{"id":21924,"date":"2021-06-20T10:27:15","date_gmt":"2021-06-20T07:27:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=21924"},"modified":"2021-06-20T10:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-06-20T07:27:15","slug":"nu-ma-innebuni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-ma-innebuni\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu m\u0103 \u00eennebuni&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2teodat\u0103, Facebook \u00eemi scoate \u00een cale pagini. Pagini care m\u0103 fac s\u0103 alerg dup\u0103 cutia de Emetix. De exemplu:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-21925\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/dafuq.jpg?resize=700%2C866&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"866\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/dafuq.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/dafuq.jpg?resize=242%2C300&amp;ssl=1 242w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/dafuq.jpg?resize=121%2C150&amp;ssl=1 121w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cu alte cuvinte, o fotografie superb\u0103. Poza \u00een care un b\u0103iat t\u00e2n\u0103r, cu via\u021ba \u00eenainte, pleac\u0103 la r\u0103zboi, s\u0103 fie carne de tun pentru ambi\u021biile altora. O comdamn\u0103 pe fata de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el la singur\u0103tate \u0219i a\u0219teptare, la o via\u021b\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 la condi\u021bional-optativ, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul improbabil \u00een care se \u00eentoarce. Dac\u0103 se \u00eentoarce. Dac\u0103 nu, nasol, c\u0103 pe vremurile alea, sau te m\u0103ritai de t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, sau erai o ratat\u0103, \u0219i nu-\u021bi permiteai din punct de vedere social luxul de a-i fi loial\u0103 unuia.<\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 ni\u0219te idio\u021bi aleg s\u0103 ridice \u00een sl\u0103vi r\u0103zboiul \u0219i vie\u021bile de singur\u0103tate, traum\u0103 \u0219i suferin\u021b\u0103 pe care le aducea, mi se pare absolut, dar absolut inadmisibil \u0219i o jignire la adresa bunului sim\u021b.<\/p>\n<p>SPER ca timpurile de genul \u0103sta s\u0103 fi disp\u0103rut \u0219i s\u0103 nu le mai tr\u0103im niciodat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i desigur, ploaie de idio\u021bi \u00een comentarii: Da, pe atunci b\u0103rba\u021bii erau b\u0103rba\u021bi, nu se pensau \u0219i nu se d\u0103deau cu crem\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Idio\u021bi \u0219i idioate \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, subliniez. Idio\u021bi \u0219i idioate care probabil c\u0103 au copii. \u0218i nu se g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103 e mai ok s\u0103 ai copilul viu \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tos, oric\u00e2t de pensat \u0219i aranjat ar fi, dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i pl\u00e2ngi pe morm\u00e2nt. Exact cum Funeriu,\u00a0 tat\u0103 de fat\u0103 de 17 ani, abereaz\u0103 cum fetele de 17 ani ar trebui s\u0103 fie m\u0103micu\u021be, lipsite de putere economic\u0103, la dispozi\u021bia \u0219i \u00een b\u0103taia pumnilor gigelului care le-a cump\u0103rat de la ta\u021bii lor, nu oameni liberi care s\u0103 bea ce cafea vor \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i aleag\u0103 destina\u021bia de concediu.<\/p>\n<p>Mor pe propaganda asta ruseasc\u0103 infect\u0103, \u0219i pe societatea extrem de toxic\u0103, de ostil\u0103 \u0219i de abuziv\u0103 pentru femei pe care \u00eencearc\u0103 ea s-o aduc\u0103 \u00eenapoi.<\/p>\n<p>Nu v\u0103d nimic special \u00een aceast\u0103 imagine. Doar dou\u0103 vie\u021bi sacrificate f\u0103r\u0103 nici o miz\u0103. Doi oameni pe care presiunea social\u0103 \u00eei condamn\u0103 \u00een moduri diferite.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e2n\u0103 una-alta, cea mai bun\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 pe care o putem tr\u0103i este cea de ACUM. C\u00e2nd po\u021bi, ca femeie, s\u0103 nu te m\u0103ri\u021bi dac\u0103 nu vrei, c\u00e2nd po\u021bi s\u0103 nu ai copii dac\u0103 nu te define\u0219te maternitatea, s\u0103 bei o cafea unde vrei tu \u0219i cu cine vrei tu \u0219i s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103tore\u0219ti unde vrei tu \u0219i cu cine vrei tu. C\u00e2nd, po\u021bi, ca b\u0103rbat, s\u0103 declari c\u0103 nu te intereseaz\u0103 conflictele armate ale altora, \u0219i nu se a\u0219teapt\u0103 nimeni s\u0103 mori la 25 de ani de un glon\u021b, sau s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i mutilat pe via\u021b\u0103, povar\u0103 \u0219i pentru tine \u00eensu\u021bi, \u0219i pentru al\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p>Nu l\u0103sa\u021bi nostalgiile tembele s\u0103 v\u0103 transforme \u00een mas\u0103 de manevr\u0103.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">***<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577 jetpack-lazy-image jetpack-lazy-image--handled\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" data-lazy-loaded=\"1\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u015fi\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0sau pe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2teodat\u0103, Facebook \u00eemi scoate \u00een cale pagini. Pagini care m\u0103 fac s\u0103 alerg dup\u0103 cutia de Emetix. De exemplu: Cu alte cuvinte, o fotografie&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":18634,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21924","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/angryemo.jpg?fit=1203%2C834&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21924","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21924"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21924\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21927,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21924\/revisions\/21927"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18634"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21924"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21924"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21924"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}