{"id":21621,"date":"2021-04-20T14:34:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-20T11:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21621"},"modified":"2021-04-20T14:34:00","modified_gmt":"2021-04-20T11:34:00","slug":"posta-redactiei-prietena-distanta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-prietena-distanta\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Prietena distant\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n

Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Bun\u0103, Lorena,<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u00ce\u021bi scriu pentru a-\u021bi povesti de dilema mea existen\u021bial\u0103 din prezent \u0219i de a vedea care este \u0219i punctul t\u0103u de vedere.<\/strong><\/div>\n
Sunt de vreo 15 ani prieten\u0103 cu o tip\u0103 super mi\u0219to, cu care eram aproape soulmate.<\/strong><\/div>\n
Genul \u0103la de BFF pe care vrei s\u0103-l ai forever l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, s\u0103 vezi cum cre\u0219te\u021bi, s\u0103 v\u0103 sus\u021bine\u021bi, s\u0103 celebra\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Problema a ap\u0103rut, clasic, \u00een momentul \u00een care ea \u0219i-a f\u0103cut un prieten \u0219i, treptat, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 ignore, s\u0103 \u00eemi r\u0103spund\u0103 mai rar la mesaje, s\u0103 m\u0103 asigure c\u0103 nimic nu s-a schimbat, doar c\u0103 e ocupat\u0103. Am \u00een\u021beles \u0219i i-am dat spa\u021biu. Apoi, ea s-a mutat temporar \u00een alt\u0103 \u021bar\u0103 (alt fus orar and co) \u0219i parc\u0103 acum are scuzele ideale de a nu mai \u021bine leg\u0103tura. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Am abordat de nenum\u0103rate ori problema de comunicare, i-am zis c\u0103 m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 se l\u0103l\u0103ie enorm pentru a r\u0103spunde la un mesaj \u0219i c\u0103 am impresia c\u0103 o face din obliga\u021bie. \u0218tie c\u0103 I’m there for her, dar parc\u0103 nu mai e a\u0219a bubbly ca \u00eenainte, nu se mai deschide, nu \u00eemi mai trimite poze din experien\u021ba ei \u00een afar\u0103, nu \u00eemi mai poveste\u0219te despre familia ei. Faza e c\u0103 nu sunt eu neap\u0103rat prea needy, \u0219i eu am un milion de lucruri de oferit (ur\u0103sc s\u0103 storc oamenii de energie). <\/strong><\/div>\n
Am impresia c\u0103 devin un vampir energetic \u0219i c\u0103 doar asta vede acum \u00een mine. Deci nu cred c\u0103 m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 r\u0103spunde mega rar, c\u00e2t c\u0103 e mega confiden\u021bial\u0103 cu chestiile ei \u0219i c\u0103 vorbim numai generalit\u0103\u021bi. Ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 mul\u021bumesc cu asta? Nu \u0219tiu, poate ai tu alt\u0103 viziune mai la rece. Merci mult, you’re doing an amazing job \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/div>\n
X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/div>\n
Tu nu pari s\u0103 remarci c\u0103 ba\u021bi degeaba la o u\u0219\u0103 care s-a \u00eenchis demult.<\/div>\n
Genul \u0103la de BFF pe care vrei s\u0103-l ai forever l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, s\u0103 vezi cum cre\u0219te\u021bi, s\u0103 v\u0103 sus\u021bine\u021bi, s\u0103 celebra\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103. –\u00a0<\/strong>\u0103sta e filmul t\u0103u interior. Dar \u0219tii ce m\u0103 surprinde pe mine de fapt?<\/div>\n
NUM\u0102RUL URIA\u0218 de persoane care sunt at\u00e2t de scufundate \u00een filmul lor interior, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu fac update deloc la realitatea de pe teren.<\/div>\n
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Valabil pentru tipii care se cramponeaz\u0103 s\u0103 at\u00e2rne de femei care le-au ar\u0103tat c\u00e2t se poate de clar c\u0103 nu sunt interesate, pentru tipele care \u00eemi descriu \u00een c\u00e2te moduri le ignor\u0103, neglijeaz\u0103, ba chiar le umile\u0219te Gigel, apoi m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 ce recomand (s\u0103 te duci \u00eenv\u00e2rtindu-te, duh!), \u0219i iat\u0103, pentru prietene care nu se prind c\u0103 nu mai sunt dorite.<\/div>\n
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Dac\u0103 fata aia voia o prietenie cu tine, te c\u0103uta. \u00ce\u0219i exprima activ interesul \u0219i \u00ce\u0218I DOREA s\u0103 comunica\u021bi.<\/div>\n
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Aici, genul t\u0103u de om \u00eemi r\u0103spunde cu: “Dar nu \u015ftii ce frumos era \u00een 1900 toamna, c\u00e2nd m\u00e2ncam \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103 Polar pe b\u0103\u0163 \u015fi eram bullied de aceea\u015fi ga\u015fc\u0103 de idio\u0163i, c\u0103rora le-am ob\u0163inut exmatricularea, moment c\u00e2nd ne-am \u00eemb\u0103tat prima oar\u0103 \u015fi am bor\u00e2t sincron. Ah, ce vremuri!”<\/div>\n
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Baby doll, aia a fost \u00een 1900 toamna, \u015fi \u015ftii care e caracteristica definitorie a lui 1900 toamna? O zic pe oltene\u015fte: Fuse \u015fi se duse.<\/div>\n
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Nu mai tr\u0103i\u0163i din amintiri, oameni buni. Nu mai trage\u0163i de cal mort, pe baza lui: “ce frumos galopa \u00een mezozoicul t\u00e2rziu”. Nu mai e de actualitate.<\/div>\n
MOVE. THE F. ON.<\/div>\n
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Vezi caii vii care galopeaz\u0103 \u00een jurul t\u0103u acum, \u015fi urc\u0103 \u00een \u015fa.<\/div>\n
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Ceea ce crezi tu c\u0103 era prietenia perfect\u0103 a fost pentru ea un mod de a-\u015fi petrece pl\u0103cut timpul cu cine s-a nimerit prin jur. Ceea ce probabil c\u0103 face \u015fi acum, cu cei care sunt \u00een jurul ei zilele astea.<\/div>\n
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Da, \u00ee\u0163i r\u0103spunde din obliga\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103 e prea la\u015f\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 pe \u015fleau: “F\u0103, cam c\u00e2t de expeditiv\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fiu, s\u0103 te prinzi c\u0103 e\u015fti istorie antic\u0103?”<\/div>\n
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Nu mai at\u00e2rna\u0163i dup\u0103 oameni care nu \u00ee\u015fi manifest\u0103 vizibil \u015fi asertiv afinitatea \u015fi bucuria de a v\u0103 avea \u00een vie\u0163ile lor.<\/div>\n
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Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/div>\n
Lorena<\/div>\n
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