{"id":22022,"date":"2021-07-04T09:51:35","date_gmt":"2021-07-04T06:51:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22022"},"modified":"2021-07-04T09:51:36","modified_gmt":"2021-07-04T06:51:36","slug":"angajatori-abuzivi-partea-a-ii-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/angajatori-abuzivi-partea-a-ii-a\/","title":{"rendered":"Angajatori abuzivi, partea a II-a"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Am avut o po\u0219t\u0103 a redac\u021biei, recent, cu o fat\u0103 care descria o \u0219ef\u0103 agresiv\u0103 \u0219i toxic\u0103, zg\u00e2rcit\u0103 \u0219i abuziv\u0103 verbal. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Subiectul a deschis un val de confesiuni \u00een subsol. Pentru c\u0103 sunt o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de indivizi \u0219i individe (da, Gigel, c\u00e2nd vine vorba de \u0219efie, exist\u0103 o egalitate \u00eentre b\u0103rba\u021bi pro\u0219ti \u0219i r\u0103i \u0219i femei proaste \u0219i rele, \u0219tiu, \u0219tiiiu) care, odat\u0103 ce angajeaz\u0103 pe cineva s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva, au impresia c\u0103 se pot \u0219terge relaxa\u021bi la anus cu persoana respectiv\u0103, \u0219i pot stoarce ultimul gram de energie din el \/ ea, f\u0103r\u0103 ru\u0219ine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar dac\u0103 unii dintre noi am copil\u0103rit cu p\u0103rin\u021bi care ne storceau de fiecare gram de energie \u0219i ne pistonau necru\u021b\u0103tor, vom \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219a acel abuz ca pe ceva de la sine \u00een\u021beles \u0219i ne vom prezenta drept miei sacrificiali pe altarul caliceniei \u0219i nesim\u021birii c\u00e2te unui sac de b\u0103\u0219ini impropriu dotat cu buletin. (Salut, Lorena la 18 ani). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De aceea vom face o rubric\u0103 permanent\u0103 \u00een care, dac\u0103 \u00eemi trimite\u021bi material cu regularitate, vom trata situa\u021bii de abuz la locul de munc\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m cu to\u021bii cum putem deveni mai pu\u021bin expu\u0219i la abuzul c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103torilor la belciuge. (La episodul \u00eent\u00e2i, a ap\u0103rut un cuconet s\u0103 \u021bipe la mine c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 \u0219i un text despre cum trat\u0103m cu un angajat abuziv. La care eu am recunoscut exact patternul de misecuvenist\u0103 care crede c\u0103 i se cuvine gratis munca str\u0103inilor \u0219i i-am spus, sec: Ce vrei tu s\u0103 cite\u0219ti devine obliga\u021bia mea de a livra abia din secunda \u00een care ne \u00een\u021belegem asupra onorariului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident c\u0103, misecuvenist\u0103 fiind, nu i se p\u0103rea c\u0103 are de pl\u0103tit pe munca pe care mi-o pretindea, a\u0219a c\u0103 a \u00eentins-o instant. Perfect f\u0103r\u0103 tine, cum gl\u0103suia poetul na\u021bional Tudor Chiril\u0103. Prea pu\u021bin m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 oamenii a c\u0103ror principal\u0103 prioritate e ce mai poate face Lorena pentru ei gratis. \u00cemi st\u00e2rne\u0219ti interesul abia c\u00e2nd aflu ce po\u021bi face tu pentru mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. Deci, am o pl\u0103cere intens\u0103 s\u0103 demaschez misecuvenismul \u0219i calicenia, a\u0219a c\u0103 vom trece la povestea unei cititoare: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am lucrat la un salon de bronzare artificial\u0103, unde am avut o \u0219ef\u0103 care a tras de mine p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ultima clip\u0103. Nu avea angaja\u021bi, eram singur\u0103, trebuia s\u0103 \u021bin loc la dou\u0103 ture, lucram practic 13 ore zilnic, de luni p\u00e2n\u0103 duminic\u0103, nu aveam dreptul s\u0103 fiu obosit\u0103 sau ceva, c\u0103 mi se atr\u0103gea aten\u021bia. Ca s\u0103 nu mai spun c\u0103 salonul se \u00eenchidea la ora 22, dar eram obligat\u0103, \u00een caz c\u0103 ap\u0103rea un client la ora 21:55, s\u0103-l primesc indiferent dac\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219ea ora 22 plus c\u0103, dup\u0103, trebuia s\u0103 gestionez \u0219i niste acte.<\/strong> Deci, practic, mai “halea” cam 55 de minute din timpul meu liber. Eu plecam de la salon uneori dup\u0103 miezul nop\u021bii, fiindc\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 las \u0219i curat dup\u0103 ultimul client, \u0219i actele necesare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Era at\u00e2t de haps\u00e2n\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t must\u0103cea de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd trebuia s\u0103 merg vis a vis, la magazin, s\u0103-mi iau de m\u00e2ncare. Pe contract m\u0103 trecuse la 4 ore, am zis “Las\u0103 m\u0103i… Poate m\u0103 ajut\u0103 si ea cu ceva vreodat\u0103”. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 nu mai zic de salariu, \u00eemi dadea 10 milioane de lei vechi. Era at\u00e2t de zg\u00e2rcit\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 si 5 monezi de 10 bani le num\u0103ra s\u0103 fie fix, s\u0103 nu fie vreo moned\u0103 de 10 bani \u00een plus.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat o ne\u00een\u021belegere cu o nou\u0103 coleg\u0103 care a venit \u0219i s-au \u00eencurcat turele. Era de fapt tura mea, eu nu am \u0219tiut pentru, c\u0103 dup\u0103 calculul meu, trebuia s\u0103 fiu liber\u0103, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00een fine, \u00een urma acestui incident a refuzat cu vehemen\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi mai acorde salariul, \u00een condi\u021biile \u00een care eu am lucrat o lun\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 de diminea\u021b\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 seara .Deci, practic, m-a concediat f\u0103r\u0103 drept de apel.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca s\u0103 nu mai spun c\u0103 eu eram \u00een perioada de preaviz, fiindc\u0103 voiam s\u0103 \u00eemi schimb locul de munc\u0103, dar de comun acord, am spus “hai, m\u0103i, s\u0103 o mai ajut pu\u021bin, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eemi g\u0103se\u0219te \u00eenlocuitor”, \u0219i apoi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat problema cu turele, iar ea a refuzat s\u0103 \u00eemi mai acorde ultimul salariu. \u0218i ea tot o favoriza pe noua coleg\u0103 venit\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus c\u0103 se comporta foarte ur\u00e2t cu mine, s\u00e2mb\u0103ta era zi de”cur\u0103\u021benie”, \u00een tot salonul \u0219i trebuia s\u0103 fac asta singur\u0103, baie, cad\u0103, camerele de solar , etc… \u015ei tot ea era nemul\u021bumit\u0103, \u00een schimb colega nou\u0103 c\u00e2nd a venit, \u00een ziua de cur\u0103\u021benie general\u0103, a stat degeaba nu a facut nimic, dar \u015ftia ce are de f\u0103cut, iar eu luni, c\u00e2nd am ajuns, era praful p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een tavan , am aten\u021bionat-o pe colega c\u0103 nu si-a \u00eendeplinit sarcina de lucru, \u0219i tot ele s-au sup\u0103rat pe mine. La mine venea cu atitudine de superioritate, freca u\u0219a cu degetul s\u0103 vad\u0103 dac\u0103 este praf, \u0219i \u00eemi f\u0103cea un scandal monstru pentru c\u00e2teva pete.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am reclamat-o nic\u0103ieri.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cum prevenim genul acesta de abuz? Din fa\u015f\u0103, dragi copii. Nu l\u0103s\u0103m misecuvenismul s\u0103 se instaleze, de la bun \u00eenceput. Dac\u0103 contractul spune 4 ore, stai fix 4 ore, dac\u0103 contractul spune 8, stai 8, \u015fi asta e. Iar dac\u0103 te ia cu cli\u015feul \u0103la comunist toxic cu “vai, de cum se face ora plec\u0103rii, rupi u\u015fa” r\u0103spunzi: S-avem pardon, dar nu am negociat \u00eenc\u0103 onorariul pentru ore suplimentare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Nu puteam” \u015fi “nu aveam voie” sunt afirma\u0163iile care, \u00een astfel de pove\u015fti, m\u0103 \u00eemboln\u0103vesc cu bube. Ba puteai \u015fi ba aveai voie. Contractul t\u0103u zice patru ore? O \u00eentrebi pe madam \u00eentre ce ore \u00eei convin cele patru ore. Vii la fix, pleci la fix. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A doua ta gre\u015feal\u0103 a fost s\u0103 accep\u0163i sarcini de cur\u0103\u0163enie, de\u015fi salariul nu acoperea nici m\u0103car jobul \u00een sine. NU E TREABA TA, DAC\u0102 PE CONTRACTUL T\u0102U NU SCRIE “PERSONAL CUR\u0102\u0162ENIE”, S\u0102 FACI CURAT. PUNCT. Din acest punct de vedere, noua coleg\u0103 avea perfect\u0103 dreptate s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 nimic. Nu era angajat\u0103 ca femeie de serviciu, nu era pl\u0103tit\u0103 suplimentar s\u0103 fie femeie de serviciu, nu avea de ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta. Poate, v\u0103z\u00e2nd \u00een ce hal a ajuns zdrean\u0163a aia sifilitic\u0103 s\u0103 se foloseasc\u0103 de tine, doar pentru c\u0103 i-ai permis, \u015fi o repet o dat\u0103, s\u0103 ne fie clar tuturor, doar pentru c\u0103 i-ai permis, <\/strong>a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 creeze limite din start. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 contractul t\u0103u prevede strict jobul de asistent bronzare artificial\u0103, sau cum se nume\u015fte postul – eu nu m\u0103 bronzez, am avut deja o aluni\u0163\u0103 malign\u0103 \u015fi prefer s\u0103 nu m\u0103 joc cu c gol pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 p sculat\u0103 – ASTA FACI \u015eI AT\u00c2T. Ca noua ta coleg\u0103. \u00cei spui c\u0103 serviciile de cur\u0103\u0163enie NU intr\u0103 \u00een atribu\u0163iile tale \u015fi o \u00eentrebi c\u00e2t ar fi dispus\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 \u00een plus, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte \u015fi aceast\u0103 op\u0163iune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chestie pe care trebuia s-o faci \u015fi cu tura dubl\u0103, btw. Scoteai un salariu de 3000 de lei lejer \u015fi nu mai aveai nevoie de part-time, ca \u00een recomand\u0103rile coanei Turcan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar comentariile obraznice, faptul c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i f\u0103cea observa\u0163ie c\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i obosit\u0103 c\u00e2nd ea te \u0163inea tur\u0103 dubl\u0103 \u015fi te pl\u0103tea pentru patru ore? DAI REPLIC\u0102! Mai ales c\u00e2nd dreptatea e de partea ta. “Bine, madam, ia s\u0103 stau eu la munc\u0103 alea patru ore din contract, s\u0103 vezi ce odihnit\u0103 o s\u0103 ar\u0103t!” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Genul \u0103sta de om ajunge s\u0103 manifeste at\u00e2ta misecuvenism pentru c\u0103 I SE PERMITE \u015fi, important, NUMAI CU CINE \u00ceI PERMITE. Ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 noua ta coleg\u0103 a pus piciorul \u00een prag c\u0103 nu face curat \u015fi, prin urmare, nici nu i-a pretins asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Legat de ultimul salariu pe care nu \u0163i l-a pl\u0103tit: trebuia s\u0103 fii la ITM cu reclama\u0163ia \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 a doua zi de diminea\u0163\u0103, la prima or\u0103. Nu doar pentru tine \u015fi b\u0103nu\u0163ii t\u0103i munci\u0163i cu greu. Ci pentru toate viitoarele angajate pe care le va avea panarama asta ordinar\u0103, \u015fi dintre care vor avea de suferit doar cele naive \u015fi bine inten\u0163ionate ca tine. Cele puse \u00een tem\u0103, ca noua ta coleg\u0103, o vor pune la punct din prima. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai scrie\u0163i-mi pove\u015fti de la locul de munc\u0103, preferabil unele \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een desf\u0103\u015furare. Hai s\u0103 educ\u0103m salariatul rom\u00e2n c\u0103 nu are de ce s\u0103 ling\u0103 kkt pentru c\u00e2teva bancnote obosite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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