{"id":22213,"date":"2021-08-15T10:06:32","date_gmt":"2021-08-15T07:06:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22213"},"modified":"2023-11-14T11:14:12","modified_gmt":"2023-11-14T08:14:12","slug":"cum-refuza-unele-femei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-refuza-unele-femei\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum refuz\u0103 unele femei"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri seara, \u00een metrou. St\u0103team eu cu g\u00e2ndul la ale mele. Vizavi de mine, un nene cam de 55 conversa cu o cucoan\u0103 de vreo 40. Din c\u00e2t de tare muncea s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u0219i o glum\u0103, s\u0103 evoce \u0219i vecinii din satul natal comun din care plecase el de mai de mult \u0219i ea recent, s\u0103 par\u0103 \u0219i de\u0219tept, era cam clar c\u0103 lui nenea \u00eei cam place tanti. Tanti chicotea de obliga\u021bie, mai povestea una-alta de vecini, de m\u0103mica, de t\u0103ticu, dar \u00een mod vizibil nu \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ea interesul. Nu doar c\u0103 nu \u00eel \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ea. Nici nu-l sesiza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, nenea prinde curaj \u0219i cere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-D\u0103 \u0219i mie num\u0103rul t\u0103u de telefon. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar cu intensitatea specific\u0103 cu care cere un b\u0103rbat num\u0103rul de telefon cu scopuri de a\u0219ternut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tanti \u00eencepe s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103. \u00cei picase \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it fisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehehehe, hehehehe, nu-l \u0219tiu., <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Cum s\u0103 nu-l \u0219tii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehehe. Uite, a\u0219a, nu \u021bin minte numere. Hehehehehe, hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-P\u0103i atunci scoate mobilul \u0219i sun\u0103-m\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-E desc\u0103rcat. Hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Literele sunt s\u0103race \u0219i goale. Nu am cum s\u0103 descriu acel hehehehe. At\u00e2t de stupid, at\u00e2t de f\u0103r\u0103 rost. \u0218tii, a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 te refuz, dar totodat\u0103, te pup \u00een c*** de zor, s\u0103 nu m\u0103 stric cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenea tace u\u0219or ofticat. \u00cen secunda aia, se aude un piuit de SMS din po\u0219eta cucoanei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Auzi, parc\u0103 ziceai c\u0103-i desc\u0103rcat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehe, al meu ciripe\u0219te a\u0219a \u0219i c\u00e2nd e desc\u0103rcat, hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenea mai tace pu\u021bin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Bine, am \u00een\u021beles.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Dar nu… hehehehehe. Hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Stai lini\u0219tit\u0103, am \u00een\u021beles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehehehe. Hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aici am cobor\u00e2t eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dragele mele, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu exist\u0103 ceva mai iritant dec\u00e2t genul \u0103sta de refuz care nu e tocmai refuz, dar stai, eu \u021bi-a\u0219 da num\u0103rul de telefon, s\u0103 mor io dac\u0103 te mint, numai c\u0103 am pierdut ultimele dou\u0103 cifre p\u00e2n Mega Image, cred c\u0103 le-a furat \u0103la din spate de la coad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 nu v\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 un b\u0103rbat, refuza\u021bi-l calm, politicos, dar hot\u0103r\u00e2t. “Iart\u0103-m\u0103, tataie, dar nu e\u015fti genul meu. Nu vreau s\u0103-\u0163i dau speran\u0163e aiurea, c\u0103 nu e frumos s\u0103 te duc cu z\u0103h\u0103relul dac\u0103 nu simt chestia aia. Nu e\u015fti tu, sunt eu. Nu mi se scoal\u0103 lindicul la tine. Sorry.” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bine, mai pu\u0163in ultima parte. c\u0103 face infarct \u00een metrou \u015fi s\u0103 vezi h\u00e2r\u0163og\u0103raie de completat. s\u0103 se absolve de vin\u0103 Metrorex, s\u0103 te ancheteze poli\u0163ia pe tine c\u0103 ai fost ultima persoan\u0103 care l-a v\u0103zut \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Voi \u00eei plimba\u0163i cu vorba \u00een ideea s\u0103 nu izbi\u0163i prea tare. Dar \u00een ochii lui nenea nu citeam: Ce dr\u0103gu\u0163 m\u0103 menajeaz\u0103 asta. Citeam: Ce dracu’, para\u015futa asta m\u0103 ia de prost? Crede c\u0103 nu \u015ftiu cum func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 un mobil? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat nu vrea ceva, refuz\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu. C\u00e2nd se izmene\u015fte \u00een acest mod, de obicei face mi\u015fto de interlocutor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015etiu c\u0103 educa\u0163ia tradi\u0163ional\u0103 zice s\u0103 fi\u0163i dr\u0103gu\u0163e. Dar uneori, mai ales \u00een domeniul propunerilor de genul \u0103la, un “nu” cinstit va fi mai bine primit dec\u00e2t jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 de eschiv\u0103, \u015fi \u0103la nici nu se va frustra at\u00e2t de tare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hehehehe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ea r\u00e2dea de jen\u0103, pe el citeam c\u0103 are impresia c\u0103 femeia r\u00e2de de el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N \u015fi U. Dou\u0103 litere. \u015ei ai economisit o ton\u0103 de timp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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