cizmar, a \u00eencercat o solu\u0163ie for\u0163at\u0103 \u015fi pentru chestia asta, \u015fi s\u0103 regleze procentul etnic, aduc\u00e2nd rom\u00e2ni cu sila \u00een aceste jude\u0163e. Desigur, nu rom\u00e2ni harnici \u015fi de bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103. \u0102ia aveau deja rostul lor \u00een localit\u0103\u0163ile de ba\u015ftin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>A adus elementele neintegrate din cele mai joase p\u0103turi ale societ\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi le-a umplut capul cu &#8220;\u0162ara e Rom\u00e2nia, drept care, voi o s\u0103 defila\u0163i pe aici, \u00een acest ora\u015f care nu v\u0103 datoreaz\u0103 nimic \u015fi care a fost ridicat strict de cultura austroungar\u0103, cu un tupeu fantastic \u015fi cu un misecuvenism de-a dreptul sfid\u0103tor&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Iar c\u00e2nd tu e\u015fti \u00eentr-un loc de c\u00e2nd te-ai n\u0103scut, membru implicat \u015fi valoros al comunit\u0103\u0163ii, \u015fi vine Gigel, un be\u0163iv nesp\u0103lat din Vaslui, s\u0103 \u00eencordeze musculatura la tine, r\u0103spunsul este &#8220;nem tudom&#8221;. Pentru c\u0103 &#8220;f***-\u0163i na\u0163ia m\u0103-tii&#8221; e de la a patra p\u0103linc\u0103 \u00een sus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei nu doar c\u0103 i-a adus, dar i-a \u015fi pus \u015fefi pe to\u0163i, chit c\u0103 erau incompeten\u0163i.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cenc\u0103 mi-o amintesc pe maic\u0103-mea, \u00een perioada c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 lucra la \u00eentreprindere, cum \u00eei \u00eenjura cu sete pe &#8220;dobitocii de moldoveni&#8221;. Dobitocii de moldoveni erau \u015fefii ei. Promova\u0163i \u00een comunism, pe criterii ca originea s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u015fi lipsa absolut\u0103 de scrupule cu care pupau c*r comunist \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi vindeau \u015fi mamele, dac\u0103 interesul partidului o cerea.<\/p>\n<p>Eu am descoperit adev\u0103ratele calit\u0103\u0163i ale poporului rom\u00e2n, inteligen\u0163a, umorul, sensibilitatea, generozitatea, abia dup\u0103 ce m-am mutat \u00een Bucure\u015fti. Fauna din Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe era format\u0103 din ni\u015fte oameni de nivelul intelectual \u015fi abilitatea de a empatiza ale unui AUR-ist obi\u015fnuit. Nici nu e de mirare c\u0103 &#8220;nem tudom&#8221;. Chiar \u015fi tu, ne\u015ftiutor de maghiar\u0103, ai fi &#8220;nem tudom&#8221; cu \u0103\u015ftia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;C\u00e2nd te \u00eentorci \u00een \u0163ara ta?&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00centrebarea asta pus\u0103 unui om a c\u0103rui familie e de secole \u00een \u015fir \u00een zon\u0103, de c\u0103tre un gigel care a cobor\u00e2t din c\u0103ru\u0163\u0103 alalt\u0103ieri, e de o lips\u0103 de respect \u015fi de o inacurate\u0163e istoric\u0103 absolut sinistre.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cei zici &#8220;nem tudom&#8221; ca s\u0103 nu-i f***i una \u00een muf\u0103. C\u0103 dup\u0103 aia, tot tu pici de extremist.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Numele rostite gre\u015fit numai de-al naibii.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Am avut profesori care nu erau dispu\u015fi s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e nici de-al dracu&#8217; s\u0103 pronun\u0163e corect numele elevilor maghiari. Sau s\u0103 le scrie corect. Le st\u00e2lceau cu m\u00e2ndrie, ca s\u0103 arate c\u0103 un rom\u00e2n adev\u0103rat nu \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 ortografia \u015fi pronun\u0163ia altei etnii.<\/p>\n<p>Chit c\u0103 erau elevii lor, pe urma c\u0103rora \u00ee\u015fi luau salariul.<\/p>\n<p>Dar a\u015fa sunt unii, \u00ee\u015fi manifest\u0103 patriotismul \u00een ignoran\u0163\u0103 afi\u015fat\u0103. Eu sunt rom\u00e2n, deci aleg s\u0103 nu \u00eenv\u0103\u0163 nimic altceva. Sunt rom\u00e2n, deci e m\u00e2ndria mea s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n prost \u015fi limitat.<\/p>\n<p>Sigur, nu to\u0163i erau a\u015fa. Dar noi, oamenii, suntem f\u0103cu\u0163i s\u0103 \u0163inem minte mai intens experien\u0163ele negative. \u00cen fond, dac\u0103 tu calci pe un teren minat, nu trebuie s\u0103 fie c\u00e2te o min\u0103 la fiecare pas, s\u0103 sim\u0163i pericolul. Ajunge doar s\u0103 se declan\u015feze c\u00e2te una la trei pa\u015fi de tine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Note mai mici \u015fi ignorarea meritelor. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aceia\u015fi profesori care gre\u015feau numele copiilor de etnie maghiar\u0103 le \u015fi d\u0103deau note mai mici, pe lucr\u0103ri de aceea\u015fi calitate. Sau pe r\u0103spunsuri la tabl\u0103 care meritau cel pu\u0163in un punct \u00een plus.<\/p>\n<p>Iar din c\u00e2te \u00eemi povestea maic\u0103-mea, \u015fefimea de rom\u00e2ni adu\u015fi pe filier\u0103 de partid aveau politic\u0103 de \u00eentreprindere s\u0103 nu promoveze unguri, s\u0103 nu le recunoasc\u0103 meritele, s\u0103 nu le dea prime sau cre\u015fteri salariale \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/p>\n<p>Probabil c\u0103, dup\u0103 ce \u00eentreprinderile comuniste s-au \u00eenchis \u015fi s-a trecut la apari\u0163ia firmelor de azi, acest tip de politic\u0103 nu se mai aplic\u0103. Dar memoria unor decenii de minimalizare deliberat\u0103 nu trece cu una cu dou\u0103. Nem tudom.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vorbi\u0163i rom\u00e2ne\u015fte!\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asta mi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat chiar mie, pe la 17 ani. A\u015fteptam autobuzul \u015fi povesteam cu dou\u0103 amice unguroaice. C\u00e2nd, deodat\u0103, intervine un gigel bou de vreo 40 \u015fi se r\u0103ste\u015fte la noi: &#8220;Sunte\u0163i \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, vorbi\u0163i rom\u00e2ne\u015fte!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Eram \u00eenc\u0103 mic\u0103. Am t\u0103cut toate trei, extrem de stingherite de b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nie. Azi, l-a\u015f trece pe prost Dun\u0103rea pe un pod de m\u0103t\u0103r\u00e2ngi \u00eenv\u00e2rto\u015fate, \u015fi dus, \u015fi \u00eentors, dar pe atunci, eram un copil. Un copil timorat de o educa\u0163ie extrem de sever\u0103 \u015fi de o copil\u0103rie lipsit\u0103 de afec\u0163iune.<\/p>\n<p>De c\u00e2nd \u00eemi spui tu mie ce limb\u0103 s\u0103 vorbesc, b\u0103i, nimicule?? C\u00e2nd vin pro\u015fti \u00een sec\u0163iunea de comentarii \u015fi \u00eencep s\u0103 gui\u0163e cu romgleza, cu &#8220;ce limb\u0103 se vorbe\u015fte aiceaaa?&#8221;, cu altele similare, Lorena care le r\u0103spunde &#8220;CE LIMB\u0102 VREA PWLA MEA, \u00ceN MOR\u0162II M\u0102-TII&#8221; e Lorena care a fost bruscat\u0103 la 17 ani \u00een sta\u0163ia de autobuz de un b\u0103d\u0103ran care s-a trezit s\u0103-i fac\u0103 program pe timpul ei liber. E r\u0103spunsul pe care m-a\u015f \u00eentoarce \u00een timp s\u0103-l dau \u0103luia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei colac peste pup\u0103z\u0103, mai vin \u015fi patriho\u0163ii rom\u00e2ni cu diversiuni.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mai \u0163ine\u0163i minte incidentul \u0103la din Kaufland de Miercurea Ciuc, unde un dobitoc cer\u015fetor de aten\u0163ie a f\u0103cut un scandal interminabil pe net cum c\u0103 nu a fost servit, pentru c\u0103 era rom\u00e2n? \u015ei la ancheta intern\u0103 a supermarketului, a reie\u015fit c\u0103, de fapt, se dusese la v\u00e2nz\u0103toare cu un sfert de or\u0103 \u00eenainte de deschiderea magazinului \u015fi ea nu avusese casa pornit\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Sau cum, acum c\u00e2teva zile, George Simion, alt terminat cer\u015fetor de aten\u0163ie, mulgea likes de la trepana\u0163i la fel de toxici, \u00eenv\u00e2rtindu-se prin centrul ora\u015fului Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe \u015fi coment\u00e2nd steagurile ungure\u015fti pe un ton scandalizat?<\/p>\n<p>Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe \u00eenc\u0103 are o popula\u0163ie format\u0103 din 80% cet\u0103\u0163eni de etnie maghiar\u0103, iar ei au tradi\u0163iile lor.<\/p>\n<p>Nu aju\u0163i pe nimeni dac\u0103 pui biciul pe ace\u015fti oameni \u015fi \u00eencerci s\u0103-i transformi \u00een rom\u00e2ni cu sila, dac\u0103 le adresezi insulte etnice sau dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 le spui ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u015fi ce nu, la ei acas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Cu c\u00e2t o na\u0163iune \u00ee\u015fi apreciaz\u0103 mai mult minorit\u0103\u0163ile, cu at\u00e2t \u00ee\u015fi celebreaz\u0103 mai mult propria complexitate cultural\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen fond, cele mai frumoase cl\u0103diri din Transilvania sunt construc\u0163ii austro-ungare \u015fi cele mai frumoase cl\u0103diri din Moldova sunt construc\u0163ii evreie\u015fti. Fie c\u0103 ne convine, fie c\u0103 nu.<\/p>\n<p>F\u0103r\u0103 minorit\u0103\u0163i, Rom\u00e2nia ar fi r\u0103mas la nivelul bordeiului de chirpici.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tr\u0103iesc \u00eentr-o bul\u0103 roz. 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