{"id":22168,"date":"2021-08-06T10:14:30","date_gmt":"2021-08-06T07:14:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22168"},"modified":"2021-08-06T10:14:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-06T07:14:31","slug":"paranoia-lui-aur-si-a-lui-bor-legata-de-gen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/paranoia-lui-aur-si-a-lui-bor-legata-de-gen\/","title":{"rendered":"Paranoia lui AUR \u0219i a lui BOR legat\u0103 de gen"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A ap\u0103rut specimenul noului buletin cu cip, \u0219i, din acel moment, to\u021bi pro\u0219tii f\u0103cu\u021bi gr\u0103mad\u0103, to\u021bi speria\u021bii de bombe care se simt amenin\u021ba\u021bi de op\u021biunile altora au \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 circ, scandal \u0219i balamuc. Ar fi oarecum amuzant, dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-ai da seama ce \u00eentuneric bezn\u0103 \u0219i teroare e \u00een creierii lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas\u0103mite, specimenul noului buletin nu include cuv\u00e2ntul “sex”, un termen care, \u00een multe alte limbi, se refer\u0103 strict la trebu\u015foara aceea ru\u015finoas\u0103, \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i aduce uneori priviri awkward de la cei care \u00ee\u0163i verific\u0103 buletinul \u00een varii contexte, ci un termen mai cu perdelu\u0163\u0103, \u015fi anume gen \/ gender. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aten\u0163ie: gen \/ gender nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 absolut nimic altceva dec\u00e2t \u00eensemnase sex \u00een aceste acte. Completeaz\u0103 rubrica de informa\u0163ii personale a oric\u0103rui formular interna\u0163ional \u015fi o s\u0103 ai male, female \u015fi, abia \u00een unele cazuri, other. Termenul gender \u00een sine nu include nici o referin\u0163\u0103 la identitatea de gen, nici o sugestie c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 iei de m\u00e2ine estrogen \u015fi s\u0103 por\u0163i fuste \u015fi pantofi cu toc \u00eenalt, nu presupune nici o nuan\u0163\u0103 lgbt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 ar fi fost s\u0103 fie consecven\u0163i cu narativa lor tradi\u0163ionalist\u0103, pudibond\u0103 \u015fi retrograd\u0103, at\u00e2t AUR, c\u00e2t \u015fi BOR ar fi trebuit s\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103\u0163i\u015feze cu entuziasm cuv\u00e2ntul “gen”, un termen cuminte \u015fi prezentabil p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. “Sex” sun\u0103 a activitatea aceea permis\u0103 doar \u00een taina sfintei c\u0103snicii \u015fi strict interzis\u0103 \u00een rest, \u015fi, oh well, s\u0103 \u00eel pui \u00een acte oficiale ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fie adev\u0103rata tem\u0103 de v\u0103ic\u0103real\u0103 legat\u0103 de lumea depravat\u0103 \u015fi decadent\u0103 \u00een care tr\u0103im. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, pentru c\u0103 gender a r\u0103sunat foarte frecvent \u00een ultimii ani \u00een cuv\u00e2ntul compus “transgender”, format din “trans”, adic\u0103 invers, \u015fi “gender” – aka, identitatea ta e de gen, sau iat\u0103, sex opus celui cu care te-a \u00eenzestrat loteria genetic\u0103, to\u0163i tembelii \u0103\u015ftia suferinzi de idio\u0163enie \u00een form\u0103 accentuat\u0103 au reac\u0163ionat reflex ca \u015fi cum cineva \u00eencerca s\u0103-i tranzi\u0163ioneze cu sila. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 oamenii cu tendin\u0163e tiranice, despotice \u015fi agresive le atribuie \u00een mintea lor \u015fi oponen\u0163ilor acelea\u015fi apuc\u0103turi tiranice, despotice \u015fi agresive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fa cum gigelul b\u0103d\u0103ran \u015fi isteric f\u0103r\u0103 motiv \u0163ip\u0103 la tine c\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fti b\u0103rba\u0163ii c\u00e2nd, de fapt, cel care ur\u0103\u015fte, discrediteaz\u0103 \u015fi minimalizeaz\u0103 femeile e chiar el, dobitocii de la BOR \u015fi AUR, care vor s\u0103 “\u00eendrepte” cu sila pe toat\u0103 lumea \u015fi s\u0103 conving\u0103 pe to\u0163i c\u0103 exist\u0103 un singur mod corect de a fi b\u0103rbat, \u015fi anume, gigel \u00eencordac de musculatur\u0103, \u015fi un singur mod corect de a fi femeie, \u015fi anume, m\u0103rioar\u0103 ploditoare la crati\u0163a de tocan\u0103, \u00ee\u015fi imagineaz\u0103 comunitatea LGBT ca pe ace\u015fti solda\u0163i de guerill\u0103 \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 conving\u0103 cu egal\u0103 agresivitate b\u0103rba\u0163ii s\u0103 le plac\u0103 ula, femeile s\u0103 le plac\u0103 izda \u015fi \u00een general pe toat\u0103 lumea c\u0103 e transgender \u015fi nu \u015ftie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident, cine petrece timp \u00een cercuri LGBT \u015ftie c\u0103 aceste filme interioare ale dacopa\u0163ilor cre\u015ftinopa\u0163i ar fi de r\u00e2s, dac\u0103 n-ar fi de pl\u00e2ns. Singurul motiv pentru care azi vedem mai mul\u0163i gay, lesbiene \u015fi trans dec\u00e2t pe vremea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor no\u015ftri se datoreaz\u0103 faptului c\u0103 ace\u015fti oameni, CARE AU EXISTAT DINTOTDEAUNA, se simt confortabil \u00een zilele noastre s\u0103 fie ei \u00een\u015fi\u015fi \u015fi nu mai sunt constr\u00e2n\u015fi la vie\u0163i de minciun\u0103 \u015fi negare. Constr\u00e2n\u015fi de cine? Exact de dacopa\u0163ii cre\u015ftinopa\u0163i care le \u015ftiu pe toate mai bine \u015fi caut\u0103 s\u0103 le impun\u0103 altora cum s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. Umilin\u0163a, ru\u015finea, presiunea social\u0103, \u015fantajul s-au diminuat \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103, exist\u0103 grupuri de acceptare \u015fi sus\u0163inere, drept care, au disp\u0103rut sentimentele de h\u0103ituire \u015fi de singur\u0103tate \u00een mijlocul unei mul\u0163imi de cretini, tr\u0103ite de genera\u0163iile queer anterioare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar educa\u0163ia inclusiv\u0103 nu presupune s\u0103 convingi minori straight c\u0103 de fapt sunt gay, \u015fi nici minori cisgender (aka “normali”) c\u0103 sunt trans, ci doar s\u0103-i \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103, s\u0103-i accepte \u015fi s\u0103 nu-i mai terorizeze cu idio\u0163enii pe cei diferi\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Da, Lorena, dar uite aici o \u015ftire cu un p\u0103rinte condamnat pentru c\u0103 \u00eei impunea fiului trans de 14 ani s\u0103 fie femeie biologic\u0103”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce cite\u015fte gigel retrograd e “vaaai, dar cum s\u0103-i spui lui tati c\u0103 nu poate obliga un copil s\u0103 fie ceea ce nu este?? e copilul t\u0103u, drept care, o s\u0103 fie femeie sau \u00eel omori cu m\u00e2na ta”. Ce citesc eu e: “finally, o form\u0103 de respect pentru identitatea autentic\u0103 a persoanei tinere care a avut ghinionul s\u0103 aib\u0103 un bou pe post de tat\u0103”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 nu e cazul s\u0103 decizi tu dac\u0103 identitatea sau orientarea sexual\u0103 ale lui fi-tu sau ale fiic\u0103-tii sunt gre\u015fite sau corecte. Le iei ca atare \u015fi punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cenc\u0103 cunosc gay care, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u015fi viziteaz\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii biserico\u015fi din zone rurale, duc cu ei o prieten\u0103 pe post de “barb\u0103”, pentru c\u0103 nu vor s\u0103-i supere, \u00een timp ce partenerul lor real trebuie s\u0103 se ascund\u0103, pe post de secret ru\u015finos. Dac\u0103 tu, ca p\u0103rinte, e\u015fti at\u00e2t de idiot \u015fi de sp\u0103lat pe creier \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00ee\u0163i for\u0163ezi copilul s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi creeze o via\u0163\u0103 fals\u0103 doar pentru a putea convie\u0163ui cu tine, poate c\u0103 ar fi fost o decizie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 s\u0103 nu faci copii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bine, eu nu mi-a\u015f crea o via\u0163\u0103 fals\u0103 pentru nimic \u015fi nimeni \u015fi nu mai permit de mult altora s\u0103-mi dirijeze via\u0163a pe faza filmelor din capul lor, dar c\u00e2\u0163i oameni ajung la nivelul acesta de libertate interioar\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, divaghez. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103 to\u0163i imbecilii \u0103\u015ftia fac at\u00e2ta circ \u015fi panaram\u0103 la adresa unui termen nevinovat \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 conota\u0163ii LGBT, cum e “gen \/ gender” ne spune c\u00e2t de toxici \u015fi de inadecva\u0163i sunt ei pentru via\u0163a public\u0103, \u015fi cum influen\u0163a lor ar trebui eliminat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reiau: nici un LGBT nu te va presa s\u0103-\u0163i plac\u0103 \u015fi \u0163ie cineva de acela\u015fi sex cu tine, sau s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 iei hormonii sexului opus. \u00cen schimb, dobitocii \u0103\u015ftia nu vor \u00eenceta niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemproa\u015fte ur\u0103 \u015fi ignoran\u0163\u0103 asupra celor care nu sunt ca ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, pe un act oficial nu ar trebui s\u0103 existe cuv\u00e2ntul “sex”. E h\u00e2rtia care te legitimeaz\u0103 public, nu un pliant promo\u0163ional pentru un site p**no. Restul proiec\u0163iilor s\u0103 \u015fi le \u0163in\u0103 fiecare pe propriile ecrane mici \u015fi mari. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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