A \u00eenceput s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na de Pride \u00een Bucure\u0219ti – \u0103sta e un motiv pentru organizarea mar\u0219ului s\u00e2mb\u0103ta viitoare, nu c\u00e2nd a \u00een\u021b\u0103rcat mutul iapa \u0219i c\u00e2nd i se scoal\u0103 lui PMB. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A \u00eenceput vineri seara cu mai multe petreceri \u00een cluburi cu specific queer sau queer friendly (baruri de ghei, \u00een limbaj popular) din capital\u0103, iar Asocia\u021bia MozaiQ, cu care am mai colaborat eu punctual de-a lungul timpului, m-a invitat s\u0103 fac \u0219i eu dou\u0103 numere de drag (travesti) \u00een cadrul party-ului lor dedicat specific acestei arte, \u00een Club Q. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cine a aruncat un ochi pe Instagramul meu, \u0219tie c\u0103 travestiul nu m\u0103 preocup\u0103 de ieri – alalt\u0103ieri. M-am dus \u0219i la Anten\u0103 cu un vestit num\u0103r de semitravesti, dar idio\u021bii au ales s\u0103 abereze despre reclama mea la videochat (zici c\u0103 \u00eemi oferiser\u0103 ei un super contract, s\u0103 am alternativ\u0103 viabil\u0103 sau ceva), \u0219i s\u0103 pun\u0103 un \u021b\u0103ran bor\u00e2t de pe acolo s\u0103 comenteze cum m\u0103 prefer\u0103 feminin\u0103 sau ceva de genul. M\u0103 rog, m\u00e2rl\u0103nii dobitoace \u0219i jenante de Anten\u0103, n-ai ce s\u0103 ceri mai mult. C\u00e2nd o s\u0103 \u00eemi pese cum m\u0103 prefer\u0103 \u0163\u0103ranii bor\u00e2\u0163i de patru clase, care nu \u00een\u0163eleg no\u0163iunea de travesti \u015fi m\u0103iestria pe care o presupune, promit s\u0103 dau eu strigare. P\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, \u0163\u0103ranii bor\u00e2\u0163i au liber s\u0103 plictiseasc\u0103 cu preferin\u0163ele lor \u0163\u0103r\u0103nci bor\u00e2te de acela\u015fi calibru, iar eu creez personaje \u00een travesti, c\u0103 a\u015fa binevoie\u015fte maiestuoasa mea pwl\u0103. Da, am una special\u0103, rezervat\u0103 strict pentru binevoit chestii. Cu pl\u0103cere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 am avut un moment de extaz c\u00e2nd am intrat \u00eentr-un lineup de arti\u0219ti drag. OK, mai mult “fete”. Din varii motive, arta travestiului \u00eenseamn\u0103 mai mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i care impersoneaz\u0103 femei, dec\u00e2t femei care impersoneaz\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163i. Poate \u0103sta e motivul pentru care am primit \u015fi eu o \u015fans\u0103. Raritatea. Toat\u0103 lumea prezent\u0103 a exclamat c\u0103 a fost primul king show la care au asistat, c\u0103 a fost conving\u0103tor \u015fi interesant \u015fi c\u0103 nu am dat nici o clip\u0103 senza\u0163ia c\u0103 e prima mea ie\u015fire pe scen\u0103 ca “b\u0103rbat”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei aici a fost un mic moment amuzant, c\u00e2nd organizatorul, Bogdan, m-a \u00eentrebat: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Cum te cheam\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Faci mi\u015fto de mine? Eu sunt Lorena Lupu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Da, ok, dar nu po\u0163i ie\u015fi pe scen\u0103 ca drag king cu numele Lorena Lupu. Zi un nume. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-\u0102\u0103\u0103\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Hai, Lorena. Trebuie s\u0103 ai un nume de king. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Ok. Lore… Amore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
-OK. Lore Amore s\u0103 fie. Dar vezi c\u0103, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 mai faci drag, s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i Lore Amore, s\u0103 \u015ftie lumea c\u0103 e\u015fti acela\u015fi performer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bun. Partea bun\u0103 a acestui nume e c\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103 te apuci \u015fi de filme porno cu el. E de acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oricum, am \u00eemp\u0103r\u0163it acela\u015fi vestiar cu “fetele”. Eram singurul king, nu avea sens s\u0103 m\u0103 separe \u015fi nici nu mi-ar fi pl\u0103cut. O ga\u015fc\u0103 de drag queens e exact cum te a\u015ftep\u0163i s\u0103 fie o ga\u015fc\u0103 de drag queens: vesele, haotice \u015fi puse pe glume. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei mi-am dat seama, pe concret, c\u00e2t de u\u015foar\u0103 e via\u0163a b\u0103rbatului. Eu eram \u00een pantofi b\u0103rb\u0103te\u015fti comozi, c\u0103lcam pe toat\u0103 talpa, aveam unghiile mele scurte, \u00eemi puteam folosi m\u00e2inile cum binevoia pwla mea (aia special\u0103, rezervat\u0103 strict pentru binevoit chestii), \u015fi hainele b\u0103rb\u0103te\u015fti aveau linii drepte, comode, u\u015for de purtat. \u00cen schimb, colegele mele de suferin\u0163\u0103, omg… Tocuri de 15 cm, unghii (aplicate) de lungimi ame\u0163itoare, tot soiul de lenjerii \u015fi outfituri cu capse, catarame, prinz\u0103tori, chestii care se ag\u0103\u0163au \u015fi chestii care refuzau s\u0103 se aga\u0163e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Serios, via\u0163a b\u0103rbatului e de o simplitate de nedescris. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, pentru c\u0103 eu nu sunt un \u0163\u0103ran bor\u00e2t n\u0103scut cu misecuvenism de \u0163\u0103ran bor\u00e2t, ci un om care are experien\u0163a feminit\u0103\u0163ii \u00een tot disconfortul ei, am ajutat copios la \u00eenchis catarame, desc\u00e2lcit franjuri, prins capse sofisticate, \u0163inut po\u015fete \u015fi tot restul chestiilor, ca un gentleman adev\u0103rat. Nu de alta, dar eu m-am putut mi\u015fca infinit mai u\u015for \u015fi mai comod pe scen\u0103, am luat fix acelea\u015fi aplauze \u015fi fix aceia\u015fi bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu ca \u00een via\u0163a real\u0103, unde, dup\u0103 ce c\u0103 am avut treab\u0103 mult mai u\u015foar\u0103, a\u015f fi avut \u015fi pay gap \u00een favoarea mea, lol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doi ani de stat \u00een cas\u0103 fac minuni. At\u00e2t pentru entuziasmul interpre\u0163ilor, c\u00e2t \u015fi pentru acela al publicului. Rar am \u00eent\u00e2lnit oameni at\u00e2t de \u00eenfometa\u0163i de spectacol, \u00eenainte de pandemie. Oameni gata s\u0103 aplaude cu foc pentru cea mai mic\u0103 glumi\u0163\u0103, s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 \u00een hohote, s\u0103 s\u0103rb\u0103toreasc\u0103 din toat\u0103 inima c\u0103 e\u015fti acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi, a urmat petrecere. Petrecere la care am dansat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc p\u00e2n\u0103 la ora 2, \u015fi la ora 2, c\u00e2nd s-a pus cap\u0103t, c\u0103 at\u00e2ta \u0163inuse aprobarea de la autorit\u0103\u0163i, am sim\u0163it c\u0103 a\u015f mai fi dansat. Ca \u00een studen\u0163ie. Doi ani f\u0103r\u0103 petreceri te duc \u00eenapoi la stadiul de student sc\u0103pat de sub papuc matern strict \u015fi sever, pus pe zb\u00e2n\u0163uial\u0103, nebun\u0103, s\u0103 compenseze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei m\u0103 uitam eu, a\u015fa, la lumea din club. Oameni tineri \u015fi foarte tineri. At\u00e2t de frumo\u015fi, at\u00e2t de puri, at\u00e2t de bucuro\u015fi s\u0103 aib\u0103 un spa\u0163iu safe. Ce diferen\u0163\u0103 \u00eentre ei \u015fi l\u0103tr\u0103ii plini de hate care \u00eei spurc\u0103 \u015fi \u00eei h\u0103r\u0163uiesc pentru c\u0103 au preferin\u0163e sexuale diferite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, am ales tribul potrivit pentru mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103 simt privilegiat\u0103 s\u0103 explorez o art\u0103 “de ghei” \u015fi m\u0103 bucur c\u0103 mi-am re\u00eenceput activitatea public\u0103 pe scena “barului de ghei”. La mai multe \u015fi la mai mari. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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