{"id":21851,"date":"2021-06-05T14:59:21","date_gmt":"2021-06-05T11:59:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21851"},"modified":"2021-06-05T14:59:21","modified_gmt":"2021-06-05T11:59:21","slug":"parentingul-pe-vremea-noastra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/parentingul-pe-vremea-noastra\/","title":{"rendered":"Parentingul pe vremea noastr\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>B\u00e2ntuiam azi pe social media \u0219i am dat cu ochii de chestia asta.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21852\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/lol.jpg?resize=700%2C875&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"875\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/lol.jpg?w=768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/lol.jpg?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/lol.jpg?resize=120%2C150&amp;ssl=1 120w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u0218i mi-a venit ideea s\u0103 compar cu cum a fost experien\u021ba mea de copil.<\/p>\n<p>Ba vreau zece pe linie, \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii, dac\u0103 tot \u00ee\u021bi pun p\u00e2ine pe mas\u0103, justific\u0103 \u0219i tu cu ceva \u00een societate c\u0103 merit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ba s\u0103 scrii frumos, s\u0103 nu ne faci de ru\u0219ine c\u0103 ai dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini st\u00e2ngi.<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 \u0219i alt loc, \u00een afar\u0103 de cel mai bun din clas\u0103? Dar s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci \u00ee\u021bi place?<\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 nu dea dracu s\u0103 nu \u0219tii lec\u021bia. Ai serviciu, ca mine? Nu. Lec\u021bia e serviciul t\u0103u!<\/p>\n<p>Corect, s\u0103 nu arate ca scos din cutie, c\u0103 asta ar presupune s\u0103-i cump\u0103r haine, nu s\u0103 mo\u0219teneasc\u0103 de la veri\u0219ori.<\/p>\n<p>Ba s\u0103 pun\u0103 m\u00e2na s\u0103 aduc\u0103 toate medaliile. S\u0103 se oftice alte c***e c\u0103 a mea e mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t a lor.<\/p>\n<p>Nu ai cum s\u0103 aduci medalii dac\u0103 nu c\u00e2\u0219tigi concursuri. Su\u0103ri, not su\u0103ri.<\/p>\n<p>Ba f\u0103-le corect, c\u0103 altfel g\u0103sesc eu metode s\u0103-\u021bi par\u0103 r\u0103u \u0219i sunt inventiv\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Cine nu coloreaz\u0103 perfect \u00een contur e prost \u0219i degeaba. Vezi linia, te opre\u0219ti acolo. E greu?<\/p>\n<p>Cui plm \u00eei pas\u0103 de emo\u021biile copilului? Ce, \u0103la are emo\u021bii? Dac\u0103 pl\u00e2nge, \u00eel mai batem o dat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 pl\u00e2nge.<\/p>\n<p>Cum s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00een largul lui? S\u0103 se simt\u0103 c\u00e2t mai \u00een str\u00e2mtul lui, c\u0103 altfel nu execut\u0103 ordine ca o ma\u0219in\u0103rie.<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 moar\u0103 de un atac de anxietate anticip\u00e2nd consecin\u021bele. Iar dac\u0103 n-a gre\u0219it, invent\u0103m noi o gre\u0219eal\u0103, nu-i problem\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 \u0219tie tot, s\u0103 aib\u0103 mereu cel mai bun r\u0103spuns (&#8220;da&#8221;, &#8220;da&#8221; \u015fi &#8220;da&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 tac\u0103 \u00een col\u0163. Cum s\u0103 m\u0103 contrazic\u0103? \u00cei rup urechile \u015fi \u00eei fac friptur\u0103 din ele.<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 exact ce \u00eei spun EU s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, pentru c\u0103 e mic, prost \u015fi ideile lui nu conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Respect? Copilul meu?? Ahahaha. Respectul vine o dat\u0103 cu primul flutura\u015f de salariu, p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, copilul s\u0103 tac\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 asculte, punct.<\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>Care v\u0103 recunoa\u015fte\u0163i \u00een modelul de parenting din inspira\u0163ionalul \u0103sta, \u015fi care \u00een amintirile mele din copil\u0103rie?<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">***<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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