{"id":21526,"date":"2021-03-29T10:07:49","date_gmt":"2021-03-29T07:07:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21526"},"modified":"2021-03-29T10:07:49","modified_gmt":"2021-03-29T07:07:49","slug":"posta-redactiei-de-ce-flirteaza-barbatii-insurati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-de-ce-flirteaza-barbatii-insurati\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: De ce flirteaz\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii \u00eensura\u0163i?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n

Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

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Bun\u0103, Lorena<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, felicit\u0103ri pentru blog, e minunat. N-am neap\u0103rat o problem\u0103 de rezolvat, c\u00e2t am o dilem\u0103 de perspectiv\u0103. De c\u00e2nd e pandemie, au \u00eenceput s\u0103 se bage \u00een seam\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bi despre care \u0219tiu clar c\u0103 sunt lua\u021bi. Unii chiar cu familie \u0219i copii.<\/strong><\/div>\n
Unii mai smooth, al\u021bii mai explicit, dar interesul lor e mai mult dec\u00e2t “hai s\u0103 fim prieteni”. Ceea ce, m\u0103 frapeaz\u0103, dat fiind c\u0103 nu sunt vreo seduc\u0103toare. I’m just being friendly (\u0219i men\u021bionez c\u0103 nu-s adepta rela\u021biilor de genul, vreau un b\u0103rbat pe a c\u0103rui list\u0103 de priorit\u0103\u021bi s\u0103 nu fiu la “c\u00e2nd \u0219i dac\u0103 se poate”).\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
A\u0219 vrea, dac\u0103 po\u021bi, s\u0103 m\u0103 aju\u021bi s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een capetele lor, fiindc\u0103 eu una m\u0103 simt confuz\u0103 \u0219i dep\u0103\u0219it\u0103 de situa\u021bie. E doar pandemia, erau assholes oricum, what’s the deal with this?<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Love,<\/strong><\/div>\n
X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/div>\n
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Nu e vorba de c\u00e2t e\u015fti de seduc\u0103toare. Ai fi mirat\u0103 ce ar fi dispu\u015fi s\u0103 f*** b\u0103rba\u0163i pe care \u00eei apreciezi \u015fi \u00eei respec\u0163i. Are Amy Schumer o glum\u0103: dac\u0103 nu-\u0163i po\u0163i imagina ce ar f*** b\u0103rbatul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, probabil c\u0103 ai c\u0103lcat pe ea c\u00e2nd te-ai dus p\u00e2n\u0103 la baie.<\/div>\n
De ce?<\/div>\n
Pentru c\u0103 \u00eei \u0163ine.<\/div>\n
\u015ei s\u0103-\u015fi demonstreze lor \u00een\u015fi\u015fi c\u0103 \u00eei \u0163ine.<\/div>\n
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Dincolo de asta, trebuie s\u0103 observi un fenomen social mai serios. Pandemia a masacrat via\u0163a social\u0103 a\u015fa cum o \u015ftiam, distrac\u0163iile, ie\u015fitul \u00een ora\u015f, entertainmentul, toate modurile \u00een care un om poate str\u0103luci \u00een situa\u0163ii publice.<\/div>\n
Asta pe de o parte.<\/div>\n
Pe de alta, for\u0163\u00e2nd cuplurile s\u0103 stea acas\u0103 \u00een telemunc\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua, \u015fi \u00een multe cazuri cu copii cu tot, a ucis orice oportunitate ca oamenilor s\u0103 li se fac\u0103 dor unul de altul. Oric\u00e2t de mult ai iubi pe cineva, c\u00e2nd e\u015fti \u00eenchis luni \u00een \u015fir \u00een acela\u015fi spa\u0163iu cu persoana respectiv\u0103 \u015fi singura pauz\u0103 e drumul p\u00e2n\u0103 la megaimaju’ din col\u0163, te saturi p\u00e2n\u0103 peste cap.<\/div>\n
Apoi: b\u0103rba\u0163ii cam chiulesc de la treburile casei. Mai ales cei rom\u00e2ni. C\u00e2t timp Gigel e zece ore pe zi la munc\u0103, o mai drege, mai pune bani s\u0103 cheme menajer\u0103, mai o mas\u0103 \u00een ora\u015f, se compenseaz\u0103. St\u00e2nd toat\u0103 ziua acas\u0103, \u00eens\u0103, frustrarea femeii c\u00e2nd b\u0103rbatul nu pune m\u00e2na pe aspirator sau mop e la niveluri abisale, \u015fi se \u0163ip\u0103 mult \u015fi aiurea. Am un cuplu \u00een vecini. Se ceart\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua.<\/div>\n
\u015ei atunci, cum orgoliul masculin are mai mult\u0103 nevoie de validare dec\u00e2t cel feminin, de\u015fi basmele spun invers, b\u0103rbatul \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 aga\u0163e ceva \u00een paralel, absolut orice, doar s\u0103 se mai simt\u0103 dorit \u015fi fluture social, nu o povar\u0103 detestabil\u0103 de care femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el s-a s\u0103turat p\u00e2n\u0103 peste cap.<\/div>\n
Dac\u0103 avea bani ca acum un an \u015fi jum\u0103tate, se ducea la c***e, dar hei, e telemunc\u0103, multe firme au b\u0103gat scuza lucrului de acas\u0103 s\u0103 mai ciupeasc\u0103 din sporuri \u015fi prime. Multe au b\u0103gat scuza covidului s\u0103 ciupeasc\u0103 din sporuri \u015fi prime. Multe \u015fi-au trimis angaja\u0163ii \u00een \u015fomaj tehnic. Multe au desfiin\u0163at posturi. Multe pl\u0103tesc salariu de baz\u0103 \u015fi comision; \u015fi cum clien\u0163ii str\u00e2ng punga, comisionul e infim de un an.<\/div>\n
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Deci, iubire acas\u0103 p*la, bani p*la, distrac\u0163ie p*la. Tot ce le r\u0103m\u00e2ne de f\u0103cut e s\u0103-mi citeasc\u0103 mie blogul \u015fi s\u0103 aga\u0163e tot ce pot, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103 poate pic\u0103 ceva.<\/div>\n
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Nu te alarma, nu e nimic personal. E doar f*** sportiv de palmares, \u015fi te asigur c\u0103 NU te intereseaz\u0103. Dec\u00e2t s\u0103 afli m\u00e2ine c\u0103 e\u015fti \u00een catastiful de trofee al unui donjuan de D\u00e2mbovi\u0163a din \u0103sta st\u0103tut, mai bine \u00ee\u0163i programezi o sear\u0103 pe P-hub.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei eu am avut un orgasm ieri pe P-hub. \u00cen momentul c\u00e2nd a livrat Gigel pizza. Aaaah, pizza. Stelu\u0163e albe de pl\u0103cere. A fost tot ce am avut nevoie.<\/div>\n
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Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/div>\n
Lorena.<\/div>\n
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PS: E bizar cum ne modific\u0103 pandemia nevoile. B\u0103rba\u0163ii devin ma\u015fini de co\u0163\u0103it, iar femeile fac bube la g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 le-ar putea atinge cineva. De aceea, celibatul e singura form\u0103 real\u0103 de echilibru.<\/div>\n
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