{"id":21601,"date":"2021-04-12T16:50:31","date_gmt":"2021-04-12T13:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21601"},"modified":"2021-04-12T16:50:31","modified_gmt":"2021-04-12T13:50:31","slug":"despre-gaslighting-feminin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-gaslighting-feminin\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre gaslighting feminin"},"content":{"rendered":"

A venit o g\u00e2sculi\u021b\u0103 pe pagina mea. S-a legat de textul \u00een care eu r\u0103spundeam unei adolescente. O fat\u0103 nemul\u021bumit\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 prietena se b\u0103ga pe fir \u0219i \u00eei sufla toate interesele amoroase. Textul, aici<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acum, mie nu mi-e foarte clar dac\u0103 g\u00e2sculi\u021ba asta e extrem de proast\u0103, extrem de javr\u0103, sau c\u00e2te pu\u021bin din ambele. Probabil, ultima op\u021biune. Dar m-a luat cu “dac\u0103 \u0103ia o pl\u0103ceau cu adev\u0103rat, nu i-ar fi putut sufla \u015fi ea nu-i de\u0163ine pe respectivii \u015fi blabla”.<\/p>\n

Realitatea pe care orice femeie cu minimum de experien\u0163\u0103 o \u015ftie e c\u0103, pe termen scurt, po\u0163i avea ORICE B\u0102RBAT. Except\u00e2nd pe unul proasp\u0103t \u00eendr\u0103gostit \u015fi care \u015fi-a asumat cu pasiune \u015fi ferocitate un commitment.<\/p>\n

E \u0103sta cazul adolescen\u0163ilor cu care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 flirteze autoarea Po\u015ftei redac\u0163iei? Probabil c\u0103 nu. La 17 ani, plaja de masculi eligibili e pe la 17 – 23 de ani. Mai sus, “sunt b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u015fi ur\u00e2\u0163i”.<\/p>\n

Ei, la v\u00e2rsta asta, aten\u0163ia masculin\u0103 e extrem de u\u015for de captat. Trebuie doar un z\u00e2mbet, c\u00e2teva glumi\u0163e deplasate, dar nu foarte, s\u0103 nu pari c***\u0103, doar relaxat\u0103, \u015fi o fusti\u0163\u0103 suficient de scurt\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei la v\u00e2rsta asta, dac\u0103 o fat\u0103 vine cu o energie inocent\u0103, de om \u00een c\u0103utare, \u015fi alta, prietena competitiv\u0103, cu un vibe de femel\u0103 disponibil\u0103, b\u0103iatul, \u00eenc\u0103 imatur \u015fi de ce s\u0103 n-o spunem, \u00eenc\u0103 foarte prost, o s\u0103 comute instant aten\u0163ia c\u0103tre cea care pare c\u0103 \u015ftie ce face. Pentru c\u0103 preocuparea e pe ob\u0163inerea c\u00e2t mai rapid\u0103 a sexului, cu efort c\u00e2t mai mic.<\/p>\n

Cu un pic de tupeu \u015fi cu impresia c\u0103 te f*** repede, po\u0163i sufla boifrendul oric\u0103rei adolescente. Mai ales dac\u0103 e doar etapa de descoperire \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 nu a decis c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fie cu ea.<\/p>\n

\u015ei da, prietena e o japi\u0163\u0103. S\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i focusezi perpetuu aten\u0163ia pe cum s\u0103 sufli ce are aproapele t\u0103u e un semn de j\u0103vrenie maxim\u0103. \u015ei ea, \u015fi g\u00e2sculi\u0163a b\u0103g\u0103toare \u00een seam\u0103 pe pagina mea sunt genul de otrepe lipsite de loialitate, care avanseaz\u0103 \u00een via\u0163\u0103 sabot\u00e2nd fraierii \u015fi fraierele care investesc \u00eencredere \u00een ele.<\/p>\n

Evident c\u0103 genul \u0103sta de om va ap\u0103ra genul \u0103sta de om, pentru c\u0103, a\u015fa cum spune englezul, birds of a feather flock together. Dar noi vrem prietene care s\u0103 ne sus\u0163in\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 farmecele acas\u0103, a\u015fa cum \u015fi noi le \u0163inem pe ale noastre acas\u0103, c\u00e2nd vedem c\u0103 sunt atrase de cineva.<\/p>\n

\u0162ine\u0163i oamenii competitivi afar\u0103 din via\u0163a voastr\u0103 intim\u0103. Strictly business, ka-ching, la revedere.<\/p>\n

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