{"id":21889,"date":"2021-06-15T12:40:04","date_gmt":"2021-06-15T09:40:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21889"},"modified":"2021-06-15T12:40:04","modified_gmt":"2021-06-15T09:40:04","slug":"nevoia-unei-noi-legi-antiviol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nevoia-unei-noi-legi-antiviol\/","title":{"rendered":"Nevoia unei noi legi antiviol"},"content":{"rendered":"

Exist\u0103 un precedent periculos \u00een tribunalele rom\u00e2ne\u0219ti. \u0218i anume: violatorii adul\u021bi care abuzeaz\u0103 de feti\u021be de v\u00e2rste foarte fragede, 10, 11, 12, 13 ani, \u0219i judec\u0103tori care trateaz\u0103 aceste abuzuri drept acte sexuale reciproc consim\u021bite.<\/p>\n

De minore.<\/p>\n

Drept care, indivizii scap\u0103 ieftin, cu pedepse minore \u0219i condamn\u0103ri cu suspendare,<\/p>\n

S\u0103 ne fie clar: la aceste v\u00e2rste, nici un copil nu-\u0219i dore\u0219te sex. Corpul lui nu e preg\u0103tit de asta, mintea lui nu e preg\u0103tit\u0103 de asta, \u0219i adeseori, nici nu sunt con\u0219tien\u021bi de consecin\u021be.<\/p>\n

Ce-\u0219i doresc de fapt minorii care ajung s\u0103 se ofere pe tav\u0103 la astfel de v\u00e2rste sunt: iubire p\u0103rinteasc\u0103 (ade multe ori deficitar\u0103, cu p\u0103rin\u021bi absen\u021bi, alcoolici, sau cu diverse probleme psihice nediagnosticate), sentimentul c\u0103 cineva are grij\u0103 de ei \u0219i, da, \u00eendeplinirea nevoilor materiale.<\/p>\n

Pe care mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi le ignor\u0103. Sau fa\u021b\u0103 de care \u00eel iau \u00een bra\u021be pe eternul “nu am”.<\/p>\n

Lipsa iubirii \u015fi a banilor vulnerabilizeaz\u0103 minorii fa\u0163\u0103 de groomeri, fa\u0163\u0103 de pedofili, fa\u0163\u0103 de to\u0163i lihni\u0163ii sexual, iar educa\u0163ia tradi\u0163ional\u0103 inept\u0103, care-i \u0163ine crampona\u0163i \u00eentr-o stare de ignoran\u0163\u0103, refuzul tuturor retrograzilor pro\u015fti ca noaptea s\u0103 permit\u0103 orele de educa\u0163ie sexual\u0103 care ar putea avea o component\u0103 de preven\u0163ie, \u00eei face victime sigure.<\/p>\n

Singurul motiv pentru care sora voastr\u0103 Lorena nu a fost abuzat\u0103 sexual la 12 ani era faptul c\u0103 era obez\u0103 ca un tanc sovietic \u015fi nu au existat pretenden\u0163i. \u00cen rest, absen\u0163a oric\u0103rei forme de grij\u0103 \u015fi ignoran\u0163a ar fi f\u0103cut-o victima perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n

Mbun.<\/p>\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 nevoia educ\u0103rii maselor s\u0103 nu mai toarne copii de care nu pot avea grij\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103 se limiteze la c\u00e2\u0163i pot cre\u015fte \u00een mod responsabil (iar dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e “nici m\u0103car unul”, \u00ee\u0163i asumi asta \u015fi stai ne\u00eempuiat, oricum planeta e suprapopulat\u0103 \u015fi resursele, abuzate \u00een exces), mai e nevoie de \u00een\u0103sprirea legilor antiviol.<\/p>\n

\u015ei vreau s\u0103 sus\u0163in campania Declic pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un minor de 12, 13, 14 ani, disperat dup\u0103 iubire \u015fi grij\u0103, nu are maturitatea necesar\u0103 s\u0103 consimt\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex. Nu are discern\u0103m\u00e2ntul format, prin urmare, chiar dac\u0103 se poart\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod care, aparent, \u00eei aduce resursele de care nu beneficiaz\u0103 acas\u0103, e treaba adultului s\u0103 fie ra\u0163ional \u015fi cu capul pe umeri \u015fi s\u0103 spun\u0103 “no way”.<\/p>\n

\u015ei unicul mod de a \u00eel face pe adultul din ecua\u0163ie con\u015ftient de responsabilitatea lui e prin calificarea ca viol a oric\u0103rei activit\u0103\u0163i sexuale cu o persoan\u0103 care s\u0103 aib\u0103 mai pu\u0163in de 16 ani. Indiferent dac\u0103 minorul manifest\u0103 disponibilitate, sau chiar ini\u0163iativ\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een cazul minorului, nu e vorba de dorin\u0163a de a face sex, ci de multe alte nevoi ne\u00eendeplinite, iar sexul e doar o form\u0103 de tranzac\u0163ie prin care minorul \u00ee\u015fi \u00eendepline\u015fte numitele nevoi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 nu punctez cazurile \u00een care chiar p\u0103rin\u0163ii sunt aceia care-l v\u00e2nd, pentru beneficii materiale. care le revin lor, nu lui.<\/p>\n

V\u0103 invit s\u0103 semna\u0163i \u015fi voi.<\/p>\n

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