{"id":21613,"date":"2021-04-18T19:01:28","date_gmt":"2021-04-18T16:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21613"},"modified":"2021-04-18T19:01:28","modified_gmt":"2021-04-18T16:01:28","slug":"capcana-de-scorpioni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/capcana-de-scorpioni\/","title":{"rendered":"Capcana de scorpioni"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M-a pus pe g\u00e2nduri un comentariu la articolul pe care l-am publicat zilele trecute. Dou\u0103 prietene, una bine inten\u0163ionat\u0103, care voia s\u0103 fac\u0103 rela\u0163ia de prietenie s\u0103 func\u0163ioneze, una pus\u0103 pe concuren\u021b\u0103 prost \u00een\u021beleas\u0103 \u0219i suflat to\u021bi masculii care \u00eei pl\u0103ceau celeilalte.<\/p>\n<p>Vine un domn \u0219i zice precum urmeaz\u0103:<\/p>\n<p><strong>O strategie a unor b\u0103rba\u021bi e s\u0103 intre \u00eent\u00e2i \u00een contact cu prietena mai ur\u00e2\u021bic\u0103 a \u021bintei principale, miz\u00e2nd tocmai pe invidia\/l\u0103comia\/self entitlement-ul (nu g\u0103sesc cuv\u00e2ntul bun, sorry) acesteia din urm\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Iar eu nu am de r\u0103spuns dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t: wow!<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 trecem peste suferin\u021ba \u0219i dezam\u0103girea provocate prietenei mai ur\u00e2\u021bele, peste faptul c\u0103 o manipul\u0103m cu bun\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i, pe urm\u0103, ne p***m cu jet pe sentimentele ei. Ar merita un articol de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, dar deja \u0219ti\u021bi p\u0103rerea mea despre misecuvenism, a\u0219a c\u0103 pute\u021bi considera c\u0103 l-a\u021bi citit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centrebarea care se impune \u00een cazul acestor strategi\u0219ti de mare anvergur\u0103 este: dup\u0103 ce v\u00e2nezi de fapt?<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi construie\u0219ti &#8220;tacticile&#8221; miz\u00e2nd pe caracterul infect al domni\u015foarei, ce specimene vor c\u0103dea \u00een capcana respectiv\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, gunoaiele umane.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi tot tu: de ce femeile sunt profitoare, manipulatoare \u015fi javre?<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103i guess what, Casanova: pentru c\u0103 tacticile tale sunt create special pentru acest format uman. O femeie onorabil\u0103 \u015fi de bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103 \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 te vad\u0103 drept purt\u0103tor de cromozom Y din secunda \u00een care \u015ftie c\u0103 prietena ei are sentimente pentru tine. Pentru tine, e o &#8220;ur\u00e2\u0163ic\u0103&#8221;, pentru ea, e tovar\u0103\u015fa ei de bune \u015fi rele.<\/p>\n<p>Nu po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eentinzi capcana de scorpioni, apoi s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi c\u0103 nu prinzi libelule.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 strategiile tale &#8211; \u015fi folosesc termenul \u00een mod ironic, pentru c\u0103 astea nu sunt strategii, astea-s uneltiri de joas\u0103 spe\u0163\u0103 &#8211; sunt construite s\u0103 atrag\u0103 ceea ce e mai josnic \u00een al\u0163ii, victima acestei josnicii vei fi, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, chiar tu.<\/p>\n<p>Vrei persoane bune \u00een via\u0163a ta?<\/p>\n<p>Creeaz\u0103 conjuncturi care s\u0103 fac\u0103 s\u0103 rezoneze bun\u0103tatea, generozitatea, sensibilitatea lor.<\/p>\n<p>Vrei jeguri?<\/p>\n<p>Aga\u0163\u0103-le prietenele \u015fi mizeaz\u0103 pe caracterul jegos. Dar s\u0103 nu te aud pe urm\u0103 c\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi c\u00e2nd aia te las\u0103 \u00een cucul gol la divor\u0163.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M-a pus pe g\u00e2nduri un comentariu la articolul pe care l-am publicat zilele trecute. 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