Te urm\u0103resc de mul\u0163i ani, pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti printre cele mai vizibile persoane publice queer din Rom\u00e2nia \u015fi \u00eemi place cum \u00ee\u0163i asumi asta. Dar exact pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti o persoan\u0103 public\u0103 queer, vreau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i scriu despre problemele mele cu identitatea mea \u015fi cu a\u015fa-numita comunitate LGBT din Rom\u00e2nia. <\/strong><\/p>\n Sunt b\u0103iat, am 22 de ani, sunt gay, \u015fi am \u00eencercat s\u0103 fac voluntariat pentru c\u00e2teva cauze. Problema mea e c\u0103 nu m-am sim\u0163it niciodat\u0103 at\u00e2t de dispre\u0163uit \u015fi de marginalizat de oamenii hetero din via\u0163a mea, cum m\u0103 simt de propria mea comunitate. Gay-ilor nu le plac dec\u00e2t b\u0103ie\u0163ii \u00eenal\u0163i, frumo\u015fi, musculo\u015fi \u015fi masculini, iar la unul ca mine nu se uit\u0103 absolut nimeni. B\u0103ie\u0163ii de care \u00eemi place fac mi\u015fto de mine sau m\u0103 ignor\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu. <\/strong><\/p>\n Nu m\u0103 simt parte integrant\u0103 a comunit\u0103\u0163ii, nu m\u0103 simt acceptat, nu simt c\u0103 \u00eei pas\u0103 cuiva de mine, \u00een afar\u0103 de c\u00e2teva prietene foarte bune, care sunt straight. <\/strong><\/p>\n \u015ei cel mai prost m\u0103 simt c\u00e2t \u00eencep evenimentele Pride, c\u00e2nd mi se pare c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea e fericit\u0103 \u015fi se distreaz\u0103, numai eu sunt \u00een plus peste tot \u015fi nimeni nu este interesat de mine. <\/strong><\/p>\n Ce rost are s\u0103 existe drepturi pe h\u00e2rtie, dac\u0103 nu se valorific\u0103 nimic \u00een realitate? <\/strong><\/p>\n Te pup, <\/strong><\/p>\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Logica ta sufer\u0103 de eroarea pe care o comit mul\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi, indiferent de orientarea lor sexual\u0103. \u0218i anume, impresia c\u0103 lumea v\u0103 datoreaz\u0103 sex, sau iubire, doar pentru c\u0103 exista\u021bi \u0219i pretinde\u021bi foarte zgomotos.<\/p>\n Realitatea e c\u0103 nimeni, absolut nimeni nu \u00ee\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nimic \u00een afara cazului \u00een care a) e salariatul t\u0103u pl\u0103tit b) \u0219i-a asumat din proprie ini\u021biativ\u0103 o obliga\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de tine.<\/p>\n F\u0103r\u0103 Pride, nici cunoscu\u021bii t\u0103i straight nu erau at\u00e2t de desschi\u0219i \u0219i de toleran\u021bi cu tine, maic\u0103-ta te freca la icre c\u00e2nd te \u00eensori iar b\u0103t\u0103u\u0219ii blocului te p\u00e2ndeau s\u0103 te bat\u0103 \u00een spatele blocului \u0219i s\u0103 te fac\u0103 poponar, eventual s\u0103 \u0219i fac\u0103 pipi pe tine, cum fac haitele de huligani din Rusia. Faptul c\u0103 po\u021bi afirma senin c\u0103 e\u0219ti gay \u0219i s\u0103 nu existe persecu\u021bie pentru asta, s\u0103 nu-\u021bi pierzi instant jobul, chiria \u0219i cercul social, e strict efectul eforturilor comunit\u0103\u021bii LGBT. \u00cen anul 2000, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia \u00eenc\u0103 puteai face \u00eenchisoare pentru asta. A trebuit s\u0103 ajung\u0103 Bombonel prim-ministru, s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva \u00een privin\u021ba asta.<\/p>\n Nimeni, dragule, nu \u00ee\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 acel gen de aten\u021bie doar pentru c\u0103 \u00eel vrei tu foarte tare. Secretul fericirii e s\u0103 nici nu \u00eel pretinzi ca \u0219i cum \u021bi s-ar cuveni.<\/p>\n Mergi la evenimente, parties, beri \u00een ora\u0219 etc. cu o atitudine de om care iese \u00een ora\u0219 s\u0103 se distreze \u0219i s\u0103 se \u00eemprieteneasc\u0103, iar dac\u0103 pic\u0103 \u0219i ceva sex, cool, dac\u0103 nu, s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 s-a inventat laba. Iar aceast\u0103 atitudine te va face misterios \u0219i sexy, nu lihnit, disperat \u0219i cer\u0219etor de aten\u021bie<\/p>\n \u0218i atunci, oamenii vor avea prilejul s\u0103 te cunoasc\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat \u0219i s\u0103 te plac\u0103. Pe c\u00e2nd vibe-urile de disperat alung\u0103 pe oricine, mai grav dec\u00e2t un look imperfect.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n *** Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":21960,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21952","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/pride.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21952","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21952"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21952\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21985,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21952\/revisions\/21985"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21952"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21952"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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