{"id":21625,"date":"2021-04-21T11:18:12","date_gmt":"2021-04-21T08:18:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21625"},"modified":"2021-04-21T11:18:12","modified_gmt":"2021-04-21T08:18:12","slug":"disparuta-in-misiune","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/disparuta-in-misiune\/","title":{"rendered":"Disp\u0103ruta \u00een misiune"},"content":{"rendered":"

De c\u00e2te ori \u00eemi scrie cineva \u00een po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, apare \u0219i comentariul care \u00eemi face fitilul s\u0103 se aprind\u0103.<\/p>\n

Aten\u021bie. Nu discut persoane. Probabil c\u0103 oamenii care dau comentariul nici nu \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iesc neap\u0103rat via\u021ba conform ideilor enun\u021bate \u00een respectivul comentariu. \u0218i chiar dac\u0103 o tr\u0103iesc, e fix treaba lor.<\/p>\n

Discut idei, \u0219i modul \u00een care acestea afecteaz\u0103 oameni.<\/p>\n

Mbun.<\/p>\n

Deci, ieri, \u00een po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, o fat\u0103 mi-a scris c\u0103, de \u00eendat\u0103 ce a g\u0103sit un iubit, amica ei la cataram\u0103 s-a dat disp\u0103rut\u0103 \u00een misiune<\/a>. Hop, o alt\u0103 fat\u0103 \u00een comentarii, s-o aprobe de zor: Dar normal, acum aia are o nou\u0103 via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u0218i eu zic at\u00e2t oamenilor care au mentalitatea asta, c\u0103 prietenii sunt doar \u00eenlocuitori chineze\u0219ti pentru clipele \u00een care \u00eel cuno\u0219ti pe f\u0103t-frumos cu palo\u0219ul gros: sunte\u021bi ni\u0219te oportuni\u0219ti ordinari.<\/p>\n

Adic\u0103, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu ai p**\u0103 la c*r, sunt bune \u0219i prietenele. De cum o ai, \u00eencepi s\u0103 o arzi mega arogant, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai aere \u0219i s\u0103 te \u00eemp\u0103unezi f\u0103r\u0103 motiv. De parc\u0103 simplul fapt c\u0103 ai g\u0103sit \u0219i tu ceva de f***t ar fi ceva at\u00e2t de impresionant \u00een sine.<\/p>\n

Apoi, \u0103la le las\u0103, c\u0103 se satur\u0103 de ele, toat\u0103 ziua c\u0103lare pe capul lui. \u0218i unde nu revine prin\u021besa, \u0219i pe un ton absolut normal, ca \u0219i cum nimic nu s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat, te \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2nd ie\u0219i\u021bi. Dar \u0219ti\u021bi cum, oameni buni? De parc\u0103 nu ea s-ar fi purtat ca un om mult prea bun pentru tine cu ceva timp \u00een urm\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u0218i aici intervine partea aia a piesei mele Jet: Am pentru tine un singur secret: Jet!!<\/p>\n

Nu sunt \u00eenlocuitor artificial de p**\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba nim\u0103nui. \u0218i cine crede asta, o va suge \u00eentr-un mare mod, exact c\u00e2nd boce\u0219te \u00een pern\u0103 c\u0103 beheee, iubi nu mai e, ke m\u0103 fak \u0219i ke m\u0103 dreg.<\/p>\n

Trebuia s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la asta c\u00e2nd o ardeai superior c\u0103 ai dat \u0219i tu de un am\u0103r\u00e2t care accept\u0103 s\u0103 te \u021bin\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103 pe strad\u0103, b**ch.<\/p>\n

Poanta e urm\u0103toarea: cu c\u00e2t tu renun\u021bi la via\u021ba ta privat\u0103, la prieteni, la pasiuni personale, \u0219i devii mai mult sluga \u0103luia, cu at\u00e2t o s\u0103 devii mai previzibil\u0103 \u0219i mai needy, \u0219i \u00eel vei plictisi mai tare pe \u0103la. Cu c\u00e2t te men\u021bii ca om complet, care e cu el nu pentru c\u0103 are nevoie, ci pentru c\u0103 alege \u0219i vrea, cu at\u00e2t \u0103la o s\u0103 fie mai fericit c\u0103 exi\u0219ti \u00een via\u021ba lui.<\/p>\n

Exact de aceea, \u00een secunda \u00een care una se combin\u0103, \u0219i \u00een secunda viitoare dispare, o elimin din cercul de prieteni intimi \u0219i o trec la cuno\u0219tin\u021be, cu modificarea aferent\u0103 de protocol.<\/p>\n

Iar dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i \u0219i permite s\u0103 \u00eemi vorbeasc\u0103 de sus \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 sf\u0103tuiasc\u0103 pe vocea aia agasant\u0103 de de\u021bin\u0103toare de verdicte c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103-mi g\u0103sesc \u0219i eu pe cineva, c\u0103 via\u021ba \u00een cuplu e a\u0219a \u0219i pe dincolo, \u00eei \u0219i \u00eenchid apelul \u00een nas.<\/p>\n

Eu am fost unde e\u0219ti tu. Tu nu ai fost unde sunt eu, \u00een acest punct al celibatului asumat \u0219i voluntar.<\/p>\n

Noile vie\u0163i nu \u00eencep \u015fi nu se termin\u0103 cu gigel. Exact a\u015ftept\u0103rile astea imense \u015fi dispropor\u0163ionate, de “nou\u0103 via\u0163\u0103”, crispeaz\u0103 \u015fi alung\u0103 pretenden\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

Saaau, dac\u0103 sunt poten\u0163iali abuzatori, e tactica perfect\u0103 de a te izola.<\/p>\n

Either way, recomand s\u0103 nu arunci prietenele pe geam de cum apare iluzia iubirii. De cele mai multe ori se las\u0103 cu lacrimi \u015fi muci. \u015ei de la cine te vei a\u015ftepta s\u0103 te \u0163in\u0103 \u00een bra\u0163e \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i aduc\u0103 \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103?<\/p>\n

Exactly.<\/p>\n

De la prietene.<\/p>\n

\u015ei sunt multe oi\u0163e miloase ale Domnului care sunt dispuse s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste arogan\u0163a trecutului. Dar mai nimere\u015fti \u015fi oameni ca mine. Pe care \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103-i intereseze. Rectific: \u00eencetezi s\u0103-i interesezi.<\/p>\n

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