De o lun\u0103 de zile, ma confrunt cu o problem\u0103. M-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit de un b\u0103rbat \u00eensurat, da nu e bine, dar \u00eel iubesc nebune\u0219te. Problema e c\u0103 ai mei au aflat, \u0219i tata \u00eel ur\u0103\u0219te. Tata ocup\u0103 o func\u021bie foarte important\u0103, problema e c\u0103 a pus toate colegele de la munc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i bat\u0103 joc de mine, din cauza asta am pierdut un job, acas\u0103 induram certuri \u0219i b\u0103t\u0103i, m-am mutat la gazd\u0103, ca s\u0103 pot sc\u0103pa, m-a amenin\u021bat c\u0103 m\u0103 leag\u0103, c\u0103 m\u0103 duce la spitalul de nebuni, etc…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S-a<\/strong> pus bine cu gazdele ca s\u0103-mi controleze \u00een continuare viata, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac, cum s\u0103 fac s\u0103 scap odat\u0103 de el. La orice job a\u0219 \u00eencerca, sun\u0103, \u0219i pune oamenii de acolo s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i bat\u0103 joc de mine, nu mai pot, cred ca o sa cedez nervos<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n *** <\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu mi-ai scris c\u00e2\u0163i ani ai, dar din faptul c\u0103 te-ai putut muta de acas\u0103 \u015fi ai un job, deduc c\u0103 e\u015fti major\u0103. Dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti, contacteaz\u0103 Serviciile de Protec\u0163ie a Copilului \u015fi cere s\u0103 fii luat\u0103 imediat \u00een grij\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Moreover: <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deduc c\u0103 locuie\u0219ti \u00een ora\u0219 mic \/ mediu, pentru c\u0103 genul \u0103sta de influen\u021b\u0103 nu ar putea fi exercitat \u00een capital\u0103, iar aici, oamenii sunt mult mai pu\u021bin slugarnici \u0219i mai pu\u021bin influen\u021babili prin genul \u0103sta de manevre. Dac\u0103 nimere\u0219ti o companie de femei puternice, chiar l-ar lua pe taic\u0103-tu la mi\u0219to dac\u0103 ar \u00eencerca s\u0103 sune s\u0103 \u00eei monteze \u00eempotriva propriului copil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Altfel, am experimentat \u0219i eu pu\u021bin din ce tr\u0103ie\u0219ti tu, dar pe o scar\u0103 mult mai mic\u0103. Maic\u0103-mea nu era miliardar\u0103, \u0219i nici influent\u0103, dar avea trecere printre vecine pe scara blocului, \u0219i toat\u0103 lumea \u00eemi lua la mi\u0219to aspira\u021biile artistice, asmu\u021bite de ea, care avea un plan foarte clar legat de ce voia s\u0103 modeleze din mine \u0219i nu admitea ca rahaturi de genul personalit\u0103\u021bii \u0219i ambi\u021biilor mele s\u0103 \u00eei stea \u00een cale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am avut nevoie de ani de terapie s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219esc asta, \u0219i uite c\u0103 acum m\u0103 ajut\u0103. Primesc valuri de hate de pe net de la to\u021bi gigeii bloca\u021bi \u00een idei de acum trei secole despre rolul femeii \u00ee\u0219i \u00eemi bag p*la \u00een g\u00e2\u021bii lor cu o relaxare suprem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, t\u0103ticii cu influen\u021b\u0103 pot fi o trambulin\u0103 \u00een evolu\u021bia social\u0103 a omului, dar, dac\u0103 sunt narcisi\u0219ti, egocentrici \u0219i bolnavi psihic, toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 influen\u021b\u0103 va fi folosit\u0103 \u00eempotriva ta. Asta nu \u0219tiu cei care pl\u00e2ng c\u0103 de ce nu au p\u0103rin\u021bi boga\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, e nasol c\u0103 te-ai combinat cu unul c\u0103s\u0103torit. Dar asta e doar o circumstan\u021b\u0103. O oportunitate oferit\u0103 dementului s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i foloseasc\u0103 demen\u021ba \u00eempotriva ta. Dac\u0103 nu era asta, era altceva. Drept care, pasul nr. 1 e s\u0103 nu iei nimic asupra ta \u0219i s\u0103 te deta\u0219ezi de orice sentiment de culp\u0103 sau senza\u021bie c\u0103 ai merita ceva din ce-\u021bi face tac-tu. Putea s\u0103 discute cu tine matur, putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi prezinte pove\u0219ti de via\u021b\u0103 ale cuno\u0219tin\u021belor femei care au at\u00e2rnat ani \u00een \u0219ir dup\u0103 un \u00eensurat, putea s\u0103-\u021bi explice consecin\u021bele, putea chiar s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti momentul. Faptul c\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 identifice solu\u021bii constructive, a s\u0103rit s\u0103-\u021bi demoleze via\u021ba \u0219i cariera \u0219i s\u0103 \u021bi le infuzeze cu toxicitate vorbe\u0219te despre faptul c\u0103 e un gunoi bolnav. Iar oamenii care \u00eei fac jocul sunt simple marionete pupincuriste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce po\u021bi tu s\u0103 faci? <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015ei, important. C\u00e2nd \u00ee\u015fi bat joc de tine Didina \u015fi Titina, c\u0103 a\u015fa a zis dom’ Gogu Barosanu, le \u00eentrebi: “Cum v\u0103 sim\u0163i\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eei face\u0163i jocurile unui jegos ca \u0103sta, care-\u015fi persecut\u0103 propriul copil? Ce tat\u0103 face asta?” <\/p>\n\n\n\n E greu de crezut c\u00e2nd e\u015fti \u00een punctul \u0103la de traum\u0103, fric\u0103 \u015fi suferin\u0163\u0103, dar unii oameni nu prea g\u00e2ndesc \u015fi regurgiteaz\u0103 idei pe nemestecate. \u00cen schimb, dac\u0103 le ceri socoteal\u0103, con\u015ftientizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 sunt manipula\u0163i \u015fi unii chiar \u00ee\u015fi cer scuze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, sus\u0163ine\u0163i activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n *** Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":22102,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22101","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/bani.jpg?fit=640%2C364&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22101","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22101"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22101\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22104,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22101\/revisions\/22104"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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