{"id":21857,"date":"2021-06-08T09:04:59","date_gmt":"2021-06-08T06:04:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21857"},"modified":"2021-06-08T09:05:40","modified_gmt":"2021-06-08T06:05:40","slug":"posta-redactiei-iubi-si-igiena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-iubi-si-igiena\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Iubi \u0219i igiena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n

Mesajul de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n

Am o problem\u0103 mai delicat\u0103. Nu o pot discuta cu cunoscu\u021bii, c\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 judece, \u0219i o s\u0103 m\u0103 cread\u0103 o b\u00e2rfitoare, de aceea prefer s\u0103-\u021bi scriu anonim, pentru c\u0103 am observat c\u0103 tu nu dai niciodat\u0103 identitatea celor din Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, \u0219i unii chiar au probleme jenante.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dup\u0103 mul\u021bi, foarte mul\u021bi ani de singur\u0103tate \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi neserio\u0219i, care f\u0103ceau ghosting dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva dates, acum am un tip care m\u0103 place, m\u0103 caut\u0103, e deschis s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre copii \u0219i m\u0103 \u00een\u021belege.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Problema e c\u0103 nu \u00eei prea place s\u0103 fac\u0103 baie. Are ni\u0219te teorii c\u0103 facem baie prea des, c\u0103 e s\u0103n\u0103tos o dat\u0103 la c\u00e2teva zile \u0219i c\u0103 modul \u00een care tr\u0103im noi e o risip\u0103. \u0218i e genul cu un miros corporal foarte puternic.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Zilele astea am \u0219i f\u0103cut o infec\u021bie urinar\u0103 destul de ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u0219i cred c\u0103 tot din cauza igienei lui, de\u0219i el spune c\u0103 e din cauza b\u0103ilor dese, c\u0103 \u00eemi deranjeaz\u0103 echilibrul bacterian.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ce s\u0103 fac, Lorena? Nu vreau s\u0103-mi scrii s\u0103 m\u0103 despart de el, pentru c\u0103 sunt s\u0103tul\u0103 de singur\u0103tate ca de mere p\u0103dure\u021be \u0219i nu mai suport teroarea pe care o tr\u0103ie\u0219te o femeie singur\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu \u0219tie dac\u0103 noul tip o s\u0103 sune dup\u0103 primul date sau nu. Vreau doar s\u0103-l conving s\u0103 se spele.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mul\u021bumesc,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

X.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/div>\n
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Spune-mi, te rog, c\u0103 acest mail e un trolaj. Te rog din suflet, spune-mi c\u0103 \u00eemi testezi sim\u021bul umorului. Nu cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 o femeie dispus\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex cu un b\u0103rbat care pute doar pentru a evita singur\u0103tatea. Nu cred c\u0103 exist\u0103 o femeie dispus\u0103 s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste o infec\u021bie urinar\u0103 cauzat\u0103 de igiena precar\u0103 a partenerului,\u00a0 doar pentru c\u0103 are at\u00e2t de pu\u021bin respect fa\u021b\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103.<\/div>\n
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Nici nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi bat capul s\u0103 construiesc o strategie elaborat\u0103 prin care s\u0103 trimi\u021bi un jegos la du\u0219. M\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc cum a\u015f pune eu delicat problema. Iat\u0103 cum. “Miro\u015fi ca un tomberon infestat, spal\u0103-te \u00een plm, sau o termin\u0103m acum, aici” e cea mai delicat\u0103 formulare. Pentru cele nedelicate, m\u0103 mai baneaz\u0103 Facebook o lun\u0103, a\u015fa c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 ab\u0163in.<\/div>\n
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Dar ca regul\u0103 general\u0103, dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat VREA s\u0103 fac\u0103 un lucru pe care i-l ceri, o face c\u00e2nd o ceri prima oar\u0103. Dac\u0103 se face c\u0103 n-aude, sau chiar nu aude, pentru c\u0103 nu te ascult\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i r\u0103ce\u015fti gura – \u015fi nu numai, din c\u00e2te se pare, lol – degeaba.<\/div>\n
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O s\u0103-\u0163i scriu exact ce nu vrei s\u0103 auzi, \u015fi anume: d\u0103-l \u00een mor\u0163ii lui. \u00cenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i pre\u0163uie\u015fti mai bine propria via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi intimitate. Prive\u015fte problema \u015fi practic: \u00een timp ce tu te tratezi cu whatever unguent \u0163i-a dat medicul, undeva b\u00e2ntuie liber un b\u0103rbat care face du\u015f diminea\u0163a \u015fi seara, iar tu \u00eel pierzi pentru c\u0103 at\u00e2rni de un \u00eempu\u0163it.<\/div>\n
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WTF?<\/div>\n
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Nu, tind s\u0103 cred c\u0103 e un trolaj. Nimeni nu accept\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 pipi cu \u0163epi dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni pentru c\u0103-i e fric\u0103 s\u0103 doarm\u0103 singuric\u0103.<\/div>\n
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Hai c\u0103 se poate mai bine,<\/div>\n
Lorena.<\/div>\n
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