{"id":21631,"date":"2021-04-22T10:14:19","date_gmt":"2021-04-22T07:14:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21631"},"modified":"2021-04-22T10:14:19","modified_gmt":"2021-04-22T07:14:19","slug":"posta-redactiei-apropouri-nedorite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-apropouri-nedorite\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Apropouri nedorite"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n

Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

Bun\u0103! Apreciez foarte mult stilul t\u0103u direct \u0219i sincer de a r\u0103spunde la \u00eentreb\u0103rile cititorilor.\u00a0 De aceea apelez \u0219i eu la rubrica ta pentru a m\u0103 l\u0103muri intr-o dilema.<\/strong>
\nC\u00e2nd consideri c\u0103 e normal \u0219i firesc ca un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 aduc\u0103 discu\u021bia despre sex?<\/strong>
\n\u00cen ultima perioad\u0103 am \u00eencercat o aplica\u021bie de dating\u00a0 \u0219i observ cu dezam\u0103gire ca to\u021bi se \u00eenv\u00e2rt \u00een jurul acestui subiect \u00eenc\u0103 din primele r\u00e2nduri. Totu\u0219i, am cunoscut un tip de 45 de ani, divor\u021bat, care p\u0103rea ini\u021bial diferit de restul. P\u0103rea un tip de\u0219tept, mult peste cei cu care am \u00eencercat s\u0103 creez o conexiune. Asta m-a \u0219i atras de fapt. Comunicam foarte bine, p\u0103rea c\u0103 avem interese comune.<\/span><\/strong>
\nProblema e c\u0103, dup\u0103 vreo 3 zile de vorbit online, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 apropouri cu tent\u0103 sexual\u0103. Am \u00eencercat ini\u021bial s\u0103<\/span>-i spun \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 dragu\u021b\u0103 ca \u00eenc\u0103 n-am ajuns la nivelul la care s\u0103 purt\u0103m discu\u021bia \u00een direc\u021bia aceea.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nu m\u0103 \u00een\u021belege gre\u0219it, n-am o problem\u0103 cu asta, nu-s vreo pudic\u0103, dar cred c\u0103 o astfel de discu\u021bie vine dup\u0103 ce ajungi s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti \u00een real life, c\u00e2nd rela\u021bia \u00eencepe s\u0103 creasc\u0103.<\/span><\/strong>
\nC\u00e2nd am v\u0103zut c\u0103 tot insist\u0103 pe subiect, ne\u021bin\u00e2nd cont de ce spun, am ales s\u0103-l blochez \u00een aplica\u021bia respectiv\u0103<\/span>. Mi s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103-mi pierd timpul, nefiind genul de b\u0103rbat pe care mi-l doresc al\u0103turi.<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
Ce crezi, de ce aleg b\u0103rba\u021bii o abordare de acest fel sau sunt eu exagerat\u0103 \u0219i problema e la mine?<\/span><\/strong>
\nMul\u021bumesc frumos.<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n
X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/div>\n
Tu ai dreptul s\u0103-\u021bi dore\u0219ti ce abordare vrei tu. Gre\u0219eala pe care ai f\u0103cut-o, cu tipul de rela\u021bie pe care-l dore\u0219ti, e s\u0103 te bagi pe un app de dating. Hai s\u0103 fiu brutal de onest\u0103: E ca \u0219i cum un gigel s-ar duce la bordel s\u0103 caute femeia pe care s-o \u021bin\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/div>\n
Aplica\u021biile de dating sunt folosite de b\u0103rba\u021bi exclusiv \u00een ideea de a g\u0103si ceva de f*** repede \u0219i gratis. De aceea, \u0103ia care te-au contactat trec direct la subiect. La subiectul din mintea lor.<\/div>\n
Apoi, mai e de men\u021bionat un fapt deloc neglijabil. B\u0103rba\u021bii care nu-s ur\u00e2\u021bi precum \u00eemprumutul nerambursabil \u0219i pro\u0219ti ca noaptea f\u0103r\u0103 lun\u0103, cei cu care ai \u0219anse s\u0103 construie\u0219ti ceva, \u00ee\u0219i g\u0103sesc partenere \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103 relativ u\u0219or. Cei care aga\u021b\u0103 pe net sunt cei pe care nici ur\u00e2ta clasei sau a companiei nu i-ar f**e.<\/div>\n
Taman de aceea, \u00een loc s\u0103 pierzi timp \u0219i energie pe o aplica\u021bie de dating, aka club de labe triste de zero valoare, mai bine f\u0103 voluntariat la cauza ta nobil\u0103 preferat\u0103. \u0218i acolo vei \u00eent\u00e2lni b\u0103rba\u021bi pe care nu \u00eei ghideaz\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd nevoia de a co\u021b\u0103i \u0219i ei ceva, ci de a schimba lumea \u00een bine.<\/div>\n
\u0218i nu, nu ai de ce s\u0103 tolerezi apropouri nes\u0103rate, dac\u0103 ai spus clar c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu ai ajuns \u00een acel punct. Cine nu \u021bine cont c\u00e2nd tu ai spus “nu” \u015fi trece peste asta ca \u015fi cum refuzul nu ar fi existat nu te respect\u0103 \u015fi trebuie s\u0103 \u00eencaseze consecin\u021bele.<\/div>\n
Sigur, Rom\u00e2nia e \u00een continuare o \u0163ar\u0103 predominant misogin\u0103, cu nenum\u0103rate animale proaste \u0219i agresive care nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 proceseze un “nu”. Taman de aceea recomand block mult \u015fi des, f\u0103r\u0103 ezit\u0103ri, f\u0103r\u0103 “dar dac\u0103” \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 “dar poate fac eu ceva gre\u015fit”.<\/div>\n
Nu, boss, e treaba lor s\u0103 se educe c\u0103 “nu” e “nu”, nu a ta s\u0103 explici lung \u015fi redundant acela\u015fi lucru de zece ori, pentru c\u0103 ei sunt b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap.<\/div>\n
\u015ei \u0163ine minte: aplica\u0163iile de dating sunt cancer pur. Stay away.<\/div>\n
Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/div>\n
Lorena.<\/div>\n
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