{"id":21610,"date":"2021-04-14T10:32:30","date_gmt":"2021-04-14T07:32:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21610"},"modified":"2021-04-14T10:32:30","modified_gmt":"2021-04-14T07:32:30","slug":"mi-am-dus-parintii-la-sala-de-divorturi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mi-am-dus-parintii-la-sala-de-divorturi\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi-am dus p\u0103rin\u021bii la sala de divor\u021buri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sunt multe satisfac\u021bii ale muncii de creator de content online. Sunt cele materiale, c\u00e2nd cineva alege s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 financiar \u00een contentul t\u0103u. Sunt cele de vanitate, c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti l\u0103udat de oameni pe care \u00eei respec\u021bi. \u0218i sunt comentariile geniale, care uneori ofer\u0103 o solu\u021bie simpl\u0103 \u0219i la \u00eendem\u00e2n\u0103 pentru o problem\u0103 cu care se confrunt\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi.<\/p>\n

Azi, p\u0103rin\u021bii intruzivi, care \u00ee\u0219i fac fetele s\u0103 se simt\u0103 prost pentru c\u0103 acestea nu se gr\u0103besc s\u0103 se m\u0103rite.<\/p>\n

Cristina Silaghi e avocat la Timi\u0219oara. \u0218i a postat urm\u0103torul comentariu:<\/p>\n

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Uneori, presiunea atinge cote incredibile. \u0218tiu femei ok, cu joburi bune, c\u0103rora le era groaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i sune p\u0103rin\u021bii s\u0103 \u00eentrebe ce mai fac, c\u0103 \u0103ia mereu le f\u0103ceau s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103 la telefon, din cauz\u0103 c\u0103 nu erau c\u0103s\u0103torite. Le ziceam s\u0103 nu mai sune un timp \u0219i ziceau c\u0103 atunci sunau \u00een disperare p\u0103rin\u021bii, p\u00e2n\u0103 r\u0103spundeau. Apoi, tot ei se mirau \u0219i criticau c\u00e2nd ele se c\u0103s\u0103toreau cu primul care le cerea, erau nefericite \u0219i, dup\u0103 un timp, divor\u021bau. Atunci, refrenul se schimba \u00een: “trebuia s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti unul mai bun” sau “trebuia s\u0103 \u021bii de c\u0103s\u0103torie, c\u0103 \u0219i eu am \u00eendurat cu tac-tu\/m\u0103-ta, dar nu am plecat”. Groaznic si toxic. <\/strong><\/div>\n
La mine punctul maxim al b\u0103t\u0103ii de cap a fost la 29 ani. Dup\u0103 o cin\u0103 \u00een familie de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 \u00een care m-au z\u0103p\u0103cit, m-am dus cu amicii la disco cu scop de dans, calmare \u0219i eventual ag\u0103\u021bat. Dar dau de fostul care \u00eemi repro\u0219eaz\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bin dup\u0103 el, la disco la mine \u00een cartier. Trebuia s\u0103 \u00eel \u00eenjur direct, dar pe vremea aia \u00eencercam s\u0103 m\u0103 port “ca o doamn\u0103”, a\u0219a c\u0103 i-am zis vreo dou\u0103 politicos \u0219i m-am dus s\u0103 m\u0103 anesteziez cu un Long Island Ice Tea. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Cu mintea mea de acum, \u00eei d\u0103deam JET direct \u0219i nu-mi chinuiam ficatul pentru t\u00e2mpi\u021bi. Dar, dup\u0103 Long Island, mi-a venit o idee genial\u0103. <\/strong><\/div>\n
\u00cen lunea aia, mi-am luat p\u0103rin\u021bii la serviciu si i-am l\u0103sat \u00een sala de divor\u021buri ni\u0219te ore, p\u00e2n\u0103 mi-am f\u0103cut treaba la alte s\u0103li. Ei locuiau l\u00e2ng\u0103 o biseric\u0103 popular\u0103 \u0219i vedeau mereu nun\u021bi dr\u0103gu\u021be, alaiuri fericite, etc. Acum au v\u0103zut \u0219i partea ur\u00e2t\u0103, divor\u021buri \u0219i partaje, unde ajung 50% din alaiurile vesele de nunt\u0103. \u0218i-au g\u0103sit acolo \u0219i ni\u0219te vecini de v\u00e2rsta lor care i-au \u00eentrebat conspirativ: “\u0218i voi?!”. Lol. <\/strong><\/div>\n
De atunci, m-au l\u0103sat \u00een pace. Dup\u0103 pandemie, publicul va putea din nou asista la \u0219edin\u021be de judecat\u0103 publice, sunt foarte instructive unele. Iar colegele mele au evoluat de la “vai, nu te mai m\u0103ri\u021bi?!” la “ce de\u0219teapt\u0103 ai fost c\u0103 nu ai f\u0103cut-o”. Le raspund c\u0103 nu am fost de\u0219teapt\u0103 sau proast\u0103. Dac\u0103 dau de unul s\u0103 \u00eel iubesc cu adev\u0103rat, \u00eel iau, dac\u0103 nu, nu, sunt ok \u0219i singur\u0103.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Excelent. S\u0103 iei p\u0103rin\u021bii care \u00ee\u021bi \u0219tiu binele mai bine dec\u00e2t \u021bi-l \u0219tii tu \u0219i s\u0103-i duci s\u0103 se uite cum se \u021big\u0103nesc \u00een partaje divor\u021ba\u021bii. EXCELENT.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
\u0218i, poate c\u0103, o dat\u0103 cu ei, se duc la sala de divor\u021buri \u0219i romanticele din po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, alea cu “dac\u0103 stau \u00een cap, rotesc be\u0163e cu farfurii \u00een m\u00e2ini \u015fi hula hoops pe picioare, \u015fi mai \u015fi aplaud din urechi, oare gigel \u0103la care m\u0103 ignor\u0103 \u015fi se d\u0103 la toate c**vele o s\u0103 m\u0103 iubeasc\u0103???”. Spoiler alert: Nu.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei legat de “Ce de\u015fteapt\u0103 ai fost c\u0103 nu ai f\u0103cut-o”, o aud des. Exact de la \u0103ia care m\u0103 frecau la icre agasant c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 un tovar\u0103\u015f de via\u0163\u0103, via\u0163a e pustiu, \u015fi c\u0103 o s\u0103-mi par\u0103 r\u0103u. Cui \u00eei pare r\u0103u s\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 casa pl\u0103tit\u0103 cu chiu cu vai \u00een rate pe sec\u0163iunea de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri imobiliare, pentru finalizarea partajului? Nu mie, baby. Not f***ing mie.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei c\u00e2nd \u00eemi mai zice mama: Tu ai avut noroc \u00een via\u0163\u0103, n-ai nimerit un bou ca taic\u0103-tu.<\/div>\n
N-am nimerit un bou ca tata??? Lol. Am \u00eent\u00e2lnit boi de cel pu\u0163in o sut\u0103 de ori mai boi. Diferen\u0163a e c\u0103 eu am v\u0103zut materialul bovin de la prima interac\u0163iune \u015fi nu mi-am complicat inutil existen\u0163a. Cu unul ca tata nici m\u0103car n-a\u015f fi schimbat numere de telefon, d-ap\u0103i s\u0103 m\u0103 m\u0103rit cu el \u015fi s\u0103-i torn \u015fi plozi. \u015ei culmea, tata \u015ftie. De aceea \u00eemi vorbe\u015fte cu mai mult respect dec\u00e2t oric\u0103rei alte femei pe care o cunoa\u015fte.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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