{"id":21877,"date":"2021-06-14T13:27:21","date_gmt":"2021-06-14T10:27:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21877"},"modified":"2021-06-14T13:33:55","modified_gmt":"2021-06-14T10:33:55","slug":"bunatatea-innascuta-a-femeii-romance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/bunatatea-innascuta-a-femeii-romance\/","title":{"rendered":"Bun\u0103tatea \u00eenn\u0103scut\u0103 a femeii rom\u00e2nce"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u015eti\u0163i \u015ftirile acelea abominabile de tabloid? Vai, Ixuleasca a fost una dintre cele mai frumoase femei, uite cum a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit \u015fi cum s-a ur\u00e2\u0163it!<\/p>\n

Mie \u00eemi \u00eentorc stomacul pe dos. Mi se par o mizerie incalificabil\u0103, care exploateaz\u0103 pentru trafic de proast\u0103 calitate un proces natural – \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirea unui om.<\/p>\n

E un lucru care se repet\u0103 la facultatea de jurnalism: \u0219tire nu e atunci c\u00e2nd un c\u00e2ine mu\u0219c\u0103 un om – doh! – ci atunci c\u00e2nd un om mu\u0219c\u0103 un c\u00e2ine. \u00cemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirea omului, chiar \u0219i a vedetelor superfrumoase, e chiar mai anticipabil\u0103, previzibil\u0103 \u0219i normal\u0103 dec\u00e2t un c\u00e2ine care mu\u0219c\u0103 un om. De mu\u0219c\u0103tura c\u00e2inelui te mai aperi, dac\u0103 nu-l provoci. De trecerea timpului, nu ai cum.<\/p>\n

\u00centr-o zi, \u0219i eu, \u0219i voi, o s\u0103 m\u0103tur\u0103m curtea cu \u021b\u00e2\u021bele \u0219i o s\u0103 avem mai mult acid hialuronic \u00een noi dec\u00e2t s\u00e2nge, \u0219i e mersul natural al lucrurilor, lol. (Aia cu acidul hialuronic e o glum\u0103, iar dac\u0103 te apuci s\u0103 aberezi a pova\u021b\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 r\u00e2zi de glum\u0103, te bag \u00een mizda p\u0103-tii. Da, trebuie s\u0103 marchez unde sunt glumele, pentru c\u0103 mul\u021bi da\u021bi \u00een gropi de pro\u0219ti. Dac\u0103 ai r\u00e2s din prima \u0219i nu ai sim\u021bit impulsul s\u0103 m\u0103 freci la cap cu o lec\u021bioar\u0103, ignor\u0103 aceast\u0103 parantez\u0103.)<\/p>\n

Totodat\u0103, multe femei, mai ales cele care au fost foarte frumoase \u00een tinere\u021be, \u0219i au luat de bun\u0103 educa\u021bia tradi\u021bional\u0103 patriarhal\u0103, aceea care spune c\u0103 fizicul e calitatea primordial\u0103 a femeii, \u0219i dac\u0103 nu mai ar\u0103\u021bi ca o p\u0103pu\u0219ic\u0103 Barbie, nu mai valorezi nimic \u0219i e\u0219ti de aruncat \u00een lada cu rebuturi, multe femei, cum spuneam, sufer\u0103 cumplit din cauza faptului c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i pierd \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219area, cad \u00een diverse depresii \u0219i tulbur\u0103ri. Bunic\u0103-mea, de exemplu, nu a ie\u0219it din cas\u0103 de la 50 de ani \u00een sus, s\u0103 n-o vad\u0103 oamenii cum a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit. Atunci, copil fiind, eram like “ok, deci dup\u0103 50 de ani nu se iese din cas\u0103, dac\u0103 nu mai e\u015fti frumoas\u0103”. Acum sunt like WTF??? De c\u00e2nd e valoarea mea de om stabilit\u0103 de forma \u0163\u00e2\u0163elor? Pot s\u0103 m\u0103tur curtea cu ele, ce am \u00een cap nu se schimb\u0103, so, cui nu-i place sora voastr\u0103 Lorena, s\u0103 se uite la alte madame \u015fi mademoazele, sau chiar la al\u0163i monsieuri, c\u0103 aici suntem pe diversitate. \u015ei punct.<\/p>\n

Dar nu toat\u0103 lumea de\u0163ine nivelul meu de rupere profund\u0103 \u00een pxl\u0103, drept care, pentru mul\u0163i, \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirea ESTE o tragedie cumplit\u0103, mai ales c\u0103 e ireversibil\u0103, \u015fi e la modul: Am o singur\u0103 via\u0163\u0103, \u015fi nu mi-a r\u0103mas nimic din ea.<\/p>\n

Imagina\u0163i-v\u0103 cum vine pentru ace\u015fti oameni s\u0103 fie expu\u015fi, ar\u0103ta\u0163i public cu degetul, la modul: “Uite cum s-a ur\u00e2\u0163it cutare”. \u015ei al\u0163i oameni pro\u015fti \u015fi r\u0103i \u00een comentarii: “\u0102h\u0103h\u0103, da’ chiar a\u015faaa. Vasilico, te-ai dat dreq, f\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103. Te caut\u0103 moartea acas\u0103, vai de labiile tale ofilite ca salata st\u0103tut\u0103.”<\/p>\n

Mbun.<\/p>\n

Nu dau link la \u015ftire, pentru c\u0103\u00a0 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 trimit trafic la un clickbait de joas\u0103 spe\u0163\u0103. Explic doar de ce e de kkt, de ce umilin\u0163a aceea public\u0103 e gratuit\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 sens, \u015fi de ce shamingul pe baz\u0103 de v\u00e2rst\u0103 e o tic\u0103lo\u015fie ordinar\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dau \u00eens\u0103 print screen cu reac\u0163iile cititoarelor. Care mi-au f\u0103cut ziua minunat\u0103.<\/p>\n

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\u015ei tot a\u015fa, \u00een jos.
\nModul \u00een care fetele mele au refuzat s\u0103 alimenteze age shamingul \u015fi au luat atitudine fa\u0163\u0103 de \u015ftirist mi-a luminat inima.
\nPentru c\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 creezi o lume mai bun\u0103 pentru femei dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 refuzi s\u0103 intri \u00een ac\u0163iuni de bullying fa\u0163\u0103 de femei. Mai ales pe criterii ca v\u00e2rsta, frumuse\u0163ea fizic\u0103 sau modul \u00een care se \u00eembrac\u0103, lucruri care nu te influen\u0163eaz\u0103 direct cu nimic. Da, dac\u0103 e prim\u0103ri\u0163\u0103 \u015fi fur\u0103 banii din buget cump\u0103r\u00e2nd panselu\u0163e la 10.000 de euro bucata, o \u00eenjur\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103. Dac\u0103 a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit, are cearc\u0103ne, riduri \u015fi gu\u015f\u0103, e fix problema ei personal\u0103 \u015fi nu ne angaj\u0103m \u00een a o degrada uman, pentru c\u0103 e sub demnitatea noastr\u0103 \u015fi putem mai mult.<\/p>\n

Bravo, fetelor. Respect!<\/p>\n

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