{"id":22042,"date":"2021-07-10T09:34:25","date_gmt":"2021-07-10T06:34:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22042"},"modified":"2021-07-10T09:34:27","modified_gmt":"2021-07-10T06:34:27","slug":"de-ce-nu-strica-sa-ti-revizuiesti-lista-de-prieteni-din-cand-in-cand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-nu-strica-sa-ti-revizuiesti-lista-de-prieteni-din-cand-in-cand\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce nu stric\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi revizuie\u0219ti lista de prieteni, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ur\u0103sc expresia “a face curat \u00een list\u0103”. E ca \u015fi cum ai spune c\u0103 oamenii care nu \u00ee\u0163i sunt de imediat\u0103 utilitate sunt de\u015feuri care trebuie aruncate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar c\u00e2nd motiva\u0163ia sun\u0103 a\u015fa: “O s\u0103 fac curat \u00een list\u0103 \u015fi o s\u0103-i scot pe cei care nu interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu mine”, motiva\u0163ia e de-a dreptul ilar\u0103 \u015fi vorbe\u015fte doar despre penibilul crunt al autorului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nimeni nu e OBLIGAT s\u0103 interac\u0163ioneze cu tine. Nimeni nu are sarcin\u0103 trasat\u0103 de un sobor de heruvimi s\u0103 te bage \u00een seam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar exist\u0103 dou\u0103 moduri prin care po\u0163i ob\u0163ine aten\u0163ia unor oameni care nu simt s\u0103 te bage \u00een seam\u0103 din proprie ini\u0163iativ\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

a) Interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 tu. Dac\u0103 au statusuri, poze, idei interesante, d\u0103 comentarii simpatice \u015fi bine g\u00e2ndite. Nu, nu c\u0103utarea de nod \u00een papur\u0103 cu atitudinea “sunt mai d\u0103jtept dec\u00e2t tine”. De\u015fi e teribil de popular\u0103 printre gigei, atitudinea aia are un singur efect: “f*** mor\u0163i\u015forii m\u0103-tii care nu te-a iubit suficient \u00een copil\u0103rie \u015fi \u0163i-a inoculat nevoia de a te da interesant \u00een mod gratuit.” Unii oameni n-o vor spune, dar te asigur c\u0103 o vor g\u00e2ndi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b) Creeaz\u0103 content mai bun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 oamenii nu simt nevoia s\u0103 interac\u0163ioneze cu tine, probabil c\u0103 postezi chestii care nu \u00eei intereseaz\u0103 foarte tare. \u015etiu, pentru unii dintre voi, copiii vo\u015ftri sunt alfa \u015fi omega, dar un cont care \u00ee\u0163i vorbe\u015fte doar despre c\u00e2t de dr\u0103gu\u0163 e bebe e plictisitooooor \u015fi eu tind s\u0103-i dau snooze. Dac\u0103 e un cont corect politic care \u015fcole\u015fte all day long, e plictisitoooor \u015fi-i dau snooze. Dac\u0103 e un gigel macho man \u015fi posteaz\u0103 numai despre cum are el succes nebun la femei pe care le rote\u015fte, plictisitoooor \u015fi-i dau unfriend direct, pentru c\u0103 macho man se bag\u0103 de obicei \u015fi \u00een mesaje private s\u0103 te frece nesolicitat la icre \u015fi s\u0103 abuzeze de timpul t\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 dou\u0103 moduri de a alunga definitiv un S\u0103get\u0103tor din via\u0163a ta. S\u0103-l tratezi lipsit de respect \u015fi s\u0103-l plictise\u015fti. Haipaaaaaaa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fadar, dac\u0103 lumea nu interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu tine, probabil c\u0103 e vina calit\u0103\u0163ii con\u0163inutului t\u0103u \u015fi a a\u015ftept\u0103rilor tale unilaterale \u015fi guess what: \u00eei sco\u0163i din list\u0103 pe \u0103ia, bagi al\u0163ii noi \u015fi nici cei noi nu se vor raporta diferit la content boring \u015fi atitudine entitled. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar merit\u0103 s\u0103 treci din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd peste lista de prieteni, \u015fi iat\u0103 de ce: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile<\/strong> \u015fterse<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din cauza politicii de banuri de c\u00e2te o lun\u0103 a lui Facebook, mul\u0163i dintre cei care nu fac social media la nivel profesionist, ca mine, \u015fi-au b\u0103gat pur \u015fi simplu pwola, \u015fi-au \u015fters contul \u015fi s-au mutat pe Twitter, VKontakte, sau chiar YouTube, platforme care \u00een\u0163eleg c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu la\u015fi oamenii s\u0103 se certe, oamenii nu se vor mai sim\u0163i atra\u015fi s\u0103 stea pe re\u0163ea. F\u0103r\u0103 nevoia de scandal a omului, nu exista industria tabloidelor, industria sex tape-urilor \u015fi Abces Dinrect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca plaform\u0103, po\u0163i face dou\u0103 lucruri: s-o iei ca atare sau s\u0103 mori lent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. \u015ei \u00een locul contului lor apare doar ecranul cu “cont \u015fters”. Totu\u015fi, \u00ee\u0163i ocup\u0103 un loc din 5000. Dar tu nu ai de ce s\u0103 \u0163ii \u00een preajm\u0103 conturi \u015fterse. E ca \u015fi cum ai \u0163ine schelete \u00een \u015fifonier. Hei, dac\u0103 nu e viu, nu i se scoal\u0103, \u015fi dac\u0103 nu i se scoal\u0103, nu se calific\u0103 pentru rolul de amant focos. Curat \u00een \u015fifonier \u015fi umplut cu aman\u0163i foco\u015fi vii \u015fi func\u0163ionali, dac\u0103 \u00eemi \u00een\u0163elege\u0163i analogia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile inactive <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Principiul e acela\u015fi, diferen\u0163a e c\u0103 nu \u015fi-a \u015fters propriu-zis contul. Dac\u0103 ultima postare e din 2014, adio, haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. Dac\u0103 persoana nu mai e fizic prezent\u0103, de ce s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i ocupi loc \u00een list\u0103 cu… \u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103, nimeni? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile de companie <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te-ai \u00eemprietenit cu Ion Popescu, dar c\u00e2nd te ui\u0163i pe list\u0103, Ion Popescu nu mai exist\u0103, exist\u0103 doar Oale \u015fi Ulcele Mioveni. Detenplm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu sunt endorserul businessului t\u0103u, dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 angajezi \u015fi nu m\u0103 pl\u0103te\u015fti s\u0103-\u0163i fac publicitate. Vrei s\u0103 vinzi oale \u015fi ulcele fabricate \u00een Mioveni? F\u0103-\u0163i o f***ing pagin\u0103. C\u0103 mai sharuie\u015fti de pe ea modele de oale \u015fi ulcele, ok. To\u0163i trebuie s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Dar dac\u0103 contul \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 reprezinte o persoan\u0103, haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile de postaci <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Contul de postac e a\u015fa: poz\u0103 de profil cu c\u0103\u0163elu\u015f, pisic\u0103 sau apus de soare, pentru c\u0103 identitatea nu e real\u0103, \u015fi post\u0103ri const\u00e2nd numai din linkuri la propagand\u0103 agresiv\u0103 \u015fi statusuri comb\u0103t\u00e2nd furios adversarul politic. Contul de postac se bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 cu tine c\u00e2nd lauzi adversarul politic, s\u0103 te \u00eenjure \u015fi s\u0103 te acuze de toate p\u0103catele p\u0103m\u00e2ntului, \u015fi, dac\u0103 la dou\u0103 zile, se nimere\u015fte s\u0103 lauzi partea pe care e pl\u0103tit\u0103 el s-o sus\u0163in\u0103, hopa contul de postac ling\u00e2ndu-te de zor \u00een fiecare cut\u0103 a orificiului rectal, de parc\u0103 nu tot el te spurcase cu dou\u0103 zile \u00een urm\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De fapt, nu are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu tine. Vrea doar s\u0103 creeze trafic \u015fi interac\u0163iune pe postarea care \u00eei serve\u015fte interesul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe \u0103\u015ftia de obicei \u00eei \u015fi blochez, pentru c\u0103 au obiceiul iritant de a raporta \u00een hait\u0103, dac\u0103 ai postat ceva ce nu le place. \u015fi iar vine luna de zucc, \u00een care nu c\u00e2\u015ftigi mai nimic din ads. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile extremiste <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei aici m\u0103 refer inclusiv la extremismul aplicat valorilor \u00een care cred. Am o problem\u0103, de exemplu, cu feminismul radical. \u0102la care vine s\u0103 \u0163ipe la tine c\u0103, dac\u0103 por\u0163i makeup sau dac\u0103 faci reclam\u0103 la videochat, nu e\u015fti model autentic de feminism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mar\u015f, b*tch. Eu nu vreau s\u0103 fiu figura de tapet a unei idei fixe. Nu sunt icoana maicii domnului, s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 decorez altare. Sunt un om simplu \u015fi m\u0103 reprezint doar pe mine, iar c\u00e2nd un brand face o reclam\u0103 cu mine, \u00eei reprezint, STRICT COMERCIAL, pe ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar extremismul de direc\u0163ie opus\u0103, familii tradi\u0163ionale, patriotism cu c\u0103r\u0103mida \u00een piept, superioritatea b\u0103rbatului \u015fi alte idio\u0163enii retrograde? Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar\u015f instant \u00een plm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau mai frumos spus, haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conturile duble<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unii oameni au c\u00e2te dou\u0103 conturi. De exemplu, Ion Popescu fictiv de mai sus are Ion Popescu, unde are familia, nevasta, copii, colegii de munc\u0103, \u015fi mai are Yonutz B\u0103iatul Nebun, unde caut\u0103 s\u0103 aga\u0163e muieri pentru c\u0103 se calice\u015fte s\u0103 se duc\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu la lucr\u0103toare sexuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All fine and dandy, dar nu \u00eemi ocupa mie DOU\u0102 locuri din 5000. D\u0103-mi add cu unul singur, preferabil \u0103la de Ion Popescu. \u00cen mod cert nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 fiu substitutul moca de lucr\u0103toare sexual\u0103 pentru Yonutz B\u0103iatul Nebun, so, a se scuti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fadar, merit\u0103 epurat\u0103 lista \u015fi de conturile duble, \u015fi te ui\u0163i. Care e contul pe care posteaz\u0103 zilnic \u015fi pe bune? Ok. Stay friends cu Ion Popescu. Yonutz B\u0103iatul Nebun, haidepa, s\u0103 auzim de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cam astea ar fi conturile pe care le \u015fterg eu. Voi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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