{"id":22228,"date":"2021-08-19T09:45:16","date_gmt":"2021-08-19T06:45:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22228"},"modified":"2021-08-19T09:45:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-19T06:45:17","slug":"cliseul-zilei-de-ce-nu-vorbim-despre-femeile-romance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cliseul-zilei-de-ce-nu-vorbim-despre-femeile-romance\/","title":{"rendered":"Cli\u015feul zilei: De ce nu vorbim despre femeile rom\u00e2nce"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A c\u0103zut Kabulul \u00een m\u00e2inile talibanilor. Surprinz\u0103tor de repede, ceea ce ne \u015fi explic\u0103 de ce americanii au abandonat \u00eentr-un final. E ca atunci c\u00e2nd tu te duci s\u0103 faci voluntariat pentru s\u0103raci, \u015fi pe urm\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 modul \u00een care \u00een\u0163eleg s\u0103racii ajutorul t\u0103u e ca ei s\u0103 stea cu p*l* \u00een sus toat\u0103 ziua \u015fi tu s\u0103 le speli \u015fi veceul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taman de aceea, eu nu a\u015f accepta nici un refugiat b\u0103rbat din aceast\u0103 \u0163ar\u0103. E\u015fti b\u0103rbat, ai avut 20 de ani de sprijin financiar \u015fi militar din partea americanilor, ai avut acces la instruirea \u015fi tehnica lor militar\u0103, \u015ftiai cu ce pericol te confrun\u0163i, dar n-ai \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 te lup\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 opui rezisten\u0163\u0103, pentru c\u0103 mizai c\u0103 fac americanii toat\u0103 munca pentru tine? Mori, \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii. E\u015fti complet degeaba \u015fi meri\u0163i castrat \u015fi folosit pe post de dam\u0103 de companie, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0163i se face anusul g\u0103leat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partea cu adev\u0103rat tragic\u0103 e constituit\u0103 de modul \u00een care gunoaiele acelea toxice \u015fi extremiste trateaz\u0103 femeile. \u015ei da, \u015fi femeile ar fi putut face training militar, mai ales c\u0103 \u015fi ele \u015ftiau exact ce le amenin\u0163\u0103. Dar dup\u0103 secole de condi\u0163ionare tradi\u0163ionalist\u0103 care \u00ee\u0163i spun c\u0103 e\u015fti slab\u0103, neputincioas\u0103 \u015fi la mila b\u0103rbatului, e greu s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti \u00een tine acel tip de putere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei, sub fiecare articol de pres\u0103 sau status care depl\u00e2ngea soarta femeilor afgane, ap\u0103reau Gigel \u015fi Vasilica: Dar de femeile rom\u00e2nce de ce nu scrie\u0163i nimic? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abera\u0163ia asta sinistr\u0103 m\u0103 scoate de fiecare dat\u0103 din s\u0103rite. \u015ei am explicat-o de mai multe ori pe acest site, cu urm\u0103toarea analogie: Scrii un text intitulat Povestea unui m\u0103r ro\u015fu. Adic\u0103, invi\u0163i la un dialog despre mere ro\u015fii. Hop, idio\u0163i care nu doneaz\u0103 nici m\u0103car un eurocent, dar au impresia c\u0103 tu ai o datorie s\u0103 iei ordine de la ei, de parc\u0103 ai lua procent de la providerul la care pl\u0103tesc ei internet, \u015fi \u00eencep: Dar de ce nu scrii despre mere verzi??? Heeei, ai uitat despre merele verzi??? Insinuezi c\u0103 merele verzi nu sunt actuale \/ valabile \/ pline de vitamine? Ai o problem\u0103 cu merele verzi???? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, azi scriu despre mere ro\u015fii, c\u0103 acesta e subiectul ales de mine, \u00een calitate de creator de content st\u0103p\u00e2n pe mijloacele lui de crea\u0163ie. Vrei ceva despre mere verzi? E paypalul \u0103la mai jos, izbe\u015fte cu o dona\u0163ie care s\u0103 justifice preten\u0163ia ta de a-mi spune ce s\u0103 fac, \u015fi \u00een noti\u0163a aferent\u0103, \u00eemi poveste\u015fti ce subiecte \u0163i-ar pl\u0103cea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar abera\u0163ia asta sinistr\u0103 e cu at\u00e2t mai insult\u0103toare acum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Constitu\u0163ional, femeile rom\u00e2nce au absolut acelea\u015fi drepturi ca orice b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sub regim taliban \u015fi conform legii sharia, femeile afgane nu pot ie\u015fi din cas\u0103 dec\u00e2t mascate \u00een negru p\u00e2n\u0103 la irecognoscibil, \u00eenso\u0163ite de un b\u0103rbat. Dac\u0103 are \u0103la chef s\u0103 le \u00eenso\u0163easc\u0103. \u015ei care a\u0163i \u00eencercat s\u0103 convinge\u0163i un coleg de apartament s\u0103 vin\u0103 cu voi p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een whatever loc \u015fti\u0163i exact despre ce vorbesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeile rom\u00e2nce pot munci \u00een orice domeniu profesional. Da, ca inginer sau ca IT, ai parte de mult bullying de la gigei balcanici misogini \u015fi tic\u0103lo\u015fi, dar dac\u0103 e\u015fti st\u0103p\u00e2n\u0103 pe tine \u015fi pe ce \u015ftii, \u00ee\u0163i bagi pwla \u00een mor\u0163ii lor \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i faci treaba cu satisfac\u0163ia c\u0103 simpla ta existen\u0163\u0103 e o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 femeile POT face ce vor ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am fost printre primii bloggeri rom\u00e2ni femei. \u015ei \u00een 2007, internetul rom\u00e2nesc era o jungl\u0103 pentru o femeie. Plin\u0103 de c\u0103ca\u0163i misogini pu\u015fi pe har\u0163\u0103 \u015fi pe abuz verbal, doar pentru c\u0103 erai o femeie cu o opinie. DAR LEGAL AVEAM DREPTUL \u015eI PUTEREA S\u0102 SCRIU \u015eI NU M-AM AB\u0102TUT DE LA ASTA. Cu satisfac\u0163ia c\u0103 simpla mea existen\u0163\u0103 era o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 femeile POT face ce vor ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 bloggeri\u0163ele care au urmat ar avea un pic de integritate, ar recunoa\u015fte aspectul: Hei, simplul fapt c\u0103 Lorena Lupu era acolo \u015fi nu se l\u0103sa intimidat\u0103 de cocina din comentarii a fost o inspira\u0163ie s\u0103 \u00eemi fac \u015fi eu vocea auzit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeile afgane au fost trimise acas\u0103 de la joburile lor zilele trecute \u015fi li s-a spus s\u0103 trimit\u0103 rudele b\u0103rba\u0163i din familie s\u0103 le \u00eenlocuiasc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Can you even f***ing believe this? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 munce\u015fti ca un nebun pentru o pozi\u0163ie \u00een societate sau pentru ni\u015fte realiz\u0103ri, \u015fi apoi s\u0103 \u0163i se impun\u0103 s\u0103 treci la crati\u0163\u0103, pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 loteria genetic\u0103 te-a \u00eenzestrat \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor cu o p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 \u00eentre picioare? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bine, recunosc, dac\u0103 a\u015f \u015fti c\u0103 m-ar pa\u015fte o atare primejdie, mi-a\u015f \u00eencepe instant preg\u0103trea militar\u0103 hardcore, \u015fi fie a\u015f muri cu un extremist de g\u00e2t, fie i-a\u015f omor\u00ee unul c\u00e2te unul, \u015fi a\u015f savura momentul c\u00e2nd ultima suflare le p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte corpul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeile rom\u00e2nce au dreptul s\u0103 studieze ce vor ele, iar criteriile de admitere, de\u015fi afectate de corup\u0163ie \u015fi nepotism, sunt pretty much acelea\u015fi pentru toat\u0103 lumea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sub legea sharia, femeile NU au voie s\u0103 studieze. Trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2t mai needucate \u015fi ignorante, s\u0103 fie u\u015for manipulabile \u015fi controlabile, s\u0103 li se insufle no\u0163iunea de inferioritate care s\u0103 justifice preten\u0163ia de gratuitate pentru toat\u0103 munca lor, \u015fi, important, s\u0103 dea mai departe urma\u015felor aceste idei de inferioritate \u015fi supunerea fa\u0163\u0103 de misecuvenism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sub regimul taliban, femeile sunt simple unelte de munc\u0103 domestic\u0103 \u015fi ma\u015fini de reproducere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen Rom\u00e2nia, ca femeie, majoritatea lucrurilor oribile care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 unei femei sunt cauzate de s\u0103r\u0103cie, educa\u0163ie precar\u0103 \u015fi decizii personale foarte, foarte proaste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar multe pot fi prevenite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Scoate complet gigeii toxici din via\u0163a ta, nu pune botul la minciunile lor, nu face copii dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti preg\u0103tit\u0103 \u015fi mai ales nu cu genul de b\u0103rbat care nu \u00ee\u015fi asum\u0103 partea lui de parenting, nu trage \u00een jos alte femei, educ\u0103-te, ai grij\u0103 de s\u0103n\u0103tatea ta, cere s\u0103 fii pl\u0103tit\u0103 corect pentru munca prestat\u0103, nu tolera abuzurile and U ARE FINE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stai departe de organiza\u0163ii care \u00ee\u0163i atac\u0103 drepturile, cum ar fi BOR, AUR \u015fi CPF, al c\u0103ror scop ultim e s\u0103 te bage \u00eenapoi la crati\u0163\u0103. Acum, ai modelul de extremism vizibil chiar \u00een zilele voastre \u015fi po\u0163i con\u015ftientiza c\u0103, \u00een marj\u0103 mai mare sau mai mic\u0103, rolul h\u0103r\u0103zit femeii de tradi\u0163ionali\u015fti este cam acela\u015fi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen Rom\u00e2nia, ai libertatea de a acumula putere economic\u0103, informa\u0163ie \u015fi de a-\u0163i folosi libertatea cum vrei tu. \u015ei, important: urm\u0103toarea genera\u0163ie e \u00een m\u00e2inile tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 multe nu fac asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 multe at\u00e2rn\u0103 de c\u00e2te un gigel care se \u015fterge pe adida\u015fi cu ele sau de c\u00e2te un angajator care \u00ee\u015fi bate joc de drepturile lor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen Rom\u00e2nia, NU LE OBLIG\u0102 NIMENI S-O FAC\u0102. \u0162ine de tine s\u0103 spui stop. Sub regimul taliban, nu ai de ales. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fa c\u0103 da, vom vorbi \u00een continuare de femei afgane. Inclusiv pentru ca femeile rom\u00e2nce s\u0103 nu ajung\u0103 acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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