\u015ei aici nu m\u0103 refer la poz\u0103 ca fotografie, ci la poz\u0103 ca substantivul verbului “a poza”, adic\u0103 a juca un rol care, crezi tu, te face s\u0103 pari interesant.<\/p>\n
E dreptul oricui s\u0103 mimeze ce vrea online. \u015ei dac\u0103 e o re\u0163ea ca TikTok \u015fi Instagram, al c\u0103ror rol e s\u0103 creeze entertainment pur, libertatea e absolut\u0103. Dar dac\u0103 e o re\u0163ea unde se presupune c\u0103-\u0163i creezi conexiuni, \u015fi \u00een mod ideal acestea se bazeaz\u0103 pe o tentativ\u0103 de autenticitate, personajele pe care \u015fi le construiesc unii \u015fi al\u0163ii sunt garan\u0163ia faptului c\u0103 n-ai cu cine.<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 un astfel de personaj e greu de adus \u015fi de men\u0163inut \u00een offline. Mai ales \u00een intimitate.<\/p>\n
Mul\u0163i folosesc dating appul doar pentru ego\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Am avut 46 de matchuri azi. Wow, ok. \u015ei? \u015ei nimic, doar m\u0103 l\u0103udam cu succesul meu la sexul opus.<\/p>\n Mi se pare mie c\u0103, dac\u0103 ai nevoie de genul \u0103sta de validare s\u0103 te sim\u0163i bine, mai degrab\u0103 ai de lucrat la respectul t\u0103u fa\u0163\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103.<\/p>\n Dating appul te va face s\u0103 nu mai po\u0163i lua \u00een serios sexul opus (sau acela\u015fi, dac\u0103 a\u015fa \u0163i-ai setat preferin\u0163ele) <\/strong><\/p>\n \u015ei \u00een offline, oamenii cei mai agasan\u0163i, cei mai insisten\u0163i, cei de care nu po\u0163i respira sunt pro\u015ftii g\u0103l\u0103gio\u015fi. Valabil \u015fi la b\u0103rba\u0163i, \u015fi la femei. A\u015fa \u015fi pe dating apps. Cei care te f**t necru\u0163\u0103tor la icre \u015fi te scot magistral din s\u0103rite sunt \u0103ia c\u0103rora le at\u00e2rn\u0103 bala \u00een col\u0163ul gurii de pro\u015fti. \u015ei, chit c\u0103 tu \u015ftii ra\u0163ional c\u0103 nu toat\u0103 lumea e a\u015fa, emo\u0163ional nu \u00ee\u0163i po\u0163i controla un nivel de cringe de cum prime\u015fti un mesaj cu “bun\u0103”. “ba m\u0103-ta!”<\/p>\n Dating appul te expune tuturor obsesiilor diver\u015filor nef***<\/strong><\/p>\n Apoi, sunt psihopa\u0163ii gre\u0163o\u015fi erotomani. Bine, \u0103\u015ftia sunt pe toate re\u0163elele, \u00een schimb, pe aplica\u0163iile de dating au o libertate mult mai mare de ac\u0163iune. \u015ei unde nu \u00eencep s\u0103 te pistoneze cu aluzii, cu insinu\u0103ri, cu tot bagajul de sc\u00e2rbo\u015fenii.<\/p>\n Nu, merci. Dac\u0103 voiam s\u0103 aud \u015fi s\u0103 primesc de-astea, \u00eemi alegeam o meserie din zona de sex work \u015fi m\u0103car eram pl\u0103tit\u0103 la minut.<\/p>\n \u015ei ce e mai grav,\u00a0armonia online nu garanteaz\u0103 chimie offline<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cencepi s\u0103 conversezi cu cineva. Nu e prost, nu e gre\u0163os, are spirit, are decen\u0163\u0103 omeneasc\u0103, are pasiuni comune cu ale tale. Totul pare s\u0103 fie frumos. Apoi, decide\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 vede\u0163i \u00een via\u0163a real\u0103. \u015ei, cumva, nu se leag\u0103 nimic. Pentru c\u0103 nu apare atrac\u0163ie reciproc\u0103.<\/p>\n At\u00e2t b\u0103rba\u0163ii, c\u00e2t \u015fi femeile se mint intens c\u0103 exist\u0103 “trucuri de a genera atrac\u0163ie”. Ambele sexe plimb\u0103 diverse manuale de seduc\u0163ie, la numai 200 de dolari superoferta.<\/p>\n Realitatea este c\u0103 nu po\u0163i induce prin trucuri atrac\u0163ie cuiva, a\u015fa cum Maricica din Coc\u00e2rla\u0163i nu te poate convinge prin trucuri c\u0103 e Antonia. Trucurile pot doar s\u0103 sperie \u015fi s\u0103 smulg\u0103 submisivitate pasiv\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenfrico\u015fat\u0103 de la oamenii complexa\u0163i, sau s\u0103 irite \u015fi s\u0103 sc\u00e2rbeasc\u0103 oamenii siguri de ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Internetul e un loc minunat pentru multe. E un excelent loc pentru a te documenta, pentru a te distra \u015fi pentru a face bani. Dar c\u00e2nd vine vorba de ale amorului, oh well: \u0163ine-te offline.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n *** <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “De ceeee nu \u00eemi g\u0103sesc un iubit”, boce\u015fte c\u00e2te o domni\u015foar\u0103 cu ochi \u00eence\u0163o\u015fa\u0163i. “Am cont pe toate appurile de dating inventate vreodat\u0103. 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