{"id":21553,"date":"2021-04-03T16:45:08","date_gmt":"2021-04-03T13:45:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21553"},"modified":"2021-04-03T16:45:08","modified_gmt":"2021-04-03T13:45:08","slug":"posta-redactiei-daca-ne-despartim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-daca-ne-despartim\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Dac\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n

Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Lore,<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ce\u021bi scriu \u0219i eu un mesaj.. .puii mei, nu am prietene. Nu \u0219tiu cui s\u0103 \u00eei mai cer un sfat, o p\u0103rere.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sunt cu un tip de un an \u0219i ceva, la \u00eenceput fu ok, am tras am\u00e2ndoi, am muncit, ne comportam frumos… p\u00e2n\u0103 de cur\u00e2nd. Situa\u021bia s-a remarcat schimbat\u0103 din partea lui. El 23, eu luna asta 25. Lore, vreau cas\u0103, vreau copii \u00een viitor, nu BMW cum viseaz\u0103 el.<\/strong><\/div>\n
\u00cemi vorbe\u0219te execrabil de fa\u021b\u0103 cu colegii de munc\u0103, chiar d\u00e2n\u0219ii au sesizat asta \u0219i m-au \u00eentrebat cum de \u00eei permit. Mna, eu nu b\u0103gam de seam\u0103, dar a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 sece p\u0103 icre. El vrea BMW, eu vreau cas\u0103. El nu vrea cas\u0103, c\u0103 dac\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim, ce facem cu casa?!<\/strong><\/div>\n
Totul se rezum\u0103 la dac\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim.<\/strong><\/div>\n
Plus c\u0103 \u00eemi spune c\u0103 eu sunt ca o veri\u0219oar\u0103 pentru el. Asta ce mai \u00eenseamn\u0103?! Poate tu realizezi altfel… te rog. D\u0103-mi dou\u0103 palme, cum \u0219tii tu cel mai bine. Mersi , pup<\/strong><\/div>\n
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X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n

***<\/p>\n

Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n

\u0218tii deja exact ce trebuie s\u0103 faci, \u0219i mi-ai scris doar pentru confirmare, nu-i a\u0219a?<\/p>\n

Femeia rom\u00e2nc\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 se respecte mai mult. Dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat nu compenseaz\u0103 timpul \u0219i energia pe care le investe\u0219ti \u00een rela\u021bie cu un tratament excep\u021bional, te descurci mai bine singur\u0103. Ai deja un job, din c\u00e2te scrii chiar tu. O chirie, singur\u0103 sau cu o prieten\u0103, g\u0103se\u0219ti u\u0219or. \u00cen ziua de azi, o femeie NU ARE NICI UN MOTIV ECONOMIC SAU SOCIAL s\u0103 tolereze b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nie \u0219i lips\u0103 de respect, \u0219i dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat nu are iubire \u0219i apreciere pentru tine, irose\u0219ti cel mai valoros capital pe care \u00eel avem noi ca fiin\u021be umane.<\/p>\n

TIMPUL.<\/p>\n

Nu irosi timp cu oameni care \u021bi-l apreciaz\u0103 \u0219i nu sunt recunosc\u0103tori c\u0103 alegi s\u0103 petreci cu ei acest timp.<\/p>\n

\u0218i apoi, \u0103sta VREA s\u0103 \u00eel p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219ti. O CERE. Dac\u0103, indiferent de premis\u0103, pune \u00eentrebarea “dar dac\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u0163im”, e exact ce \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ob\u0163in\u0103 de la tine. E\u00a0 exact premisa de la care face orice calcul de viitor. Nu vede un viitor comun cu tine \u0219i nu vrea angajamente comune.<\/p>\n

De ce s\u0103 irose\u0219ti TIMP PRE\u021aIOS cu cineva care are at\u00e2t de pu\u021bine de oferit?<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 nu punctez c\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 mai cre\u0219ti \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u0219te copii f\u0103r\u0103 tat\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u0219te chinui\u021bi ai unei familii monoparentale. Caut\u0103-\u021bi un b\u0103rbat responsabil \u0219i serios pentru a avea copii. Nu-i face cu toate scursurile, c\u0103 nu e nimic mai chinuitor dec\u00e2t o copil\u0103rie f\u0103r\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bi.<\/p>\n

D\u0103-i papucii. Azi.<\/p>\n

El se poart\u0103 \u00een a\u0219a fel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 asta de la tine – umilin\u021be \u00een fa\u021ba colegilor – pentru c\u0103 e prea la\u0219 s\u0103 ini\u021bieze el desp\u0103r\u021birea. Chiar nu ai de ce s\u0103 investe\u0219ti un minut de commitment \u00een plus.<\/p>\n

\u00cen mod sigur g\u0103se\u0219ti ceva mai bun.<\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n

Lorena.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

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